Tips for spicing your sex life up?



Any ideas for sex surprises for your man or spicing your sex life up?

I have tried sexy lingeri, nursing costume, maid costume, sensual massages, unexpected blowjobs and such. We have had sex in public in a train toilette and in a park, I think it is hot to have sex semi risky places.

I am not too much into role playing or pain, three somes and such is nooo.
Tips for spicing your sex life up?
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  • Bed restraints, blindfold, vibrators, candles, massage oils, clit stimulating gels, sex wedge pillows etc, etc. For me it's tying her down, blindfolding, giving her a sensual body oily body massage, oral, use toys on her and edge her. When she's ready and can't take no more, just get in that wet hot pussy and give it to her good and try to cum at the same time. One thing for her that spices up for me is she gets her nails done and then uses them on me. Tickling, light scratching, to heavy scratching and digging as things get deeper. Such a turn on and I cum so hard!! Her nails are great when getting a nice oily sensual handjob too!

  • Build up his hopes , and then pull back a bit. Tease. Repeat many times.
    Can be done in many ways -- little notes, little pictures, little toys, etc.
    Do NOT be overt- build up that foreplay. Create some anticipation!
    Be like Alfred Hitchcock, master of suspense!

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  • You could do a boudoir photo shoot for him. Or maybe buy a toy you could use on him. We have a ribbed sleeve called the playmate that we like.

  • You don’t need to role play or be in to pain for some aspects.

    one of the important bits is suggestion and creating a want in the other person.

    building anticipation.

    you can role play as yourselves, just write notes or txts, although I really believe in old fashioned notes and letters to really build it up.

    create that suggestion and build up anticipation.

  • with all that you have done already, have you tried just being you?

    • Yes i name what five things, being together for years you have had sex hundreds or thousands of times, so I think I have tried that minimum once.

  • Yeah

    Tips for spicing your sex life up?
    • Hot af

  • As long as you're trying you're ahead a lot of the rest. Kudos.

    • Have you asked him what turns him on? What his fetishes are?

  • All what you suggest on a weekend away together would be hot

  • my guess is you are submissive in the bedroom

  • My favorite thing my girlfriend did was to put her butt plug in without telling me and letting me discover it on my own. So fucking hot.

  • well looks like you two went a little too fast
    But it's ok because there are lots of things you can do
    it's hard for me to write them so I will just leave a pro talking about it

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jqnkXufLM4A
    • Why too fast. We have been together four years.

    • oh if that's the case it's ok, I thought you two were together for a short amount of time sorry my bad