Toys, just for the bedroom?

[BeachBabe96]

*NOT A THIRST TRAP*

So recently I've been looking to spice things up with the boyfriend, I just purchased vibrating kegal balls with a remote control. I told him about it and attempted to make a plan with him to be in control of it while we were out running errands and at dinner and he just brushed it off... he won't go into detail about why but I mean is it something really off the wall or something? You can't hear anything when it's on and inside... and you definitely can't see anything. The remote is also very small and discreet so you can literally just push the two buttons to change the settings in your pocket without much hassle. I mean maybe it's just me? Let me know your thoughts feel free to be as honest as you want. (Judgement free zone here! Thanks in advance!)

[chica296]

Sounds fun to me. Me and my boyfriend bought something similar, and we were thrilled to try it out, and it was a lot of fun.
Maybe your boyfriend thinks that you are telling him that the sex you have is not enough? Or that you are not satisfied?
Some guys are bothered about sex toys because they think you are telling them they are not man enough. Did you try to talk it out with him?

[BeachBabe96]

I mean from what I know I'm the "wildest" girl he's been with so I don't know. I fif try talking to him before the purchase and after I suggested it as mentioned but he hasn't seemed interested in the conversation so far?

[pantyloverr]

I would be thrilled to death to have the remote wow what a great work up to a night of pleasure and passion

[Berethor]

Maybe he think that you tight enough already or he worried about you becoming "too tight?" of maybe he just don't know what vibrating kegal balls do. Your choice of toy was not bad, if you bought big dildo I could see why your boyfriend would not liked that, but might not a fan of any toys, because he believe only in natural sexual contact and/or because he think that toys are silly.

[BeachBabe96]

I mean we've had sex with it in and both enjoyed it a lot? He's never turned his nose up to any of it before 🤷🏼‍♀️

[Berethor]

In that case looks like his main issue with that is that you want to do it outside the bedroom, you want him to use that toy while you dinner outside the house? you have public sex fatishes?

[BeachBabe96]

I mean we've done stuff in public settings before too but I figured it wasn't gonna be a bad idea?

[Berethor]

I didn't known that, so he has a specific issue with vibrating kegal balls but not with vibrators?

[BeachBabe96]

He hasn't really tried talking about it yet so I don't really know what his deal is rn, maybe just an off day?

[Berethor]

Yea, maybe you should talk with him about it later, he should tell you was his issue with it.

[Reaperbot666]

toys and/or outfits are good ways to spice things up once in a while. so you and your partner don't get sexually bored of each other to quickly. helps to keep an open mind to future suggestions.

[Reaperbot666]

7+ inch is above average for natural guys. most guys are between 5-7 inch long.

[BeachBabe96]

Sorry most guys I've been with are 7+... not saying that in a bitchy way just yeah 🤷🏼‍♀️

[Reaperbot666]

seems common these days that many women. enjoy or like above average size guys. most likely due to porn industry pushing the narrative to some degree.

[Reaperbot666]

hardly see a guy with a below average or average size in adult films these days. no matter what skin color, race, ethnic group or nationality he is.

[triff]

I can't understand it I would love to use them with you To watch the pleasure in your face Bringing you to a point and turning them off that would be amazing

[wankiam]

i think they can be a lot of fun and ofcourse most of the thrill of it will be that you are indeed out in public... my toy has to pretty much stay in the house lol

[wankiam]

@update thanks for sharing... im always interested to hear about girls and their toys ;)

[Dargil]

I think almost anything between consenting partners is on limits, but everyone has their limits. Guessing this exceeds his.

[Dargil]

Update. Get one of these, use it on yourself closeup or let him do it for you. The outcome will be pretty exciting.
www.adameve.com/.../...next-generation-104151.aspx

[joeldalton]

I’ve used those, they are a lot of fun for a night out.

[888theGreat]

Is he your Boyfriend or your dog?

[9Livezzz]

You should be cautious, sounds like he's cheating to be honest

[mrgspoter]

Dildos are boring but the outher sound interesting

[Agonist]

Give me the remote ;P 💦

[CubaPirate]

I'd be only too happy if my girl wanted that

[B2281]

Sounds like fun to me.

[gandolph3]

maybe his manhood is threatened

[Smf1989]

Sounds like fun

[Anonymous]

Lol wtf what a boring dude XD I would actually be the one to suggest going in public with remote vibe to my girlfriend its one of my fantasies... one of many