Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
My take on (guy's propensity for) virginity and inspired by 5 Reasons Guys Prefer Experienced Women in Bed.
I hear it all the time: Guys love virgins! Guys wish every girl they sleep with could be a virgin!
Why should it not be? It is unsurprisingly obvious that guys like virgin girls. Biologically, we are made to prefer them so that, we could have better chances to spread 'our' genes to the offspring. We want to be sure that we are our children's father. But we don't live in caves anymore and there are a lot of things like implants, condoms, pills and girls who say things like:
Of course, most of us are not virginity hunters and we respect promiscuous women. So, why in the 21st century, guys still find it a turn-on if the girl is a virgin? Let me tell you why.
Less danger of a misunderstanding
These days, girls are very forward-looking. They know how to get their job done. Guys do sex only because they want children or pleasure (or revenge? that's too deep, let's not talk about this), but girls can do sex for a lot of luxuries. Guys may misunderstand the girls' intention and could end up being broke, blackmailed, suicidal, losing their youth hoping she's the one. Obviously, this requires a lot of skill and experience. Virgin girls are unlikely to abuse men by using sex compared to hoes as they are doing it only in love. Keep in mind that I used the word "hoes", not "promiscuous women", because they are not bad girls in any sense, at least I believe so.
There's no ambiguity or questioning when it comes to virgin women. If they don't want it, you'll know. If they do, you'll know then, too. No ifs, ands, or buts.
We want blood during sex
Seriously, it's such a turn on and most likely, a 'once-in-a-lifetime' moment. We are not talking about 'menstrual blood' here obviously. It gives us a feeling that we totally owned her. Yes, it might hurt a lot, but (boys, take a lesson) men know that it is completely normal and there is nothing to be freaked about. An astonishing achievement to add to your list (or bucket list?).
The guy will enjoy himself with a virgin
One of the reasons I don't get why people believe guys love experienced women is because it doesn't mean that you "learned" from your 'experiences'. I've been with several "experienced" women (so experienced that they already lost their count) who can't even ride properly or suck at sucking. They just lie on bed and do nothing. Even the most experienced girls had to learn how to do the things properly at some point. I hate to break to you, but being experienced doesn't guarantee that she is a crackerjack!
And who says virgins can't be fun? It is such a turn on to see their expressions when someone is not just seeing them naked but doing a lot to their body they only fantasized in their life, making them comfortable, turning them on, hearing their loudest moan ever, being helpless and begging for it to end but wanting their guy's pleasure at the same time. What can a guy expect more than that?
Experimentation is a GO
She will be doing the biggest experiment of her life. The experiment she can do only once. It would mean a lot to her. We all are nervous before performing on stage, but we know that we have to do it and the outcome will be prolific. Now, think about how would it feel to have a person like that in front of you, want to make you happy, all nervous because of you? She spent all those years, repressing her wild side and now, she chose YOU to unleash that. You will be craving for that moment. You will really want to try it out.
Experienced women already enjoyed a lot. They must have done a lot of things. What is experimental to you, could be monotonous for her. But for a virgin, you will teach her what sex really is. You are her master. She is ready to do that all. There is a long way to go. She's ready to fulfill her fantasies on you and guys don't lose out easily.
Guys go in knowing they have to step up their game
Okay, a little pun in that subtitle there but you know what I mean. With virgins, guys know how big deal it is. This is not your typical hook-up with a random nympho. She trusts you, loves you and this is going to hurt her really bad. She might get freaked out. There is a lot of responsibility. It requires real guts to get the consent of a virgin, take her to your bed, turn her on, take her clothes off and finally do it WITHOUT making her completely apathetic about the whole idea of sex.
Anybody can ram it in, but with virgins, it is very perplexing task and guys really love that thrill. When it ends, it makes them feel like winners, a great ego boost. I guess a good analogy would be this: If you're playing in the majors, it wouldn't be much fun to play with some random dude from A ball, right? You want some competition; you want to play with someone who can bring out the best in you. Give your best thrust guys ;)
[Bonus]
Religion, Marriage values, No comparison, Purity, Virgins can get 'experience' but experienced ones can't become virgins unless we really trust them lol and last but not least, this take applies on long term relationships.
Suggested reading: Top 5 Reasons Why Guys Prefer Experienced Girls in Bed
#rekt
Thanks for reading. Virgin or not, guys love girls. Don't hate, checkmate.
Game on folks, believe!
