Tips for trying doggy for the first time?

[Anonymous]

So we my bf and i tried doggy style for the first time on the weekend. i never have done it before, and he has with his ex girlfriend. So i was on all fours when he told me to get my torso close to the bed, then he tried to enter. He tried a few times but kept poking around as if he was going for anal which i'm not down for, so after a little bit i jokingly said that's the wrong hole. I'd love to be able to try it though. Does anyone have any tips for the girl or the guy for better chances of making it work?

[SaVes]

You have to push your upper body down to the bed as much as possible, and at the same time push your butt up. That will make for a better angle for him to penetrate you more easily.

Just try around a bit with him before you actually start.

See what works best. If your body heights (especially legs) are very different, then try putting something underneath you, so to make yourself higher and easier accessible for him.

[theguyisback]

Great answer.. Spreading your knees apart to adjust hight, and spread of labia can also help a lot too :)

[kheserthorpe]

arch your back, not up like a cat, but down like it sounds like he was trying to.

If he's coming in from too high an angle, it would help if you have your knees closer (raises you up, also makes it tighter). His legs can be on the outside, he can spread further to get lower.

[manimal_]

just make sure your back curves down and not up. I don't think many guys like turtles... But in all seriousness, honestly we just can't see, so it helps if the woman grabs and guides us. It is easier to enter if you push your pussy out while arching your back.

[SüßeJäger]

I don't know why it wouldn't work. It should go in rather easy if you had your butt up and your chest down. Im not crazy about this position myself but some of my gfs liked it. I like missionary or girl on top facing me. I want to see everything of hers, boobs, tummy, face, eyes etc.

[DodgersGM]

It just sounds like you guys aren't getting the right angle.

Are you resting your forearms on the bed? Try getting as much of your body on the bed as possible, as that will raise your butt up into the air and should give easier access.

If you find it uncomfortable try putting a pillow under your torso to help with support.

[theguyisback]

Watch a p*rn video?

You need to keep your arms bent, so that you are leaning down with your elbows and forearms flat on the bed. Lean your chest down toward the bed and hike your but up in the air, and spread your knees apart about a foot and a half.

[Anonymous]

Observe your Pooch. Study how he does it.

[Anonymous]

play with your labia when he is behind you and spread your lips open wide so he can see your hole it sounds like he is trouble finding your hole. you or him or both of you just play around with your labia spread your lips so your hole is clear and then he should have no problem entering. you may have really wide labia that protrudes out far and covers a lot some chicks have that.

[Asker]

nope i have an innie and a pretty standard labia but yea, i think next time i'll just help direct him as to where to come inside me and hopefully it'll work :)

[Opinion Owner]

good idea. someonetimes too if a guys dick ain't too big or if its a bit flaccid it may have trouble going in

[Anonymous]

If you're a guy get a Nook so you can read a book with one hand behind her back. This position is boring because we can't see anything but your dirty ass and then the top of your back. But girls like it because they are foolish and it allows them to be lazy during sex.

[Asker]

this is actually the 2nd or 3rd time he's asked me to give it a try.. also, my preferred position is with me on top so i'm definitely not lazy during sex. I've heard a lot of guys like doggy as it's very primal, and makes them feel in complete control.

[Opinion Owner]

wipe well

[theguyisback]

Dude, don't be a dick lol.. I'm sure her ass is clean. Guys like it, because they get to kneel, which is a comfortable position without needing upper body strength.. They can grab onto your hips and play with your ass.. And it's a great angle to get super deep into you.

[Anonymous]

Reach back there and guide him in!