To be honest I’m against porn?

Porn shows that woman should have no body hair at all. I don’t think they will show a woman with pubic hair because it defeats the purpose. Thanks to porn, guys have shallow and unrealistic expectations when it comes to finding a partner.
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Even some guys insists their FWBs or partners do certain sex acts which is considered uncomfortable and degrading for them. Porn stars are paid to like the act, they’re totally different from women who didn’t watch porn. Women who watch porn feel like they need to do all those acts to keep a man. Porn is acting, they can fake orgasms, squirts and every other thing. People need to know that porn is not real sex and is not real life. I felt sad for those human trafficking victims who were
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Forced to do porn because they think they can get hired as a model but no it’s a trap by the “agency” to lure them and forced them to do porn against their will. This world is so messed up to be honest
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  • I’m personally not into porn because it’s entirely unrealistic and I think that does more harm than good. I know so many people (including porn stars) that have agreed that it’s ruined their lives and relationships. It’s just not worth it to me. Why would I choose to partake in something that I’ve seen become toxic and harmful?

    Many men- and some women- have shared with me that they think I should do porn. I think they mean it as a compliment but I’ve never taken it as one.

    I’ve been in a relationship with one man and he watched porn once in his teens and it absolutely disgusted him. As an adult he shared my view of it and he never watched it. To say that “all men NEED porn” or that “it’s a fantasy to think you can find a man who doesn’t watch porn” is entirely untrue. I guess it “works” for some people, but I’ve never ever heard of it bringing two people in a relationship together with zero consequences.

    I’d agree with the statement that many women watch it because they think it’ll make their partners happy. I’ve had friends that have done that and it’s totally messed them up in the head. and I’ve had to be there for them every time and the thing that I always hear is that they feel like their man doesn’t love them or has unrealistic expectations of them, wants another woman’s body over there’s, etc etc.
    It’s never been a positive thing in my experience, so I know it’s something I’ll never get into because it isn’t necessary.

    And I’m a regular here but I’m keeping this anonymous because I’m aware that a lot of douche bags like to bash women for having different views than them on this particular subject. If you’re one of those people, please don’t bother replying 🌟

    • Honestly I think porn is definitely bad but guys obviously can’t tell porn does more harm than good. Guys are like that, when certain thing makes their dick hard they will think it’s beneficial to them smh

    • if it’s hurting the person they’re with and consuming their time, money, thoughts etc. These all sound pretty extreme but I’ve seen multiple instances of just one video ruining relationships.

  • Honestly, porn can be a good and a bad thing, it's how a lot of people learn about sex for the first time however, it makes people have unrealistic ideas about sex, like the idea that boobs are all huge or that if your dick isn't 9 inches long you can't make her cum or honestly squirting how tf is that real?

    • Squirting is real. Mybe not at the volumes in porn but I've made it happen and its definitely not pee.

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  • there is a lot of porn where pubic hair is still shown and a lot of it is fairly popular, porn didn't create this view, it never did for me either... i prefer no pubic hair cos of bad experiences of choking on the hair
    your personal views sounds exactly as personal bias so you create a post attempting to convert others to your views when in reality it is no where near the actuality of what is going on...
    sex trafficking was happening long before porn, views of women was much worse before porn... your views do not account for these facts and the majority of women dont get forced to do porn, and the idea of women forced to do porn because they think they are getting hired by an agency for modelling is actually a scripted theme for fake agent
    what did you do... watch one of their vid's and assume it was real? lol I know a friend of mine and my ex's who chose to go into porn, she knew the pitfalls and the benefits... she vetted the jobs before she performed and chose whether or not to do them... and yes she actually had a choice as do 90-95% of the performers who do that line of work... in fact they have more say than many prostitutes or many people in regular jobs...
    facts are everything, bias and a post like this where you have your mind set on one view does not allow you to give a factual and accurate take on things.

  • That's professional porn, amateur porn is way different

    • Do you agree most guys expect their partners to like all the acts that female porn stars like?

    • I didn’t know much about amateur porn. Tell me what’s it like?