What Girls & Guys Said
56 50I get that this was sarcasm but you could have done without the "we want blood" line. It doesn't exactly paint guys who like virgins in the best light and girls pretty much already hate guys who prefer virgins.
Yes man, you are right. I failed. But I got 203 xper, lot of likes, things to laugh and a lesson. Fair deal.
Well then. I want to keep my virginity. I don't want to be used. -_-
It was a satire.
Yeah, sure. Well done anyway.
Interesting
Thanks for reading :)
I see there is a bit of a war in takes so I will give the same answer to both - I think most dudes will just be happy to get a woman - If you are connected properly and communicate enough with your partner, you will chose the best path forward for both of you - Everybody will have their own turn ons, turn offs, boundaries and what they are willing to explore - An experienced woman will be like a favourite journey whereas a virgin is finding a place for the first time which could be amazing but can be awkward as well then again just because a restaurant has amazing reviews, it is not a 100% guarantee you will think the food is amazing - In conclusion, simply put you are both right in your own way.
True :) Thanks!
no body likes blood ! I once had sex with my girlfriend during her period (she insisted) and I can tell you I was nothing but enjoying ! I was worried, terrified that I might be hurting her and my mind was busy to pay attention to her reactions and voices in case i was hurting her !! I failed to ejaculate while she had two orgasms ! and at the end when I pulled out the blood was covering everywhere and I wasn't happy with the view !
actually one of the reasons I stayed virgin for a long time and had problems in communicating with them physically was because of a virgin girl whom pushed me to take her virginity in my young ages and I was close to do so everytime she was pushing me away and ended up crying which held me back confused and destined me from girl for a quite long time !!
so no virgin girls are not what I want, no experience, shallow confidence, too much emotional, mostly a lot of strings attached !! so I don't see your point !
I don't like period sex either. No problem.
still didn't answer my question: "no experience, shallow confidence, too much emotional, mostly a lot of strings attached !!" what's your point in enjoying or giving advantage in this point?
"no experience" See point #3 & 4 "shallow confidence" Generalisation "much emotional, mostly a lot of strings attached" What if you want a relationship?
virgin women can't fuck they get sore after 30 minutes and can't more then once a day. I l like girl with 1 or 2 less bodys then me. Also you need be really stupid get manipulated by sex. someone won't fuck you cause you take them an overpriced restraunt they want someone connect with in real way
I really hope this was all a sarcasm lol.. otherwise you're totally not as sensible as I thought you were.. this is clearly something which goes on in the head of a immature socially awkward man..
sleeping around is totally different than someone who had sex with a guy she was in a long relationship with.. and saw a future with him.. you're putting all girls who've had sex in the same group.. and if a guy doesn't want something with a girl just because she's had sex in past.. he's clearly insecure that she might've seen a better dick and has had better sexual experience than what he can offer
That was satire :P
yeah you should have cleared that xD I was like ''what the fuck happened to him?''
I don't write "satire, jk, sarcasm" etc. because sad people are going to take offence for one thing or another and it ruins the fun :P It is not a joke if you have to tell them that it was :D But people on this site lack common sense. I am getting a lot of hate :/
sweetie.. this satire thing clearly isn't your forte... I can understand why people got confused because it does seem more serious than a humorous take on this topic.. it doesn't seem to be a mockery...
I am too influential ._.
lol was waiting for this, solid execution 10/10
but for the girls asking questions, yes it does mean a lot to us in terms of we're just not another tick on the bedpost, the fact she chose us over anyone else.
The blood one seems to raise questions, yeah we know it's hurting her, but she's willing to go through the pain to see us happy? It's kindof an overwhelming feeling, not to mention we're the only one she's willing to do it for. It's not the actual fact she's bleeding.
YES!!! EXACTLY! Thanks for reading :)
I love this Task! it's awesome and I understand know why he felt like a fucking boss, I even feel like one reading this haha
Thanks for reading and such a positive feedback :D Cheers!
You do know that the first time isn't supposed to hurt and there isn't supposed to be any blood right? Are you saying that you WANT to make it a bad experience for the girl?
I know. I'm not a kid.
So why exactly would you want to see blood? Do you actually want it to hurt for her?
Nah. It's something we like it. Like hair-pulling, slapping, chocking, spanking etc. could be counted in violence but they are not while blood is natural. It's not what we literally "love", but it's a special moment for us. You don't experience things like that on daily basis :)
But those are things you do when someone wants you to do it to them. Practically no one wants to bleed. Girls who experience a lot of pain their first time describe it as a horrible experience and want to get over with it immediately. It pretty much means that the sex was bad. Did you actually mean that bit or was it just a response to the other take?
