Threesomes. Whether it’s the mystery, the fantasy, or simply the added pleasure of an extra someone, GAGers can’t seem to get enough of this taboo topic. We see questions from all aspects regarding threesomes, so today we’re sharing 10 of our top questions from GAG users about the topic. Check them out below!
I would want a threesome if my girlfriend would be ok with it, but only with 2 girls in the mix, me being the only man. I can not think of anything good being naked in a room with another man, it grosses me out, and makes my penis shrivel up inside my belly, leaving a hole like a vagina
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pewdiepie_Xper 7
+1 y
If you have an extra Girl then just send her to me.
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skeptic007Yoda
+1 y
nah im good
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wrightontimeXper 6
+1 y
I was part of 2 threesomes and they both ended badly. My girlfriends at the time got jealous and resenting me for it. Right after all 3 of use were done, they felt like I cheated on them, felt jealous, and never sexually touched me again.
Threesomes only work in the fantasy world of porn when people GET PAID to perform threesomes as a job. When you are getting paid, you dont have to feel emotions because you are performing and job and more concerned about the $2.5k you are about to make. You are getting paid to perform a job, not to get emotinally attached to someone.
Again, threesomes don't work in the real world where there are emotions involved. It's just a fantasy real people want. Threesomes only work in the fantasy world of porn when people GET PAID.
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Littlewings85
+1 y
I would have to disagree in part. Threesomes can work wonderfully well for all three participants without any of them being in the porn business. I've had a MFF threesome twice (both times with me, my boyfriend at the time and a female friend) and both times we all had a lot of fun and several orgasms. I think that the female in the relationship (in my examples this being me) has to have a certain type of personality, where she is able to separate sex as an act for enjoyment and sex as part of a relationship. (For lack of better terms she is able to separate 'sex' and 'making love') If she is genuinely able to do this then there isn't the awkward jealousy or paranoia parts and everyone can just relax and have fun.
wrightontime
+1 y
@Littlewings85 I'm glad it worked out for you. I sure as hell did not work for me. Maybe it was the age. My threesomes were at 14 and 16 years old. Your threesomes were probably at a much older age. You are a decade older than me.
Littlewings85
+1 y
I was 18 an 19 so not much older than you.
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wrightontime
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@Littlewings85 There is a huge difference between maturity levels every age in the teens. 18 year olds are in another league compared to 14 year olds. 19 year olds are in another league compared to 16 year olds. Your should know that. I'm 19 now and 14-16 year olds seem like children to me.
Littlewings85
+1 y
Perhaps. Then again when you're speaking in the sense of emotional age then men are a hell of a lot more immature at any physical age so maybe it was that. The only way to know would be to try it again now you're an adult, know what you're doing and have more of a grasp on your own emotional development. Maybe you would have a positive experience this time around?
phild_parXper 6
+1 y
I love doing 3some. With a huge preference for FFM type. I have been lucky to experience quite a few latelly.
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TrustyGuideXper 4
+1 y
It's on my bucket list.
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robbiemXper 4
+1 y
I had a three some make out session but no sexual intercourse when I was a teenager it was a wonderful experience I wish it would of graduated to the sex part but that is life
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latinwarlockXper 5
+1 y
Had a threesome with my girlfriend , FMF and MFM. Have to say was a very positive expirences.
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DenisetybXper 5
+1 y
Only sluts have threesomes eww
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Bigski
+1 y
Sluts are awesome. Go f**k yourself
HouseBoltonXper 4
+1 y
"Hey, babe, we got such a great thing going here. We gotta bring someone else into this!"
Nope, that never causes problems!
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hawaiianflowerXper 4
+1 y
Just DO NOT ASK LESBIANS for a threesome. NEVER.
Otherwhise, it's up to you... I wouldn't do it.
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Bizzaro_Elmo
+1 y
Ofcourse you never ask lesbians for threesomes. They want to be men!! They ARE just like any marine who's an asshole; macho ALL the time. And the essence of that is "don't call me weak! I can chew tobacco and spit just like any dude with balls! That pussy is mine! That's my car!! Those are my boots!! I'm incapable of sharing!! Mine! Mine!! Mine!!" Pathetic.
