No. If they’re not willing to try anything, and they’re strictly vanilla, I don’t think I could do it. I’m monogamous so I don’t care for open or poly relationships, or threesomes etc, but kink is a huge part of my sex life. I do enjoy vanilla, but couldn’t do it everytime forever. I’m lucky with my partner. He’s mostly vanilla but always happy to engage in my kinks, and he enjoys them because he knows that he’s making me feel good. He’s always happy to experiment too, within both of our boundaries.
I might be the perfect example of this as I was a very wild teen and young 20's girl and not until I actually met the guy who I ended up married too did mine get very vanilla which doesn't mean what goes on between us isn't a bit knky at times, but strictly he and I.
If vanilla means no sex and a platonic relationship, then no I’d have something going on even just occasionally. I like kinky vanilla stuff, sexualizing things not ment to be sexy. Like I’ve always like the schoolgirl theme or if she is wearing regular panties over a thong..
"Kinky" is relevant. I can do without threesomes and open relationships. If you think "kinky" is anything but missionary with the lights out... this probably isn't going to work out.
I mean as in BDSM sort of stuff, being a dom, a sub, being into degradation or humiliation, wanting to be tied up perhaps being into the daddy/mummy thing, adding toys, food, idea of taboo, always needing to roleplay etc. Being poly or into threesomes is simply another way to have a relationship rather than kink. Vanilla to me means a handful of different sex positions with nothing of the above sprinkled in. Maybe a little light roleplay, but that's it, nothing really different or exciting.
Toys and food can be a lot of fun. The rest I'm lukewarm on.
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Yes as long as he knew how to use his cock and tongue. The kinky stuff is just a bonus.
So no knives? Wack
It very much depends on your definition of kinky. I like some variety and experimenting but I don't need to have someone super crazy. But if he doesn't want to try anything new and just sticks to the basics that is boring and a problem in the long run
The only sexual intimacy I "demand" is mutual oral and (in its time) PIV. Other kinks are optional and not essential.
My wife and I enjoy bondage and she has a lot of other kinky stuff too, but most of the time we do vanilla sex.
If I really like him I would give it a try
Yes. Eventually she’ll come a round time to some things. I wouldn’t push anything on her though.
Sometimes just talking about fantasies that you’ll never do is enough.
Yes, after all, people can be trained.
Yes that is also what i thought but it didn't work for me unfortunately
isn't it a manipulation then? also people are not dogs, they have their own opinions and preferences, my ex tried to "train me" to be a sub when and it had terrible consequences, people should learn the importance of safe, sane and consensual especially in bdsm
In my case it was more like hoping we would try to get into the fantasy of each other’s! With mutual interest
I tried but it didn’t work
I should have Trained him, I just saw someone else say that
Sure the orgasms would still be fun
yeah, no
Sure why not.
I'm a domme and monogamous. I definitely couldn't be with someone who's vanilla.
I can. I do however still watch my taboo porn. I have to have that fix now and again.
Variety is the spice of life 😍❤️😇
I’ve experienced it and it the end its very hard to not get a bit bored … :/
I need kinkiness in my life
No worries
Try them, they are also one variation.
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