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Tips for giving a blowjob?

I gave head for the first time a few months ago, and I surprisingly really loved it lol he said I did great and I swallowed so I guess I did do good. I still feel like I can do better tho and my only goal is to make sure that I’m pleasing him good enough. So what are some techniques/things your partner does that you love when you’re receiving head that drives you crazyyy and you love?
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  • Well u must know don't use your teeth. I think the best thing I could tell u is b comfortable and breath out of your nose. Make sure his penis is super wet (even if u have to lick and spit on it) the spit keeps from hurting him. Try slowly licking the tip and flicking your tongue over the hole at the top, then after he starts to enjoy it slowly start to take him n2 your mouth going deeper every time u pull out, but make sure u r using your hand to slowly jerk him off as well. But don't forget to every so often to just pulll out completly and then start to slowly lick each side this way u make sure to get everywhere and it keeps him wet. And if u r feeling daring take each of his testicles n2 your mouth and gently suck on them while slowly stroking his penis or suck him off while gently rubbing them guys love it. Also before u even start 2 blow him, u could start by slowly trailing kisses down from his chest 2 his stomach. And then eventually make it 2 the inside of his thighs, making sure 2 not kiss his penis yet. And as soon as u can hear him panting and getting excited that's when u start 2 take him n your mouth. But male sure you get his anticipation high and make him want u, And make him need u 2 touch him. Lol just message me if u need more help

    • You really sound like you know what your doing your turning me on lol

    • The guys you do this to probably still remember you as giving the best head they've ever had

    • @Glen68 I've only given oral to one guy

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  • If he's cumming and you're enjoying swallowing his cum and really loving it, then the important elements are in place and you're definitely pleasing him good enough. I'd say you're on the right track. Adding additional enthusiasm can never hurt. Be careful with adding variety as it sounds like you're already doing it perfectly for him if not very close to it. I mean when you're already doing that good, you don't want to upset the apple cart in the process. I know people say that porn is not educational, but I disagree with that. I suggest going on over to pornhub. com and typing "cum swallowing compilation" into the search box. Watch and learn. Same goes for cock sucking, deep throating and throat fucking. If you can master it, there's enough variety there to blow your guy's mind. Add a little lite BDSM and such and you're on your way to making him think he's a god. :)

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  • Communicate
    Ask him what he enjoyed about it and if he would like you to try or do something else next time.

  • Don't show teeth, use good suction. SWALLOW!

  • Bite.
    It helps

  • Take your time and pay attention to his reactions to what you are doing, I enjoy the majority of the attention to be on my tip.

  • Never experienced that before but I've heard that he shouldn't use ur teeth flick the hole on the head with ur tongue and trying to go deeper will please the best way

  • Ask the specific guy because we are all different. What works for one, may not for another. Example some guys love "sloppy" bj's but not me lol. There's different pressure etc as well. So it vary much varies from guy to guy.

    • One tip probably most guys will agree on is don't neglect the balls! Women often do and we like the entire area played with. It feels good!

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    Source: I am an adult film actor, I know

  • Everyone is different. Just like masturbation everyone has their own techniques. Everyone has their own preference. It will be a lot of trial and error and communication.

  • hide yo teeth... every 5 to 10 sec go deep if you can... try to make eye contact. . plzz dont bite... i dont know why people are saying bite, just use tongue

  • Do not, I repeat, do not use tour teeth, and be gentle with the balls

  • -Deeper as you possibly can
    -no teeth
    -visual contact
    Thats all

  • Use your tongue a lot especially on the tip of the penis. You can use a small ice cube put in the tip of the penis and suck the ice. The temperature difference will make his penis sensitive.

  • DON'T NEGLECT THE BALLS

  • I mean aside from avoiding using your teeth, deepthroating doesn't feel like as amazing as you would think, I still do it every time though, but I use me tongue more and that feels p good

  • Use your teeth

  • I'm Bi I been told byy every guy I've been with that it's amazing head... the key I think is enthusiasm , if you love what your doing

  • Be passionate. Look in his eyes

  • i like the sound of blow job and i like holding her hair while blowjob and I like to hold her head and pound and spit the cum to her face

  • Keep going after he cums and make him cum again. The second orgasm is even better

  • ho yes it can be great. the advise i would give you is to ask him what he wants, let him talk and do as he ask. we are all different.

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