    • Not most no, some do sure but those people aren't just unrealistic in terms of sex; they are unrealistic in almost every area of their lives

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  • That isn’t true. You’re blaming porn for some other problem in your life. Find what that problem is and address it.

    • Exactly.

  • You can always decide to search for different keywords, there is the right kind of porn for everyone.

    Movies are never 100% realistic.

  • i love porn but when it comes to the free availability of misleading porn to teen boys and indeed girls too, i can't disagree with what you say

    • @updates chick flicks like fifty shades are just as guilty of that and in many ways so is the mass media for reinforcing stereotypes and as for girls being forced to do porn... i know two women who have done porn and it was totally their own choice driven not by money or a desire for fame but their own sexuality

  • Plenty of women do porn and/or strip at clubs because they enjoy the life and lifestyle. Plenty of people belong to sex clubs and swinger sites. Sure, there's a predators out there looking to manipulate girls into porn, just like check-cashing places are predatory to poor people, but the banks and credit unions are far more voluntary, right?

    Women who try to "model" are still selling their bodies, just not across that invisible line you paint where it's ok for everyone to drool over one body part (face) but not (boobs/vagina). It's terribly sexist to consider one a role model and the other a slut.

  • Very true but it has to do with a whole lot more then body hair!

    • Like expecting their partners to perform certain sex act they don’t like

  • So what’s the question

  • There are a lot of shaved women (and men) in porn, probably because it allows the camera to see more of what's going on, but there is also some where the actresses are unshaven, and even some dedicated to very hairy women. If you don't want to shave or trim, that is your business alone. A good guy that is into you won't care. The same is true of guys expecting to have sex like they see in porn. If you're into it great. If you're not that's fine too. A decent guy would never pressure a girl to do something against her will. If a guy is pressuring you, he needs to find a new girlfriend.

  • Wait, are you saying that most women have body hair?

    • Of course. They can choose to shave, wax or leave it

  • What's the question ?

  • I disagree with you. A lot of pornstars have pubic hair.

    Thanks to porn, guys have shallow and unrealistic expectations when it comes to finding a partner.
    The porn industry is a selling fantasy to men, but that doesn't mean men have unrealistic expectations., some do though.

    Even some guys insists their FWBs or partners do certain sex acts which is considered uncomfortable and degrading for them.
    If a man is forcing you to do something you don't want, don't do it. You are still in charge of your own body, if he can't deal with it, just let him go, he doesn't respect your sexual boundaries. Some sex acts are indeed degrading, don't do that, don't feel guilty for not doing that.

    Porn stars are paid to like the act, they’re totally different from women who didn’t watch porn. Women who watch porn feel like they need to do all those acts to keep a man.
    Yes, they are getting paid to do different sex acts, but that doesn't mean they enjoy it. A lot of pornstars are getting abused, degrated, slapped, pissing on her, spitting on her face etc, I doubt pornstars like that, even if they are getting paid. Women don't have to feel guilty if they don't want to do everything what pornstars are doing just to keep her man happy.

    Porn is acting, they can fake orgasms, squirts and every other thing. People need to know that porn is not real sex and is not real life. I felt sad for those human trafficking victims who were
    Faking orgasms is something every woman can do, but some men know when you fake, because the truth is, you can't fake a real orgasm. Men know porn isn't real sex, we know how the reality is, but some men like to watch porn. It's a fantasy. It's sad for those who are victims of human trafficking.

    • Sadly some guys expect their partners to follow all the degrading acts that porn stars do. Some of them think porn sex is real sex

  • Good thing I want a lady in my life, not a porn star. A lady is natural, real, and realistic; a porn star is not.

  • There are plenty of phoebe ccx when women have full bushes

  • Am I the only one thinking this isn't a question?

    • It looks more like a statement and not a question.

  • alright

  • When a girl shaves her pussy, it makes my cock hard.

  • Why Expecting a woman who has waxed unrealistic? I dont want hair on a woman

  • Not true I have noticed more women in porn have some hair again. Secondly. I prefer pubic hair over none at all. Looks sexier with hair

  • Just to point out one fact, I've seen women with pubic hair in porn

  • amen, porn is not life, it is acting. they shave to give a better view

  • Unreal

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