Bleeding doesn't necessarily make it bad tbh. Even girls who don't bleed may find their first time horrible. And I never wanted to brutally cause pain to her.
Majority of the times, it does. A lot of women experience pain even without blood so you can imagine how painful it would be for the women that do bleed. You also said in your take that it's "completely normal" but it's actually not. Any blood is caused because something is wrong. Virgin or not, sex is not supposed to hurt and there isn't supposed to be any blood.
If you are virgin, you are supposed to bleed. Not necessarily tho. If she's not virgin, then it's something serious and totally not cool.
No that's a myth. Even virgins are not supposed to bleed. The reasons many of them do is because they're either nervous or there isn't enough lubrication.
Hmm perhaps you're right, but it's no big deal. There is a reason defloration shows blood in its videos. Guys like it.
The guys who do don't care about the girl
Oh please... don't start these things.
It's true
Hell no.
So you'd actually want to hurt someone you care about? Makes complete sense.
That's not hurting. Either you intentionally want to argue or you are not emotionally developed enough. Whatever... carry on.
How is it not hurting? You actually want her to bleed, which is probably going to hurt her. It's actually one of the most common fears among virgin girls and none of them look forward to it. Have you ever spoken to one before? You can deny it all you want but that's pretty much what it means.
It hurts, yes. Did I deny? But so do childbirth, should we stop procreating? The whole process is natural so, it's no big deal. Lot of girls experienced that and most of the pain is psychological.
Except childbirth is supposed to hurt. Sex is not. So stop using that argument because it's pathetic. I do know you're trolling but that doesn't make you any less of a dick.
You started to show your true colours.
So did you
No. I never tried to be offensive and called you a troll or feminist etc. Just because I was replying and trying to settle this argument, doesn't mean that I'm trolling. You are overly emotional.
Well that just makes it even worse then. You really do want it to hurt for her... Well have fun
No. That's not what I meant. Sad to know that it's been three hours and you're still arguing over something I didn't even mean it.
You indirectly did. If you want her to bleed, then it's no different from wanting it to hurt.
I (& guys like me) don't care about the girl. That's what you wanted to assert? Okay believe whatever makes you sleep at night. Why should I care about what a random girl on internet thinks about me.
I think what he means is that he just wants to have an effect on her, and be memorable. Like if it hurts, she'll remember him later. I thought it was weird too but a guy told me this. It's not the pain or the blood he likes really, but how significant it can make him feel. Like that he had an impact on her that other guys didn't. It's not even about sex, he just wants to be remembered. But like I said in my post, this is why more girls should do foreplay and especially fingering. Then the pain issues or whatever will be taken care of and she won't have to suffer during even first time sex... I can't resist, but even if she did suffer, that doesn't make sex memorable or her have a good opinion of his skillz. That makes him her *worst* lay, that she'll always remember.
Basically if someone bleeds (how much) or not depends on how much hymen tissue they have.
@SovereignessofVamps that can be done in many ways other than causing her pain. My first time was memorable because the guy tried to make it as painless as possible for me.
@MysteriousDarkness it's actually a myth that the hymen keeps fading away and it's not supposed to disappear after the first time. It actually heals back to exactly how it was originally and it stays there till you die. It's also not supposed to "break" since that means you're doing something wrong
@SovereignessofVamps You understand us ;_;
Lol if u mess with small d's it won't hurt
Opinion owner. Damn girl , relax...
And also hymens can break during other activities. :)
@YourFutureEx Thanks dude, and I think if people communicated more in bed lots of problems would go away anyway.
@SovereignessofVamps You are far more intelligent than most of the girls on G@G, but then again, you have real life experiences while most G@Gers just waste their time in front of screen.
How ~interesting~ that women's health, safety, and enjoyment of sex are all jokes and grounds for satire to OP.
@BellePepper Feminists have arrived yay! What do you want tea or coffee? Don't say men.
I want answers as to why you think that harming women is a "satire" topic.
@BellePepper Where is harm? I love a girl, she loves me. We had sex, she bled a bit (natural process) and we lived happily. Some girls be like... He is treating women like objects, he is misogynist, rapist, patriarchy!! Seriously, don't you girls have a life? I like that you care about women, but get up from your screen and really do something in your real life rather shoving your frustration on internet for whatever is happening in your live. Thank god, I'm a happy person. Lot of girls liked this take, they didn't see any negativity, they are happy people too. "happiness is a choice" you really didn't choose it.
