Threesome request by girlfriend. Yay or nay?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend made an unusual request of threesome. Like me and another guy of my choosing and her. Now on paper that sounds interesting, but she is like 18. What if she regrets later? Worse, what if I regret later? What if I see friend of mine who participated with us everytime I see her?

So my question for guys who have had threesome is did it worsen the love between you? Question to girls is did you regret later that this chapter was a part of your life?

[NamerOfStars]

It's the kind of thing you REALLY need to be careful with- the human brain wasn't meant to detach sexuality from feelings, and adding a whole other person in... it's playing with fire. Some people say they can have sex casually without risk, and it may be true, but it's NOT a common thing.

I'd tell your girlfriend no, but politely: explain why, and see if there's another way you can satisfy the same desires, at least partially, that you're both comfortable with- say, bringing a toy in if she wants to experience double penetration. Be firm, but be respectful; work together and don't just blow her off.

[Drumlin2001]

Be honest. Do you really see yourself marrying this girl. and having a family with her?
More than likely your going to break up at something, she's 18 and clearly wants to experience things. Just go with it, enjoy it. Maybe don't choose a friend you'll see around a lot.

[Koneko911]

I tend to sorta be biased in what some would say is a rude manner. I 100% do not think a man should ever agree to a threesome involving another man unless he is bisexual and would be ok with a man. However if she wanted another girl and you were cool with it also I'd say go for it. But jo this is a bad idea tell her no

[Koneko911]

@Yuwuy because women tend to be way more open to being with another girl than a said straight man

[Koneko911]

@Yuwuy pretty much. Or have the potential to be at least

[Koneko911]

@Yuwuy straight or gay. Men tend to not be bisexual

[Koneko911]

@Yuwuy no idea. Don't actually care or get why you seem so damn interested in what I think

[Koneko911]

@Yuwuy and I'm curious 2 know y the fuck it matters so much

[Asker]

It shows 93% of men and 87% of women identify as complete hetrosexuals.

[Nikki1989]

I don't know why any woman would want to be with a second guy.

[Asker]

Her words not mine - I want to explore more. Since I am her first.

[RobT312]

Big fan, but only if the both of u are into it and find the right person. Otherwise it may not be fun. Anyways, after trying it it made our relationship closer.

[summiter]

It may mess things up for both of u. Be careful...

[Asker]

Yeah I am scared of that as well.

[Fireguy17]

No crossing swords.

[abc--123]

May aswell take the opportunity

[Anonymous]

It's a big no. Ffm threesome would be ok

[Anonymous]

Nay.