Too wet during sex?

Is it possible to be too wet? Like is there a way to not be so wet? He's on the smaller side and he slips out so easy especially in riding and doggy style. Any ideas, tips or thoughts would be great lol
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  • Question, you say he's a big boy, what's your body type I'm? You slom or are you a big girl too?

    I'm not a girl so I don't know what a dry v feels like from experience but from what I've heard dry penatration is offal, so no I don't think your wetness is the issue.

    I don't think there is such a thing as too wet when it comes to penatration.

    I know you don't want to hurt his feeling but the issue isn't how wet you are it's the size of his dick. What is his technique? I'm guessing he's trying to do to long a thrust, short guys can't do that long stroke like porn, sorry no ball slapping for the short guys. You say he's like 3.5 or 4 so he's probably gonna need to hit it straight on, like over the side of the coach or lifting your but high of the bed for missionary.

    Your dude is gonna have to face the facts that he is small, realize you still like him, get over it and look up moves that work for a heavy guy with a small tool. Live ain't fair but it can't be changed, he'll just have to learn how to use the cards he was dealt.

    Of course if he lost weight that would help, depending on how fat he is he may gain an inch or two if he losses weight, who knows how much penis is hidden by fat.

    • I'm definitely curvy but not huge. Im short as hell and got hips and ass 😂 he's probably 6 foot 300-350. I think maybe a middle wet would be good but im like a super soaker -.-

    • Yeah don't sound like a great combo for a smaller penis. Not to be to graphic but do you got a little padding down there? Like on a twiggy girl there's no fluff, either you're in or you aren't. My girls got a little fluff there makes it a little tricky at times. Oh well I'm out of ideas, good luck, I can tell you care about hi. if your willing to ask here, I don't see how you'd dial back the waterworks but I hope y'all find some way to improve things.

    • I am lol well thank you 😊

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  • You can never, ever be too wet. Dry is terrible, but wet is great. It is great when going down, and even better for sex. I have had g try he opposite problem where the tip slides in, but halfway in the labia are fry (in and out a bit and all good).

    I have never heard of what you describe (I like small women), but I suspect you have it wrong. You need to get your stance right. When riding, do not ride up so much, or have him sit at the edge of the bed, then you sit on top back to his chest. You can bounce with your feet, and he can rip you down if you get too high. with foggy style, is he short? I can always spread my knees, but if you are taller, then you must spread your knees. Or he can bend you over the bed while you are standing.

    if he cannot last, get a vibrator, the have him service you until he gets it up again. This is great fun.
    there is nothing more pride-inspiring than a woman’s panties feeling like they are coated in vasalene when one removes them. Even touching a woman between the legs that aroused is magic. Your man is lucky. Too many of us get stuck with dry, unaroused women.

    • Thats actually a great description of my undies lol. Im thick and short. he's probably 6 foot 300-350lbs. I had to become more flexible to spread my knees far enough apart. He does struggle with not lasting as well. I usually bounce too high but he doesn't grab me wish he did. It seems like I can only grind and go in circles on him

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  • If he has a small willy, just have a towel nearby and soak up some of the moisture. My ex was huge, but my new guy is small, and I have the very same concerns as you.

    • Thanks so much. I feel embarrassed 😳

    • Don't fee embarrassed.

    • Do you feel a difference between the guy that was huge and the new guy?

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  • Have your boyfriend wear a cock sleeve so he's bigger. You can never be too wet and I promise you he wouldn't have it any other way.

    • Awh thank you ❤ can they still feel?

    • Not as much. But I'm that situation is all about your pleasure. And he'll get immense pleasure knowing that he's getting you off.

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  • It's NEVER too wet. I love it when it coats my cock and drips off of my balls, and when it smears all over both of our inner thighs so that we slide against each other as if we are oiled up. I love pulling out and seeing her literally drip.
    Sex is supposed to be slippery.

  • Maybe a condoms would help.

  • I don't know if I can be much help, but os sounds like his size is the issue here. I've been with very wet girls and it's never slipped out, yes the sensation isn't quite as good because there is less friction but never slupped out. Maybe you need to look as positions that suit his size better. Out of interest what size are we talking?

    • 3.5 to 4 and thin. he's also a heavy man too. I always get super wet i soak sheets and squirt during oral

    • Ok 4 inches thats a problem i guess, have you tried cowgirl and those kind of positions? Will probably allow for deeper penetration and not allow it to slip out if you just rock on it.

    • I do cowgirl he likes when I bounce a little but he always comes out. It gets frustrating

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  • Not in my opinion; usually, if a girl is wet, it usually means she really, really likes me and/or likes what I am doing. Don't fight nature, girl, and don't apologize for it.

    • Awh thank you ❤

  • Just a simple, practical solution. Keep one of these nearby.

    Too wet during sex?

    If he loses traction, pause and let him blot you out (he will like that) and then resume.
    Repeat of needed. Besides, he might keep it around for inspiration if he masturbates.

  • No such thing as too wet.
    Missionary position, him on top, you on the bottom with a pillow under your hips.
    HIS legs to the outside, YOUR legs to the inside, tight together.
    That MIGHT add enough friction to help him cum.
    Both pillow under your hips and your legs tight together.
    If this works for you please send me a note about how it went.
    I hope you guys find what you need.
    I broke my back in the military and we've had to explore and experiment until we found solutions.

    We had to take the mindset of "there is no frustration, we just haven't found the best technique YET".
    Keep trying and have fun doing it.
    Remember, lesbians don't have cocks but they've found a multitude of ways to please a partner.
    Good luck.

    • I love your positive mindset. We can try it lol he's a lot heavier than I am so it might be difficult

  • Omg. I can’t imagine too wet. One of my good female friends just talked to me about her being to wet and her insecurities about it. I was like, you are out of your mind. She’s married, but I was like, I’d kill to be your husband.

    • I'm definitely insecure about it lol

  • To be perfectly honest there is no way a girl can ever be to wet especially after she cums twice inside my hot wet mouth after sucking harder and harder on her inner lips and softly biting her swollen Clitoris as she cums inside my hot wet mouth I just harder and harder as she cums inside me.

  • not possible

  • Nope such thing as too wet. .
    You too will have to communicate and work together on that..

  • It is NEVER possible to get too wet, as long as it isn't piss... Drown me baby... drown me

  • It is possible thick condoms can help not lubed

    • Thanks for like!

  • I guess the slipping out can be a problem

    • It gets very frustrating

    • I was with a girl who had this once, message me or drop me a follow and I am happy to discuss

  • You are fine nothing wrong with you is his size a problem for you?

    • Little bit. he's maybe 3.5 to 4 inches.

    • Do you communicate that to him or his he too sensitive

    • Way too hard on himself, I couldn't do it

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  • Tell him to grow up and stop having a little peepee

    • Omg lol I can't be that mean

    • Haha don’t worry about your natural body functions during sex either though. Work on finding positions that are good for both of you instead of trying to change your body. Asking you to stop being aroused is the same as asking him to get a bigger penis.

    • Very true lol. Thank you

  • I had this problem with an ex. She got so wet that I would slip out a lot. ( yes I am on the smaller side). She used to keep a towel and wipe herself when it got too wet. But it was hard to keep the mood.

    • Thats what I'm worried about. He doesn't last long but it messes shit up lol

    • Wow I’m surprised he doesn’t last long. My problem was that I fell out so much and she would stop to wipe and I would actually have a hard time cumming because we stopped so much.

    • Thats something I'm definitely worried about