Tips for having anal sex for the first time and what to expect?

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  • I'm a gay man and a total bottom who just loves getting penetrated anally. If done right, anal sex does not really hurt at all, but can be a great source of pleasure for the person receiving it.

    The key to success is physical and mental preparation. The physical part requires a clean hole and a lot of lubrication where water-based lubricants often work the best. As for cleanliness, I would recommend making sure you have a complete bowel movement and a good shower before getting fucked. As you can guess, food that helps digestion will also work here to your benefit, like fibers, etc.

    The mental part is about relaxing your body and your asshole. Once your hole relaxes, it can stretch beyond your wildest imagination to help take your man's cock into you...

    A butt-plug may also help. This has been one of my biggest helpers to stretch my hole in order to be able to accommodate guys with really thick cocks. To that end, I'd recommend starting with a small enough plug that you can wear at the beginning. But, it should still be thick enough so you can feel the walls of your asshole stretching a little. After wearing that for a few days, you can gradually move to the next larger size, and then increase the size of the plug to really thick ones that you could not have accommodated at the beginning. This way, I've been able to enjoy really humongous cocks in my ass. I sure hope you will, as well!..

    Finally, the position of anal sex is also important, especially for the person taking it. That could depend on gender, but also personal anatomy. My favorite position getting fucked is the missionary position. Lying on my back with my man on top of me while raising my legs over his shoulders proved to be the most natural position for me where I always draw a lot of pleasure.

    Please feel free to write back if you have any more questions. Good luck!..

  • I wish you could search opinions lol.

    anyhow here goes.

    you need to read up on it a bit, Gay literature is really informative (funny thing that).

    One of the most important things is understanding dilation, it’s one of the main reasons someone finds Anal sex painful, unlike a vagina, your ass is is not just a walk in wardrobe.

    Then understand Hygiene, how to make sure yours and or his ass is clean.

    Then it’s understanding lubes, personally I prefer hybrid lubes, as does not bugger toys up and water can get absorbed quick so you use more.

    https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/g29003553/best-anal-lube/

    Toys, start small and practice with a small toy to get the idea of taking it slow and gentle, remember that dilation thing. Use the toy in different positions to find out which one works best. It really is an idea to use the toy on the guy so he appreciates it, learning things is how we gain experience.

    once you have got used to dilation, found a decent lube, used to having a toy in your ass, best position, then you can move on to anal sex with a penis.

    the next thing is condom or not condom really, without a condom watch out for cum splatter.

    Take it slow, take it gentle and easy, it’s not a race, it’s not drilling for oil.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Before you start: Be sure you are at least somewhat practiced with fingers or toys. Get accustomed to the feeling of being opened up and having something in there. Try to empty yourself to the extent you can. Relax. During: Have and use plenty of lube, silicone is best. Decide on a position. Easiest is on your back, legs up and open. Communicate. Have privacy you may gasp or yell at first. It will hurt. Go slow. It will feel very full and tight and may feel like you need to use the bathroom. After: You will feel loose and sore and need to use the bathroom. The soreness may last a few hours or a day or two. You may feel odd for a day or two longer before returning to normal.

  • Anal sex doesn’t have to hurt. Just like losing your virginity doesn’t have to hurt. It’s all about learning what to do.

    • PM me if you’d like to know the technique.

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  • It'll hurt. Use a lot of lube, take your time and try to relax.

    • And don't do on a full stomach. Lol. Or something like that 😊

  • Start with toys and plenty of lube on your own and get used to it this way before you start with him.

  • Try your dildo in there first. Likely it will hurt like hell.
    It's your shit-hole honey.

  • You need lube suck as KY lube and he put a lot in your hole and around massage em put it step by step, you will be fine, painful at first
    Never try to any girl before but that's what i though can be done

  • Expect
    So pain or so plesure. Its depends on your partner skills.

  • Be ready to befriend lubes, that is lesson 1.

  • Foreplay before penetration and too much lubrication for both partners on their genitals

  • Hurts so much

  • Start with a partner you trust and go very slow. If he has a big cock you might start with fingers or a small plug or dildo to get warmed up. Use lots of lube. Too much lube is better than not enough. Once he is inside, again going slow, have him just stay still as you get used to him. Once your comfortable have him fuck you hard, it feels great!
    I have a tgirl friend with a really big cock and she fucks me, so i’ve done it to a girl and have had it done to me as well.

  • Find a position that’s comfortable. It’s not like vaginal sex where you can be penetrated in pretty much any angle and it’s comfortable. If one position hurts then try another. The position that works for my wife and I is her on her back while I penetrate her.

  • The best advice I can give you is don't have anal sex until you have adequately trained your ass. That makes the difference between a painful experience and a pleasurable one.

    Get a good tapered butt plug and some quality water based lube and spend a few months gently dilating your ass and learning to relax the muscles. Do it while you masturbate so you have lots of orgasms that way. Don't have anal sex with a guy until you're ready.

  • I've never done it but I've had an interest in it for some time now to do it to a willing and consent adult woman my age.

    My assumptions would only be, use a water based lubricant easily bought, use a condom too, and go slow, be excited and not stressed, and ensure you're doing it with a very trusting and very delicate male partner. You know.

    Otherwise where's the trust and where's the expectation he'll treat you nicely as opposed to a piece of meat for his pleasure only.

    And finally do take care not to get injured. Or maybe he may be too well endowed. Just keep those in mind.

    • @Asker and doggy-style i love the thought of the best. Raw and natural. Or making the unnatural look natural. Lol. Cleanch those fists and bite into those pillows 😁

    • *clench 😋