Tips for giving a blowjob?

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I gave head for the first time a few months ago, and I surprisingly really loved it lol he said I did great and I swallowed so I guess I did do good. I still feel like I can do better tho and my only goal is to make sure that I’m pleasing him good enough. So what are some techniques/things your partner does that you love when you’re receiving head that drives you crazyyy and you love?

kittycat119 · Accepted Answer

Well u must know don't use your teeth. I think the best thing I could tell u is b comfortable and breath out of your nose. Make sure his penis is super wet (even if u have to lick and spit on it) the spit keeps from hurting him. Try slowly licking the tip and flicking your tongue over the hole at the top, then after he starts to enjoy it slowly start to take him n2 your mouth going deeper every time u pull out, but make sure u r using your hand to slowly jerk him off as well. But don't forget to every so often to just pulll out completly and then start to slowly lick each side this way u make sure to get everywhere and it keeps him wet. And if u r feeling daring take each of his testicles n2 your mouth and gently suck on them while slowly stroking his penis or suck him off while gently rubbing them guys love it. Also before u even start 2 blow him, u could start by slowly trailing kisses down from his chest 2 his stomach. And then eventually make it 2 the inside of his thighs, making sure 2 not kiss his penis yet. And as soon as u can hear him panting and getting excited that's when u start 2 take him n your mouth. But male sure you get his anticipation high and make him want u, And make him need u 2 touch him. Lol just message me if u need more help

tinyclit · Accepted Answer

If he's cumming and you're enjoying swallowing his cum and really loving it, then the important elements are in place and you're definitely pleasing him good enough. I'd say you're on the right track. Adding additional enthusiasm can never hurt. Be careful with adding variety as it sounds like you're already doing it perfectly for him if not very close to it. I mean when you're already doing that good, you don't want to upset the apple cart in the process. I know people say that porn is not educational, but I disagree with that. I suggest going on over to pornhub. com and typing "cum swallowing compilation" into the search box. Watch and learn. Same goes for cock sucking, deep throating and throat fucking. If you can master it, there's enough variety there to blow your guy's mind. Add a little lite BDSM and such and you're on your way to making him think he's a god. :)

jacquesvol · Accepted Answer

There are quite a few takes about that on the site.: . . . . NSFW !, this one!: . And then there's menthol too. Pick your choice Don't overdo it, he might think you're a pro, ;-)

Dim1213 · Answer

Communicate Ask him what he enjoyed about it and if he would like you to try or do something else next time.

LoganShultz · Answer

Don't show teeth, use good suction. SWALLOW!

PoliceLivesMatter · Answer

Bite.  It helps

NateTheNuke333 · Answer

Take your time and pay attention to his reactions to what you are doing, I enjoy the majority of the attention to be on my tip.

VatsalRV · Answer

Never experienced that before but I've heard that he shouldn't use ur teeth flick the hole on the head with ur tongue and trying to go deeper will please the best way

GingerGuy · Answer

Ask the specific guy because we are all different. What works for one, may not for another. Example some guys love "sloppy" bj's but not me lol. There's different pressure etc as well. So it vary much varies from guy to guy.

CookieCutter2 · Answer

two hands twist under motion Source: I am an adult film actor, I know

AvgCdnJoe · Answer

Everyone is different. Just like masturbation everyone has their own techniques. Everyone has their own preference. It will be a lot of trial and error and communication.

gnarllye · Answer

hide yo teeth... every 5 to 10 sec go deep if you can... try to make eye contact. . plzz dont bite... i dont know why people are saying bite, just use tongue

Engel30 · Answer

Do not, I repeat, do not use tour teeth, and be gentle with the balls

Howells · Answer

-Deeper as you possibly can -no teeth -visual contact Thats all

burpzzzzz · Answer

Use your tongue a lot especially on the tip of the penis. You can use a small ice cube put in the tip of the penis and suck the ice. The temperature difference will make his penis sensitive.

thelifeofaidan · Answer

DON'T NEGLECT THE BALLS

notarealperson · Answer

I mean aside from avoiding using your teeth, deepthroating doesn't feel like as amazing as you would think, I still do it every time though, but I use me tongue more and that feels p good

disgustingweebtrash · Answer

Use your teeth

rabbit91 · Answer

I'm Bi I been told byy every guy I've been with that it's amazing head... the key I think is enthusiasm , if you love what your doing

scorpiohunter74 · Answer

Be passionate. Look in his eyes

Rajk12 · Answer

i like the sound of blow job and i like holding her hair while blowjob and I like to hold her head and pound and spit the cum to her face

Glen68 · Answer

Keep going after he cums and make him cum again. The second orgasm is even better

phild_par · Answer

ho yes it can be great. the advise i would give you is to ask him what he wants, let him talk and do as he ask. we are all different.

eagle1951 · Answer

what did he have to say after?

Kaldro22 · Answer

Give him a footjob, those feel amaaazing with lube.

aquaguy · Answer

Wow, I never get a blowjob. but if you ask me I like it sloppy and deepthroat, and a lot of tongue play with hot kissing

mrDgent · Answer

Use eye contact!

Αργυρης · Answer

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Anonymous · Answer

as deep as you can go and tourning your head while doing it (not like sideways so it gets to your teeth but like spinning motion while you go down or when you reach the end) try to do it in diff speeds but watch it so you dont twist his member too much. had a girlfriend that was doing that to me, damn that felt good *.*

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