Threesome with my boyfriend?

I recently had a threesome with my boyfriend (25) and a friend of mine (f 24). It started as a joke because my boyfriend is very buff (a bit gym obsessed) and we said it'd be fun to tease him. We challenged him to strip to his underwear for us and let us tie him up. Sex was great for the three of us. Now I feel guilty and I find it difficult to see my boyfriend as before. What should I do?

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  • Communicate with him your intentions prior to the threesome and how you feel now. He’s still your boyfriend and he’s not going to know how you feel if you don’t tell him. Then talk about where you guys can go from here. Set up boundaries and get a gauge on how he feels about the situation and his feelings now. See if you guys can work through with it. If not then take this as a life lesson and learn from it. It’s hard to undo what has happen, you can control what you do from now on and think about what you really want.

    • Thanks. He really enjoyed and for him not much changed between us. But for me it's different. To be honest I really liked the idea of dominating him together with another girl. I'm surprised and a bit ashamed. My friend would like to do it again but I'm not sure.

Most Helpful Girl

  • This is why you shouldn’t do threesomes in a relationship. It changes things when you see someone you care about having sex or doing sexual things with another girl. It’s something that can’t be undone and it can undermine your relationship. It’s better to experience something like that in a casual sex situation where you don’t have any emotional attachment because then it is purely just sex.

    • I have mixed feelings about it

Most Helpful Guys

  • Your boyfriend is a lucky guy & that was nice of you to treat him to a threesome & maybe in the future you can treat him again.

  • It sounds like it complicated things. I would have a long face to face with him and tell how you feel.

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  • Share how you feel I'm always open for venting!

    Really that changed how you see him of course it would!

    Yet guys throw it around constantly like nothing!

    This sounds serious and it is you won't see him as you did before!

    Any feelings about what your friend did or just he is not as manly as before?

    • Thanks! I feel embarassed that I like it. And a bit jelous of my friend too. But I don't see him less manly. To me he showed he's very strong and could handle us. My friend would like to do it again. I 'm not sure and I don't want to ask him before I make up my mind.

    • Well then take time and think you might have liked her enjoying him to you showing your hot man off to a close friend showing your sex life while your all naked! Only if your comfy going again but really be alone with him a few times! What does she want to do this time?

    • She wants to have another meet up like the other time. She's very much into his body. But we would meet at her place.

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  • why do u feel guilty?

    what do u see differently about him?

  • U can do nth
    U did mistake when u let ur friend jump on him 👀

    • She wants to do it again

    • Sure she do So what if he liked her more than u? Will u let her for him?

    • Why u do share ur boyfriend

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