Tips for massaging a penis before a hand job/while making out? Like over his pants or underwear?

I rub it up and down but I feel like it doesn't turn him on. I need tips!
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  • Happy to advise

  • Put your hand in his pants

  • in the hand job an blowjob just don't twist it with both hands... please

  • I like when she moves her hands over my underwear slowly and firmly and gradually tightens her fingers around my penis.

  • My guess is you lost your virginity at 18

  • Of course he won't be turned on over his pants unless they are thin and you are massaging hard. Just ask him you know him better than us if you're making out with him. I prefer she reaches inside but only if her hands are washed

  • I like gentle touches up & down the shaft. Or a gentle rub up & down and on tips over thick material like jeans

  • Over pants (especially jeans) is really pointless. He won't feel it enough likely to do much for him. Underwear is better. Or reach in, even better yet.

  • Try kissing him while rubbing his penis

  • The brain is the most powerful sex organ in the body. Tell him things that will get him sexually excited and turned-on, then you will have no need to physically stimulate him to make him "hard"