To you, does oral/fingering/handjob count as losing your virginity?

[Anonymous]

Have you ever done those activities and not ever had normal sex (penis in vagina)?

[Anonymous]

To me, if you're straight and if you have had penis in vagina sex, then you lost your virginity. If not, even if you did some or all of these things, you're still a virgin.
And no, I never did neither of these things or had actual sex.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for the MHO.

[notallthere98]

Virginity is a concept created by men to give women more marital value. It is an imaginary thing that you cannot have or lose, because all it means is that you have not experienced something.

[SOUTHofZERO]

i don't think fingering or a hand job is sex. but oral def is

[dudeman]

oral counts.