To those men who have a cuckold fantasy about their wife and girlfriend , how can’t you feel jealous if you really love your partner?

[Reemaa]

I mean how can’t you feel jealous if you love them and , away from sex fantasies, do you ever felt jealous in real life? . please explain

[centerline]

I have no jealous feelings... keep in mind the old adage when reading this.. "if you love someone set them free... if they return to you they are yours, if they dont, they never were"

my love for her is so great that i would not want her to do without whatever she wants out of life... we have plenty enough pains and heartaches in life from every angle that when one has a chance to have a few moments of fun, i feel they should take it.
I dont OWN her, and I dont want to try to control her, as this can only end badly with hurt feelings...

i dont care if she feels the desire to fuck someone else or not, but if she does, I dont want to be the one responsible for her missing out on a single pleasure in life...

love and sex are definitely different things, and the only thing that i hold sacred is the feelings in her heart.. and as long as she values that, then she will be back, so i have no fear of her leaving me... and if she does leave me, it will only mean that she has fallen out of love with me, and NOT that i was controlling or an ass, or because I didn't love her...

my love for her is greater than all my other feelings, and i know in my heart that no matter how many people she fucks, no one is going to "wear out" her pussy and make it unusable for me... and so why shouldn't she be able to fulfill all the fantasies that she can in life, as long as she doenst get hurt doing so?

and its NOT all about the love, but about the FREEDOM... I myself dont like being told "no, you can't do that because I dont want you to", im a big boy and i can make my own reasonable decisions, and trust that she can do the same.
so i will never tell someone what they can or can't do, but only allow them to do what they want, offer advice when they ask for it, and support their choice when i think they made a reasonable decision...

why should one human being be able to tell another what they can and can't do with their life? we should do what we do because WE want to, NOT because someone else wants us to do it, or something different...

and besides all of that, my wife is great in bed and has a higher libido than i do... and anyone who has been deprived of sex knows that its not fun... so i feel its better she gets her release and shares some of what i get as often as i want it, with someone else who wants a bit of fun for a little while... and I have the satisfaction of knowing they are a bit jealous of me, because I have something of quality that a lot of guys want and can't get or find... (and I feel its because too many guys get jealous and/or controlling of their mate, INSTEAD of offering true love, support, encouragement and understanding to the one they claim to love...)

[Reemaa]

Thanks for your reply, it's so explainable. Yes , it's logical to think of that when your wife has higher libido than you :)

[centerline]

do you disagree? if you had the option to have other partners for a hookup, KNOWING that it wouldn't upset your home life with the one you love, and possibly enhancing it, would you try it?

[Reemaa]

Yes only if I’m really attracted

[centerline]

i have to agree that there has to be some sort of attraction... i dont think anyone in the lifestyle will just randomly have sex with whoever is willing. there has to be something that draws us to them...

[undefined-intentions]

I don't get jealous easily and can't really remember ever being jealous. As for cuckolding (which I do fantasize about but have never tried), I don't personally really see that as a threat to feel jealous about, as there's no real risk in it for her to stop loving me and leaving me. She gets to experience something very pleasurable (I like that), I may get to watch (I definitely like that), and when it's all over, I'm still the one who gets to wake up with her every morning. So in my eyes (and I fully understand that not everybody feels the same way), there's nothing to be jealous about.

[Reemaa]

I mean what if she likes the other man more than you or cheat on you with him and then leave you ?

[Reemaa]

Women are emotional-beings!

[undefined-intentions]

I think the risk of that happening is pretty low, but anyway it's a risk I'm willing to take, because if it did happen – there's probably an underlying reason for that. I love her, but I want her to be happy, so if she decides she would be happier without me, I accept that, and although it would hurt like hell in the moment, I do think it's better to find out things like that than staying stuck in a marriage she doesn't really want.

[Reemaa]

are you straight or bisexual?

[undefined-intentions]

Why do you ask? I'm not entirely sure, to be honest. I've never been with a man, I've never loved a man. As for pornography and fantasies I'm definitely bicurious, and had I been single there's probably a chance I would experiment a little with men, but as long as those experiments are hypothetical, it's hard to tell what the results would be.

