To all the men with big d*cks: when you’re finally starting to get serious with a woman, are you likely to hide/not talk about your size?

There’s a guy who I’m talking to and it is rumored that he has a big d*ck lol... but one thing I noticed with him is that he does not talk about sex and neither does he ever mention his size or anything regarding that. We’re pretty serious and are dating but never once talked about sex. The closest thing was he said that I turned him on.
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Well guys... come to find out he is shy to have sexual conversation AND he shared a naughty picture with me and he is definitely on the larger side:)
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  • I never brought up my size to any woman. They were the ones to inquire about it when we were getting intimate and they could feel it.

    I believe that men who are mature make it a point to not talk about their size and will let their ability in the bedroom be the deciding factor.

    • Thanks for your feedback this makes a lot of sense!

  • What he is doing is right. It means that he just don't need you for sex

    • This could definitely be true!

    • Yeah, Never let him go off you

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  • I don't ever see a reason to bring it up, personally.

    I mean, bragging about it is incredibly immature, and I figure that she'll find out about it in due course, anyway, so why bother?

    I don't hide it, because I'm not embarrassed; I just don't see any reason to bring it up ahead of time. It just makes me look arrogant, and it's not like I worked hard to get it, or anything, so it's not really an accomplishment.

  • The question then becomes, how do you want to handle things going forward? Too large so you break it off? Or, you're curious and want to take it for a test drive?

    • Well of course take it for a test drive lmao we are unfortunately in separate states so I will ultimately have to wait until that happens

    • Sounds like you guys will have fun. Bring lube just in case. 😂

  • Only guys without big dicks are obsessed with size. I've never had a conversation with a potential sex partner about my size beforehand.. that would just be weird...

  • Mione is 6". So I can't say about him. But I want a girl to love me for who I am. Not just my dick size. So i would be reluctant to tell a girl.

  • You need to see him in action

  • Why would he need to mention it?

  • It usually comes up naturally (pun intended) usually when we are kissing or cuddling in the beginning of a relationship. So there's no need to have the talk.

    • Only thing is we live in different states 😢😔

    • He probably just feels like he would be bragging if he brought it up and believe it or not but guys can feel self conscious about it. Or maybe the rumors aren't true and he doesn't want to disappoint you.

  • I like seeing their reactions and lustful looks on their face once they see my dick. 😏

  • I am apparently larger than average. I say apparently because I haven't seen another dude's penis outside of porn, but my size is not what the literature says is average. I don't really talk about my size, I do talk about sex fairly early on in a relationship, but I don't think size matters too much as long as you aren't extremely big or small. Even though I am above average, it's not like I have a footlong dick.

  • You don't talk about it. I mean you CAN, but women won't believe you, because guys lie. So it's best to not even talk about it, wait until she finds out for herself.

  • That’s the way I am.
    Don’t make a big deal, and wait till her curiosity makes her find out.
    Her expression is priceless

  • sounds like a nice guy, the size of the Dick is second to the size of the HEART...

    • if you like me.. and decide I am worth your time... then I will introduce you to Big Wally

  • How are you dating and never saw his dick? You gave him a BJ during the first date and sex on every date since, right?

    • We live in different states

    • Then you aren't dating You are pen pals.

  • Don't know how to hide it, big doesn't fit well in pants. But usually clear things with her first, just to make sure she is up for it.

  • At the beginning I am on the other side. I have a real small penis with 2,8 inches erect. But thats fact so I can tell and show it to the girl I date. At least she will find out the truth... and if she can't handle it better to stop earlier than later. In your case I think he has not much experience with women and he is also shy. Perhaps he wanted to impress you with the big dick story and he is only average... you find out... keep going

  • My dick is larger than average, but I have never told a woman that I have a larger dick, before it became obvious due to undressing. However, my dick is just larger than average, not huge.

  • It was my ex who after many months asked me the size, though we had been talking sexually rather dirty. I told her, she expressed desire to see, but I didn't oblige. She later sent my her nudes. I don't know why I refrained from sex or swapping nudes. She later left me.

    • Why didn’t you show her?

    • Frankly I didn't know at that time, today too, why did I find it repulsive though I have good one, liked by many.

  • Guys are individuals.
    Some big dick guys are obnoxious about it and fantasize about having a harem of women.
    They look for any opportunity to brag about their size.
    Some of the guys with big dicks are still shy and sexually inexperienced, they may not even be very sexual people.
    Then you have medium sized guys like me that love to be naked and talk about sex.

  • I've never talked about my size. That just cheapens the whole experience. If other people want to spread rumors about it, I can't stop them, but its not a topic worth discussing.

  • Confident men with big dicks generally don't feel the need to from my experience. You can usually tell from his dick print.
    My older brother has a really big dick, I know because I've seen him in grey sweat pants and boxers. I've also walked in on my best friend giving him a bj.

    • How long did you watch that for?

    • @Tonythecreator until asked to leave.

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