PatchdogXper 4
+1 y
Don't do it with anyone you really care about. Someone usually always gets hurt emotionally.
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Smart1393Xper 4
+1 y
I've had four threesomes on separate occasions and came to the same consensus everytime they came to an end. Two were MMF and the other two were WWM. The first two I had were my best guy friend at the time and whatever random floosy we came in contact with that was up for it. One of the WWM I was in was two girls at a party, and the last one was two step sisters (not my step sisters, I dont have any) and then me. Its not that I couldn't focus per say, it that I didn't know what or who to focus on to perform well. I didn't lose any friends over them, I just wasn't sure what i had achieved by partaking in the activity. It has to be something that you're at least half sure that you want to do before you do it. If I never have another one, I'll be fine because I've had every variation of the act, but I don't think I'll be actively looking for a chance to do it again. It definitely was nothing like a porno and any one that tells you it is, is lying to you. The idea of it is way more fulfilling than the act itself.
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tbobetXper 3
+1 y
A threesome is good thing. but, its a bad thing. if you have some ground rule of the threesome. your partner that marry will enjoy having sex, with opposite sex or same sex. if i ever i try it out. i would like that. they always be down fall of things.
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BluebrickerXper 3
+1 y
Had a threesome with my boyfriend and one of his guy friends... We broke up pretty much a week later
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pleasureUXper 1
+1 y
Go enjoy your self
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MatildaLLXper 1
1 y
So long as the third knows your styles a bit, threesomes can be fun
If not theyre kinda just third wheelin it and not really knowing how to work in a good rhythm
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ChilipepperXper 1
1 y
I have had threesomes that have worked out well and worked out horribly. It might be maturity, but my younger threesomes both FFM & MMF went sideways quickly. The FFM was bad b/c I couldn't seem to be giving enough attention to either girl to keep them happy. The MMF was bad because the other guy wanted to be the "memorable sex partner". He achieved that in all the wrong ways.
My current girlfriend has always been sexual with her best friend. I think it works because i focus on their satisfaction rather than my own. Lets face it, my satisfaction is almost guaranteed having 2 hot women naked around me. Since they're into each other anyway, i just add to the equation.
It is tricky but can work if communication is good
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Anonymous
+1 y
My wife and I share with another young married couple. The guy has a massive tool and takes my wife up against the wall. While I sort his wife out in our bedroom. Its such a turn on. We do this once a month.
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Avishek14
+1 y
Nice
Avishek14
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Nice. Its precious words n different idea.
Anonymous
+1 y
I am currently dating a married man, but it's ok because I'm sleeping with his wife also. Threesomes can be fun of everyone enjoys themselves.
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22 47I would want a threesome if my girlfriend would be ok with it, but only with 2 girls in the mix, me being the only man.
I can not think of anything good being naked in a room with another man, it grosses me out, and makes my penis shrivel up inside my belly, leaving a hole like a vagina
If you have an extra Girl then just send her to me.
nah im good
I was part of 2 threesomes and they both ended badly. My girlfriends at the time got jealous and resenting me for it. Right after all 3 of use were done, they felt like I cheated on them, felt jealous, and never sexually touched me again.
Threesomes only work in the fantasy world of porn when people GET PAID to perform threesomes as a job. When you are getting paid, you dont have to feel emotions because you are performing and job and more concerned about the $2.5k you are about to make. You are getting paid to perform a job, not to get emotinally attached to someone.
Again, threesomes don't work in the real world where there are emotions involved. It's just a fantasy real people want. Threesomes only work in the fantasy world of porn when people GET PAID.
I would have to disagree in part. Threesomes can work wonderfully well for all three participants without any of them being in the porn business. I've had a MFF threesome twice (both times with me, my boyfriend at the time and a female friend) and both times we all had a lot of fun and several orgasms. I think that the female in the relationship (in my examples this being me) has to have a certain type of personality, where she is able to separate sex as an act for enjoyment and sex as part of a relationship. (For lack of better terms she is able to separate 'sex' and 'making love') If she is genuinely able to do this then there isn't the awkward jealousy or paranoia parts and everyone can just relax and have fun.