[centerline]

its people like us that the situation works for... we aren't jealous, and we love our mate so much that we want to help them achieve whatever bit of pleasure they can, even if it means leaving us for someone else... I can honestly say that if my wife didn't want to be with me, I would rather she wasn't... i dont want to be responsible for holding her back in life, and neither do I want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with me... AND, I trust her to know the difference between sex and love, and what she has, and is able to have with me, versus someone else who she would have to start all over with, and more than likely it not work out for her anyway... most well balance people know when they have it good...

[slatyb]

Not everyone thinks or feels as you do. Many people are not that emotional about sex, and this includes sexual exclusivity.

[Reemaa]

Lol , most women are emotional ! . I guess you are talking about men

[slatyb]

Not everyone, male or female.

[slatyb]

I didn’t say most, just not all.

[Reemaa]

This is about science , women are more emotional. A fact and not an opinion.

[Ripper_E]

They can feel jealous.
You can have an open relationship and be jealous.

[Reemaa]

How. Can you please explain this to me :)

[Ripper_E]

People get jealous lol Even people in normal monogamous relationships get jealous

[Reemaa]

I mean if they feel jealous how can they imagine

[Ripper_E]

What does jealousy have to do with imagination?

[Reemaa]

Imagination encourage chating along with real sex !! So you will not feel jealous if your girlfriend have sex with another man

[Ripper_E]

I still don't get how you relate imagination to jealousy but friends get jealous in similar ways. You want the best for your friend but if you work hard but they get everything you want, it sucks.

[Reemaa]

are you bisexual?

[Ripper_E]

Noooo

[Alexandrubaschet08]

I feel jelos, because that is just a fantazy, a moment, not real love, no special moment spend togeder, no beautiful memory whit boths.
Thous extrem fantazy are based on thrust and love in each other and they become real only if we both have thous 2 things and we olso agree in both way to do it.
So if my girlfriend had alredy sex in front of me afther i say "I'm ok whit it" that doesn't meen i'm ok whit you to sleep any time whit who ever you want. We are still in a relationship so we stil need to respect each others.
The conditions for such a fantazy are diferent from a couple to the other.
I will not like my girlfriend to use that fantazy as an excuse from not having sex whit me anymore or to have who ever she want, because i don't think she will agree to let me had sex whit all the girls i want if we love each other.

[FinalFantasyBro]

I don't have this fantasy, would be so pissed

[Snowman666]

I could never do that. Either way. Love my wife too much

[Posterboy56]

It's about control and power; if a guy who's into that allows it to happen, it has nothing to do with love, and it doesn't disrupt the love he has for her (if he does love her, anyway) because 1) sex and love aren't the same thing, and 2) it's only happening because he wants it to. Having control over the situation changes the situation.

[Reemaa]

I feel some men are too innocent to think women = men. I'm feminist , and I will talk about this from a scientific view , women are emotional-beings , we are not like men , our hormones make us more emotional , women see sex is a sign of love and from emotional view ! So girlfriends who are totally okay with cuckold are either : 1) Bisexual , and can understand it totally it's okay to have sex with the same gender. 2) Love her boyfriend so MUCH to the extent that it's okay if he imagines these things even though she feels not comfortable but she will go with it. 3) During sex she can really feel turned on but don't expect she will feel the same if you both finish sex , she will question your libido, ability to fuck and even your sexual orientations.

[disgustingweebtrash]

They get off to the humiliation.

They probably feel jealous but justify it in their head with "she's just sexually empowered" whilst they play on the switch

[Hanrej]

Ofcourse I feel jelous. That's part of the charm.

[Valnac]

No not really!

[Bshu2jdbxb]

Yes I feel jealousy when see saw🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺

[Bshu2jdbxb]

What about you?

[Anonymous]

I get jealous but also aroused by it

[Anonymous]

I am very jealous type. I had arguments with the girl I loved after I found she was was sending nudes to her ex before me. Actually she was saying she never sent those type of pictures to her ex when she sent those to me.

[Anonymous]

Cuckold fantasy is more common than you think, some men are into the humiliation aspect of it, those men are secretly bisexual and fantasize about taken part in it, while others just enjoy watching their women pleased like they watch porn, they are voyeuristic, and they're called stag.