Guys, Tips on giving a good blow/hand job?

And the small things that makes it exceptional:)

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  • Nothing exceptional here. Just fast and efficient.

    *Concentrate mouth play on the head (glans).
    *Bob and suck it to just below the ridge and valley (corona and sulcus). The shaft won't feel it much.
    *You can alternate to suckling it like an infant on a pacifier rather than bobbing.
    *You can tease the glans by swirling your tongue around it and probing the little hole.
    *Avoid scratching the head with your teeth. It can break his momentum.
    *Stroke his penis with one hand while you suck. Do it with two fingers on the top and your thumb on the rounded "vein" on the underside. Stroking this way induces the prostate to engorge and ejaculate. Stroke rapidly with a moderate grip.
    *Use your other hand to cup and kneed his sack.

    *Always build sexual tension. Do not pause or slow down because he can lose his momentum and even kill the blowie altogether.
    *When he begins to ejaculate, stop all mouth motion on the glans (it will distract him) while he ejaculates and just straight suck only.
    *Also while he ejaculates, continue to stroke more slowly until he is finished. It will coax out the later squirts.
    *Then Continue to straight suck with no mouth motion until he drains and unplugs.
    Works for me.

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  • This will depend differently per guy. It's best to be very open with your partner asking what they like sexually to please each other in satisfying ways. Paying attention to those details of what your partner likes or dislikes are extremely important.

    Anywho, what I don't recommend during a handjob is when she's barely squeezing it with her hands going up and down, especially if she gets tired. When holding it, grab it hard enough to where you're actually pulling the skin up and down pumping it. I always have to explain this to every woman that's jerked me off.

    Also when he's about to explode, going ultra fast by far feels the best when ejaculating. It makes the orgasm more extreme and shoots out the most cum possible. Oh and you can control how far it shoots by how hard you squeeze it. Squeezing it hard shoots the farthest.

    Lastly, switching hands when tired can feel awkward. If you have to switch hands, also switch to his other side. Of course this depends what position you're jerking him off. But to his side I recommend that.

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  • Tongue 👅 piercing….

    • Without that tool, the best thing one can do is focus upon the head. It is paramount that one finds a groove and stays in it. Switching and changing speeds until climax point is counterproductive. If it takes 15 minutes of “steady ole girl”. then that’s what it takes 🙃

  • Guys have the whole hand job thing down pat.

  • Practice, practice, practice & as they say practice makes perfect.

  • Play with it, take your time to enjoy it with him, it's not a race. Talk dirty to him while licking and stroking. Gently stroke his balls. And when he gets close to shooting, keep doing whatever you're doing... don't stop until he has released his load. And then, gently stroke, lick and suck. His penis will be sensitive but he'll still enjoy the gentle attention.

  • Be a good girl and choke on this big fat D.

    even if your eyes become watery and you can't breathe very well

    that's all it takes

  • For oral Focus on the tip, not on the shaft. Up down motions are best and occasional licking is fine. If he's uncut, don't directly stroke his tip with your hand. Specially not without lube. In this case just use the foreskin. (Can't tell you how to properly do a cut guy). You can squeeze your hand around it quite hard. No worries it won't hurt him. Just make sure not to kink it or bend the entire thing down too much.

    Also you should adjust your expectation. You won't give him the most mind blowing handjob of his life. He jerked that thing for decades and got quite good at it. You have no chance of doing that better than him. Just showing that you're eager to do him is hot enough.

  • With both you always have to start gentile and slow. Then gradually pick up pace and pressure.

    The technique itself is only a part of it. One than you can kinda figure out on the fly cause each person is different. With a blow job you don't have to take the whole thing, just the first few inches. That's where all the nerves are.

    The biggest thing is enthusiasm. If you look like you're really into it and enjoying it then he will too. If it seems like you're doing it just to do it it won't be as good.

    Decide in your mind beforehand where you want him to finish. Also just remember, it's you who's in charge during blowjobs and handjobs, not the guy. Thats the illusion.

  • Mix in the hand when your mouth gets tired. Always maintain sexy eye contact like you want to devour him. Talk dirty about how big and delicious his d**k is. Make sure you tell him ahead of time where you want him to finish so there are no surprises. Extra points if you swallow.

  • Eye contact is always hot. Being nude or at least topless makes it hot too.

  • Look into eyes, don't use teeth, vary technique & speed, bring to edge a few times and then back off, use both hands, fondle the grapes, swallow.

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