Toward giving a better blowjob.

[Anonymous]

Most things are improved by knowledge and skill. A BJ is no exception. First, the expression "blow job" comes from Victorian slang: "below job" or "b'low job" and is not about blowing, but rather simulating a vagina's capacity to induce ejaculation. A vagina is well designed for this, making contact with the entire penis during thrusting, but not perfect because of its dual function of bearing children and limits on its capacity to move internally. "Kegeling" during intercourse is a learn-able talent that improves vaginal stimulation of the penis, but a skilled blowjob can considerably improve on a vagina.

(Diagram) A snug vagina principally and perfectly stimulates the glans of the penis, specifically the very sensitive "pleasure zones", the corona, frenulum and scultus. It also less perfectly applies pressure and motion to the shaft. My speculation from masturbating is that compressing and stroking the "vein" on the penis's underside (a "milking" motion) sends pressure waves to the prostate stimulating it to engorge with semen and ejaculate. A vagina does not provide much pressure to do this.

A puckered "kissing mouth" can simulate and improve on the vagina's stimulation of the pleasure zones and if done chin toward testicles, positions her tongue to dart it under the frenulum. Rapid bobbing of about an inch, suction, a tighter passage and tongue darting the frenulum all improve on a vagina. But a kissing mouth is even less suited to milking the shaft. That's where her hand comes into play. Her hand gives plenty of direct contact and can change speed and grip. Early on she should align her bobbing and hand stroking, applying a milking motion to the shaft which pulls at the prostate an draws up precum.

When his orgasm approaches, she should keep "nursing" at the glans but should begin stroking the shaft as rapidly as she can with a light grip. Many BJ'S end in frustration because she does not "go frantic" during the last 30 seconds. When ejaculation begins, the game changes. Instantly, the corona and scultus become super-sensitive, so bobbing should stop. She should continue sucking, tongue darting beneath the frenulum and hand stroking until ejaculation stops. Then she should hold his penis in her mouth, motionless, until he pulls out.

The pleasure of coming in a snug, warm, wet sucking mouth cannot be overstated, but getting there is half the fun.