Tips on giving head?

[Anonymous]

I haven't given head since I was a teenager. Someone that I have sex with asked for head/is expecting head tomorrow. I need tips, tricks and advice

[abc3643]

A big reason that the male orgasm happens (best) from head is when there is a very steady rhythm stimulating the tip. "Deep throating" is not such a big deal because all that does is simulate the experience of being in the warm wet snug vagina. During intercourse, it is the tip being touched and stimulated that causes excitement and orgasm.

Keep in mind, all the best BJs are also a bit of a hand job as well so don't be afraid to give your mouth a break.

And don't forget the balls! They get lonely and are STARVING for female attention. So, sometimes use your fingers or hand such as cupping or teasing testicles or the penis.

Google "Fellucia Blow" and STUDY those videos. Those women are experts at fellatio and genuinely love it. The sensuous BJ really is best both for the guy and for the woman. Watch and notice how easily they do it yet aren't choking or getting sick. And watch how they switch between mouth and fingers.

Also, look into videos for:

A) lingam massage (tantric massage for the male genitalia)
B) yoni massage (tantric massage for the female genitalia - he should return the favor).

That said, consider studying good hand-job videos. All you then have to do is imagine doing what the woman is doing with her hands and fingers, but instead replace with lips, tongue, and mouth.
I'd upload a video, but it is not safe for G@G. PM if you want the links to two such videos.

[Asker]

This is seriously the best answer I could ask for, thank you! What do you mean by tease the balls and penis? And like, just holding the balls in a cupping fashion, is that it? Or should I play with them? If so how? So let's say, I grab his dick by the base, put his dick in my mouth, take my mouth down to my hand, get the shaft all wet. And have my hand follow my mouth on it's way back up. Maybe have the hand and mouth go down and up together a few times. Cup the balls with my other hand. Should I focus on just the tip for a bit? If so what? Suck on it? Lick it? Go back to the hand job plus mouth and do that on repeat until he cums? Which obviously I should definitely swallow

[Asker]

Does it make a difference if he is uncircumcised? Because I think he is

[abc3643]

1. I can't comment about circumcision or not. I've been cut for 56+ years. 2. Think of balls as like your nipples. They crave attention. Know this: When a man's balls are in a woman's hand, she becomes the most important and powerful woman in the universe to him. It is a form of complete surrender and trust if you can do that.

[abc3643]

If you want videos for instruction, you have to PM me because they are not appropriate to post publicly here and the administrators would have to pull my post.

[Hhhyv666]

I cannot find any in google about fellucia blow 😥

[abc3643]

@Hhhyv666
1. Use quotes when surfing. So you'd Google...

"Fellucia Blow"

This is that search:
https://www.google.com/search?q="fellucia+blow"

2. You may not be seeing anhthing if you have "Safe Search" settings on.

3. https://www.felluciablow.com/

[RickPen]

Depends on anatomy, and each guy is different. Why not just have him direct you through it?

I've had girls try to do their best, and never once ask what I actually wanted. The result was a sore mouth for them, no orgasm for me, or in once case, she scraped with teeth, and there was blood, now a scar remains. In my experience, girls need coaching, and when they don't listen or communicate, the experience is ruined.

[Asker]

I totally get that, and I'm all for communicating. But based on what I know about him I'm pretty sure talking would kill the mood

[RickPen]

So does doing the wrong thing, or the wrong timing. If he can't communicate what he likes, then he should not expect a great job. Sorry if this isn't more helpful.

[Asker]

No, i totally get it. Thank you

[Ephemera1]

"Since I was teenager"
Wow good news, muscle memory is a thing and you'll remember exactly what to do tomorrow.

[Asker]

Lol! Okay maybe that might have been an exaggeration. I don't know, let me think 21 maybe 22? Basically, it's been a long time. I guess I don't get why men need/want head. Like you're going to cum no matter what lmao so why get you all hot a bothered before we even have sex. Like I get why women want head, just penetration alone is most likely not going to get a woman off. I'm way more willing to eat out than give head🤷‍♀️🤣

[Ephemera1]

Head is hot bc the girl is willing to slap a dick in her mouth for u

[Asker]

Lol! Okay, I can understand that lmao so you got any tips?

[Asker]

Like how can I make it hotter than just slapping a dick into my mouth lmfao

[Ephemera1]

Eye contact, saying you love it, asking him what he wants then doing, and mayhaps if he's that kind of guy a bit of tooting

[Asker]

Tooting? Okay so I'll do eye contact. Saying anything seems like it would be hard with a mouthful of dick lmao or is that point?🤣

[Ephemera1]

You know you can take the dick out of your mouth right? Head doesn't mean penis in your mouth until he cums Tooting = flatulence

[JKingOff]

Go as deep as you can, don't use your teeth, swallow/don't suck because when you suck it's only going in your mouth but when you swallow your getting it down your throat naturally without gaging. Put some whip cream on it if that helps. I honestly wish my wife would ask me more questions like this. Lol

[XxXxGemini]

Make it personal, as in, swallow, that gives a sense of, she likes me, wants me, etc. When you do feel that he's cumming, roll with it. Slow it down, and do your best to keep everything in step, with each shot, pulling your lips back which makes it feel like you're actually sucking it out of him. While he's in your mouth, make it a point to make direct eye contact with him, tell him how much you enjoy it, anytime that your mouth isn't full of something else. Go hands-free, instead, do something sexy, like roll your tits around or something. And, no teeth, at all, period.

[Twalli]

Look up tips online. We can give you ideas, but I learned how to give good oral by watching a video on it first

[swissbones]

Just lick the balls and take the penis deep inside your throat

[Jonny-92]

Take it as deep as you can to build up the saliva. I know a lot of guys are into gagging (hearing you choke on it) stroke it as you suck on the head. That's pretty much what I do and I've never had any complaints 🤷‍♂️

[Asker]

Awesome, thank you! How much head sucking is too much? Because isn't the head ridiculous sensitive?

[Jonny-92]

It is sensitive, it varies on how much is too much. I can usually judge when he's had enough by his body movements. Depending if he just wants head and not sex, I'll save it till the end so when he cums I'm ready for it. If he wants more than head I'll mix it up and focus on the head in the middle of it before we get to the sex. Hope that makes sense 🤷‍♂️

[Asker]

Yeah that makes sense, I get it

[Jmmmfi4]

Definitely swallow