Together almost 6 years but, married only 2 months. Husband has become extremely emotionally abusive and watches porn over having sex?

[DSBM1011]

My husband and I have a great sex life when we actually have sex. We are very kinky and use toys. I've never told him no to anything he has wanted to try. I am not against porn but, I am very frustrated when it takes precedence over our sex life.

He has become an unbareably hateful, emotionless asshole. He accused me of cheating and turned around and asked to fuck my best friend while he was drunk and I was in the other room. He doesn't know if he wants to stay or go. He treats me like absolute shit even though all I do all day is take care of our kids and household.

Last night I took the kids to a hotel and told him I needed him to fight for our marriage or I couldn't do this anymore and he literally went home and watched porn while ignoring me for 7 hours prior.

What the fuck is wrong with him/me

[Clary4]

WTF to him (OMG I used WTF less than 10times over my life I think , but he really really …. GRRR) STAY STRONG MOM's , I hope you can get this hard time over asap and find your happy ending along your child. Hope he can be fix and change without you being hurt so badly (but if he can't … u know what descision to make)

[DSBM1011]

Ya he can really be a bitch sometimes. Thank you!

[mrshaft]

Well maybe he is drinking too much and it's affecting his judgement and everything else about him. I'm quite sure I've hit the nail on the head actually, and I'm sorry to say that you are in a marriage that is in decline. It's not you... it's him, even though he might disagree.

[DSBM1011]

We actually just had a discussion about that and he admitted his drinking is a problem! You did hit the nail on the head!

[mrshaft]

A correct diagnosis does nothing to change the situation however. I would suggest a change in diet if possible to one that drastically reduces processed sugar and things with high fructose corn syrup in them. Cutting back on excessive dependence on red meat would be wise too. You needn't eliminate it entirely. A conscious effort to not drink alcohol is also needed, but as with reducing the amount of red meat in the diet, it may not be wise to quit alcohol consumption totally because that just sets a person up for failure. Instead, find a substitute like going to a gym 2 or 3 times a week instead or boozing. I probably drank more than your husband ever did but it's been 30 years since I've consumed alcohol and I was either an alcoholic or damn close to it. It was effortless for me to quit because the urge to drink simply evaporated into thin air. Good luck to you guys.

[andrermm]

If he preferes porn than fking the living shit out of you he's clearly upset about this cheating situation. If it's not true, he doesn't know it. And he probably will never accept it.
I'd move on

[DSBM1011]

Thank you!

[meesegoMoo]

face the basic fact: Porn is cheating, and he's probably cheating in other ways too.

[monsterockstar]

Be romantic with him and and put sexy dresses talk to him romantically and take phone switch off while Ur romantic mood with him Roch his body

[DSBM1011]

I do that already..

[monsterockstar]

Are ask him he is loving anyone or y are doing like ask him do u have any problems ask Ru an virgin then he may love and sex u

[monsterockstar]

Ok pm me I will say more ideas

[Iron_Man]

Move on

[Naughtyboy71]

He has problems need to let him go take
the kids and find a place may I ask just asking
have you fucked another man sense being married