You already know where the harm comes from and instead of being like "wow I didn't think of it that way I'll try to be less fucking terrible at being a decent human being in the future" You're being like "it's a jooooke so you should totally think it's funny that I like to hurt people and think so poorly of those people that I laugh about their pain because it's satire" Bleeding during sex is NOT natural. It's a sign that the penatrator is being a selfish inconsiderate dick. Stopping the normalization of women in pain and educating people on how to have sex that's safe and pleasurable for all parties IS doing something. What you should really be asking yourself isn't "wah why won't they take this as a joke?" It's "why am I so determined to insist the harm and suffering of others is a joke?"
@YourFutureEx Not too much experience to be honest with you. I've only had a few guys and they were spaced out. When I was younger I didn't know anything about sex really. But I looked up stuff online and learned a lot. And found out stuff from online friends. Actually, that stuff the guy told me... he was an online friend! But I kept asking him why guys thought that way since we were talking about sex, and he told me. Other online guys helped me too...
@YourFutureEx Also, I don't think people who are more experienced feel this way. People. Not insulting you since I haven't had hardly anyone myself. But experienced guys can and will say they don't want virgin girls. They don't get an ego boost... they'll say her V card is nice, but they just want sex. They generally want experience, partners with lots of experience like how they are.
@SovereignessofVamps Yes, I completely agree.
@YourFutureEx You're surprising! Wasn't expecting that reply.
I think it's great when i break a girls hymen. True she bleeds but she won't ever have that experience with another man but me. Plus she is tight and won't know what's going on, awesome feeling.
Um no I just would prefer a virgin because of personal and religious reasons and I think it would be better relationship wise.
Yeah they're not literally 'top 5' lol had to choose them based on the take I mentioned.
Obliviously yeah.
kick ass article bro!
I'll be honest I'm not a vampire so I had to disagree with the blood part. the rest couldn't get any more accurate.
Thanks fella :) I intentionally added that blood part because of that take I mentioned below :)
otfrl! no wonder why it looked/sounded so damn familiar, coincidentally that was the same Mytake I commented on before arriving here!
Some people got butthurt over it tho ahaha 😂
The "virgins can't compare" and "Virgins don't have STDs" are highly underestimated in my opinion.
That's true.
I don't know how I'm going to deal with all the blood 😣
It's not necessary that you'll bleed so, no worries :) And even if you did, it's not much.
So you want to feel special because a virgin girl chose you to have sex with for the first time?
I didn't love the first guy I had sex with. I didn't bleed either. There goes your take.
thats why we prefer virgins over you
The points I mentioned are not all mandatory. It is a set of a lot of things. And then there is a thing that "everybody is not same".
@Dimmu Some virgins are like me buddy
@raspberry0416 well it's your problem and shame for losing it to the wrong guy. :)
@Berethor No shame or problem here, not sure what you're even talking about
I'm no virgin but I haven't had a lot of sex and consider myself rather inexperienced
I don't consider myself experienced either. It's such a vague term.
How many times or people have you had sex with?
Penetrative - 10 girls.
Penetrated by? 3 guys. 2 long term relationship exes and 1 fake ass friend
This is average number. But yeah, experience comes from deep involvement and practice.
Most ridiculous take I've read, congrats.
You lack comprehension skills, my condolence.
Yes, because disagreeing with someone is only possible if you don't understand them.
Your statement clearly didn't state that you just disagreed and to what and why.
I disagree with valuing women based on their genitals.
Who's valuing?
You.
Ugh! Told you that you lack comprehension skills.
Fine by me.
Great take!
Thanks a lot :)
Not really
Hmm everyone is different and that's how it should be, for our evolution.
For me, the only reasons I want a virgin girl are:
- I am a virgin myself
- Virginity proves integrity: You are not comitting to just anyone but you are saving it for someone special. It could be me :)
Allow me to be a little bold but these reasons apply only to you. Nevertheless we have something in common: Preference for virgin girls.
But in the end I do not care if a girl is a virgin or if I am going to be her 100. th sex-partner. In the latter I expect the same ease for sex as she had with previous guys however.
I deliberately chose those topics because of the take from the girl :)
I've seen it. The title alone doesn't make any sense to me but it's just me.