Tips for anal beginners?

Soooo after putting it off for so long what are some tips? I do want my hole stretched out
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  • I'm not an anal master but I've had some successes.
    Make sure you're empty.
    If you get to the point of anal sex you generally have to adjust your diet so there's no surprises.
    There are some little enemas you can buy.
    Shower first and let him explore with a finger and then wash thoroughly.
    I got an ex girlfriend started with carrots.
    Of course, make sure that it's clean and free of bumps.
    Break it in half, use the thick part in her pussy and the thinner part in her ass. Focus at the start with movement in the pussy while she gets used to cumming with something in her asshole but not yet moving.
    Lube!
    When she's used to cumming with something in her asshole then start moving the object in her asshole in and out.
    Then we worked with zucchini. Pick the sizes you're comfortable with. It was kinda fun to be in the produce section thinking about the sizes she could handle.
    When she's really horny she can take more than she thinks she can while picking them.
    You've got to work up to it though and she's got to enjoy it. The goal for her (for us anyway) is not for her "to take the biggest possible" but to enjoy anything and everything we do.
    Clear expectations and clear communication and patience... and don't forget, it's the girl's asshole so it's all up to her.

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    • Tell us how it goes! And if you cum anally... BONUS!!!

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  • Slow, no hurry, try to be totally relaxed...

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  • I am probably repeating what others have said, but here is my advice.
    Get a small butt plug... like thumb size to start with. And maybe a bigger one for later.
    Get some good lube too, water based is preferred, and one the is more organic too.
    Get used to the small plug, then go on up to the bigger plug. Once you master those, then try one of your adult toys and see if that is okay and comfortable.
    Go slow and easy, always. Lots of lube (keep towels down and handy).
    Hopefully your partner has enough sense to go easy and communicate with you when the magic night happens. And get an enima for that. Be clean.
    Have fun.

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    • You are very welcome... let me know how it goes... privately of course, :)

  • lube, lube and more lube. oh and maybe practice with a dildo too

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    • good luck x

  • Use lots of lubricants unless it will be painful

  • lots of lube and yea thats about it

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  • LOTS OF LUBE LOL... AND SLOW PENETRATION

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    • have you tried it?

  • Relaxation, lots of lube, buttplugs help warm you up.

  • Get turned on first. Start with a very small plug use tons of lube. Put it in yourself

  • start fingering it make it wet

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  • Use lube and stop. if it hurts

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  • Rimming finger lube small toys build up to a cock and relax that ass makes it easier on both will not hurt as much

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  • Go slow, use lots of lube, do it with yourself or someone you really trust, start with fingers or small toys and work your way up to larger things

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  • That’s totally disgusting, and I would never do that.
    Its homosexual and I’m heterosexual pussy man

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  • Lube often lube a lot. Practice with plugs. Every time you may have to start from scratch small plug to big. Anus muscles are probably designed to stretch temporarily and then go back to normal right after. Breath, do relaxing exercises. And listen to experienced. Which I don't have enough.

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    • You are very welcome.

  • Isn't it better oral sex? :):)

  • Go slow!

    Use a lot of lube.

  • Use lots of lube and have him use his fingers/buttplug/beeds first

  • Best advice I can give is to spend some time on your own training your ass. Get some good water based lube (not oil or silicone based) and a butt plug with a small tip that tapers to a diameter that is similar to that of your man's dick. Use it while you masturbate to gently stretch your ass until you are comfortable with the size. And most importantly, take it slow, enjoy yourself and have lots of orgasms while you do it because that associates the sensations of anal stimulation with pleasure in your brain. Women who are introduced to anal properly tend to learn to love it because it can give them the most intense orgasms they've ever had.

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  • Get drunk and use lots of vasoline

    • Nope that is wrong, use loob please

    • Lube*