This is what works for me.
A blowjob is not passionate sex. It is nurturing sexual therapy.
*Get him hard and ready by an erotic massage. A little anal teasing will speed up the process but avoid bringing him close to orgasm.
*The best blow job combines properly timed use of hands and mouth. Your mouth focuses on the head (glans) and your hand strokes the shaft.
*Gradually build sexual arousal/tension. Do not slow down or pause. He can lose momentum.
*Edge him to make him last longer if you want, but be sure not to let him fade before building to orgasm.
*When you are ready for him to cum, bob and suck as quickly as you can sustain for maybe 3 minutes. Stroke as fast as you can with a moderate grip.
*When ejaculation starts, stop ALL mouth motion. Moderate sucking only.
*Slow down, but keep stroking to the last squirt. If you can master it, stroke between the later squirts but pause during the squirt.
*Avoid as best you can scratching there head (glans) with your teeth. That can kill momentum.
*Deep-throating is a silly porn antic. Don't waste your effort.
*Bobbing and sucking alone without stroking is good drama but stroking empowers a blow job.
*Swallow if you want. Spit of you don't. Or just open your mouth and let the payload flow down his penis.
There are parts of a penis head which welcome teasing; the corona (ridge), meatus (hole) and frenulum (hot spot in the underside of the glans). Learn what to do with them.
*Stay locked on sucking lightly until he drains and unplugs.
*A skilled blow job is not slutty. It's Girl Power. It's an act of love and nothing else makes a man feel more loved. If you get really good at it and will give it whenever he asks, it is cheating insurance.
Lol Thanks—Good detail advice 👍
You want to apply a real firm grasp with your lips, when you stick an index finger in your mouth it shouldn't be coming in contact with your teeth.
For me, hands are also quite important, they are at least a half of the job if not more.
You want to wrap them towards the bottom of his shaft in a tight squeeze.
They should be applying pressure on him throughout the whole thing, it's a little hard to explain but in essence, as the tension from the blood circulation in his dick rises your goal is to kind of keep it in there.
That's what works the best for me personally.
Thanks—good technique to cover the teeth 👍👍
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Deeper isn’t always better if you can’t handle it or don’t know technique (my ex gave great blowjobs, she said she had to practice loosening her throat muscles, she also used her tongue while going deep which is a huge plus)
if you can’t go deep, focus on the head more, it’s the most sensitive part. Also if you can’t go deep get your hand technique down and use a lot of spit (no dry rubs)
and when in doubt - don’t be afraid to ask how you’re doing or what they prefer.
try saying “I’m going to try a few different things and you let me know what feels best.
Believe me a guy would much rather tell you what he likes rather than get a shitty blowjob
When in doubt, marry him and get a mouth guard for sex. It's like getting one for sleeping. Point is, if you grind in your sleep, you'll grind during sex too. And if you and he don't account for that, you're asking for trouble.
I quite like tongue on the tip as in licked with the slightly rougher part of your tongue also seeing my partner wank it into her mouth and rub my tip of her lips that's good, I had one girlfriend who used to spit on it as in proper Pfft! Tuh! That was quite good as it's not just about sucking or in and out it's quite a visual thing for guys well it is for me anyway whereas with a women yous are getting more stimulation!
I just think seeing me getting giving a blowjob and her slapping it across her face and rubbing it left and right across her lips and flicking her tongue adds a lot more to her getting me there! Omg now I'm feeling horny thanks for your question! My girlfriend and I just split up her blowjobs were not great but I wouldn't mind just now! Lol. xx
The head is very sensitive so try just focusing on that.
Thanks
You should get a realistic dildo to practice on especially for deep throating guys like that.
Watch your teeth. I hate it when she scrapes me with her teeth.
Smh 🤦♀️.. thanks
Make it wet and sloppy. Play with that place under the cocks head where the skin is connected to. Also between your breaths you can jurk him off from middle of cock to over the head, and more focus on the same spot of the cock as you okay with your mouth. Make it wet, lots of spitt
Thanks—Good advice will try this
She's too old to ask stupid questions.
@JuanVelasco.. Sweet heart it’s not stupid, I haven’t been sucking dick my entire life unlike you or the females you know
Cover your teeth with your lips. Use a lot of suction and relax your jaw so you can take him into your throat. Lots of eye contact ball sucking will drive him nuts. Tell him how bad you want to suck his cock. Treat his dick like the nicest thing you have ever put your mouth on and know that any ammount of teeth will ruin it. So do everything to avoid your teeth touching him.
Good advice—Will try this Thanks
Was a gift for my wife on our 7th anniversary, well worth it.
Also watch porn, specifically search for best blowjob and etc amateur stuff.
Gagging and stuff we don't care as much for.
We really love enthusiasm way more than skill. We like to see you have fun and actually enjoy yourself too.
Thanks we definitely check this out—glad to know most don’t like the gag, I thought otherwise smh
Actually for this to be serous, you need pervs.. It's about thick lips and head stimulation.
Ask him
For sure
Slow
best feeling is pussy, much better than any blow job... if you are toothless, I might be interested... seriously. I have never seen the attraction of "Blow Jobs" if she wants to suck my cock I will let her... I do have a nice one... But reaching orgasm is almost impossible...
I’m just curious—since men love vagina so much. What does it feel like to you. If you could describe and compare it to something.
Focus on the spot under the glans. And while most guys don’t like teeth, some love it. Ask your guy what he likes and monitor his reactions
I don’t think you can exclude pervs from this. Use a lot of spit and your hands. Cup the balls. Rub his asshole if he’s into that. Talk dirty… preferably with your mouth full. I just made myself hard typing this
Be gentle, it's not a pull start engine.
No teeth
Lick the whole length
Lick the sack and you'll reset his brain.
Swallowing feels the best... a bad blowjob is still better then a good day at work...
Haha good one—and True
Ask him, each guy is different
I did Thanks his answer wasn’t really detailed
If he is not willing to tell you, he must not care, just be careful of the teeth or just stop
The key is the ask them what feels good
I have, he said hand motion and to feel less teeth. He didn’t go into much details
Well message me privately and I’ll help you x
Will do Thanks
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