Told my boyfriend that I was very horny and wanted to do it with him on Sun. but he refused and said that he wanted to rest until Tues. is he normal?

He wants to rest at his house due to jet lag but he got back yesterday don’t know why he has to rest 4 days. Being with me should be relaxing we just lie in bed together. Oof.

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Most Helpful Guys

  • Seems weird unless you always have him do all the work. I could be so tired that I can't even move, and I'd still let a girlfriend/wife sit on my dick and have at it.

    • We only did two quickies when we were over there we didn’t really get any privacy

  • He needs some me time. Leave the guy alone.

    • Is this a normal thing for a guy to still need that much time if a girl tells him that she wants his dick?

    • Most guys always need a couple hours of quiet time a week to sit and do nothing. If he needs a couple days then he probably really need it. You guys like to go fishing where you do nothing but fish for hours? Or that guy going to his hut somewhere doing nothing but chopping wood?

    • We were with family unable to have privacy for 15 days and greeting people all the time and on too of that we’ve had a horrible flight.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I think after 2 weeks straight with someone, any sane person would need a break. give him some space & time - “distance makes the heart grow fonder”.❤️

    • Girl but what if you’re married and live together 😂?

    • Even married people need a break from eachother

  • He asked for space. If you needed it you would want him to respect your wishes.

    • ^^^^^^^^^ this.

    • @SnowedIn ☺️

    • ... gotta acknowledge truth, particularly when it is so well written.

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  • I don’t think it’s normal. Here we use jet lag to go at it like rabbits when we’re laying idle in bed… Helps getting better sleep afterwards.

  • Seriously what’s wrong with him?, Just ask him! Demand that dick inside you asap.

  • Jet lag is REAL. Yes, even 4 days' worth. And what @dustybiker said.

  • Performance anxiety? I bet he need that rest. Or he is working on someone else.

    • Thanks for like!

  • Yes if he's 100.

  • What a loser.

  • Maybe he needs a few days to bang his side chick?

    • We had the worst flight ever and missed the plane he’s also a very humble person that acts like an old man so him cheating would not be the case especially with an introvert. He loves me but he has always been more detached than me when it comes to hanging out.

    • Well, it sounds like you know who he is, and his behaviour is probably typical of a detached person who likes to have their own space especially after conflict and feeling stressed. I'm not saying he's normal at all, but if you want a guy who is obsessed with you and loving on you 24 hours a day, this guy probably isn't that.

    • What a curse I have an anxious attachment style and he has a detached attachment style rip