@Littlewings85 I'm glad it worked out for you. I sure as hell did not work for me. Maybe it was the age. My threesomes were at 14 and 16 years old. Your threesomes were probably at a much older age. You are a decade older than me.
I was 18 an 19 so not much older than you.
@Littlewings85 There is a huge difference between maturity levels every age in the teens. 18 year olds are in another league compared to 14 year olds. 19 year olds are in another league compared to 16 year olds. Your should know that. I'm 19 now and 14-16 year olds seem like children to me.
Perhaps. Then again when you're speaking in the sense of emotional age then men are a hell of a lot more immature at any physical age so maybe it was that. The only way to know would be to try it again now you're an adult, know what you're doing and have more of a grasp on your own emotional development. Maybe you would have a positive experience this time around?
I love doing 3some. With a huge preference for FFM type.
I have been lucky to experience quite a few latelly.
It's on my bucket list.
I had a three some make out session but no sexual intercourse when I was a teenager it was a wonderful experience I wish it would of graduated to the sex part but that is life
Had a threesome with my girlfriend , FMF and MFM.
Have to say was a very positive expirences.
Only sluts have threesomes eww
Sluts are awesome. Go f**k yourself
"Hey, babe, we got such a great thing going here. We gotta bring someone else into this!"
Nope, that never causes problems!
Just DO NOT ASK LESBIANS for a threesome. NEVER.
Otherwhise, it's up to you... I wouldn't do it.
Ofcourse you never ask lesbians for threesomes. They want to be men!! They ARE just like any marine who's an asshole; macho ALL the time. And the essence of that is "don't call me weak! I can chew tobacco and spit just like any dude with balls! That pussy is mine! That's my car!! Those are my boots!! I'm incapable of sharing!! Mine! Mine!! Mine!!" Pathetic.
Don't do it with anyone you really care about. Someone usually always gets hurt emotionally.
I've had four threesomes on separate occasions and came to the same consensus everytime they came to an end. Two were MMF and the other two were WWM. The first two I had were my best guy friend at the time and whatever random floosy we came in contact with that was up for it. One of the WWM I was in was two girls at a party, and the last one was two step sisters (not my step sisters, I dont have any) and then me. Its not that I couldn't focus per say, it that I didn't know what or who to focus on to perform well. I didn't lose any friends over them, I just wasn't sure what i had achieved by partaking in the activity. It has to be something that you're at least half sure that you want to do before you do it. If I never have another one, I'll be fine because I've had every variation of the act, but I don't think I'll be actively looking for a chance to do it again. It definitely was nothing like a porno and any one that tells you it is, is lying to you. The idea of it is way more fulfilling than the act itself.
A threesome is good thing. but, its a bad thing. if you have some ground rule of the threesome. your partner that marry will enjoy having sex, with opposite sex or same sex. if i ever i try it out. i would like that. they always be down fall of things.
Had a threesome with my boyfriend and one of his guy friends... We broke up pretty much a week later
Go enjoy your self
So long as the third knows your styles a bit, threesomes can be fun
If not theyre kinda just third wheelin it and not really knowing how to work in a good rhythm
I have had threesomes that have worked out well and worked out horribly. It might be maturity, but my younger threesomes both FFM & MMF went sideways quickly. The FFM was bad b/c I couldn't seem to be giving enough attention to either girl to keep them happy. The MMF was bad because the other guy wanted to be the "memorable sex partner". He achieved that in all the wrong ways.
My current girlfriend has always been sexual with her best friend. I think it works because i focus on their satisfaction rather than my own. Lets face it, my satisfaction is almost guaranteed having 2 hot women naked around me. Since they're into each other anyway, i just add to the equation.
It is tricky but can work if communication is good
My wife and I share with another young married couple. The guy has a massive tool and takes my wife up against the wall. While I sort his wife out in our bedroom. Its such a turn on. We do this once a month.
Nice
Nice. Its precious words n different idea.
I am currently dating a married man, but it's ok because I'm sleeping with his wife also. Threesomes can be fun of everyone enjoys themselves.