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I know this view of mine is weird. So I am a virgin by choice not by religion. I define virginity as never had vaginal sex.
I have that view to save myself for marriage, in my opinion I think is very romantic for him to carry me to bed on our wedding night knowing that he is the first and hopefully the only one that get to be in my pussy. He is the guy that transform me from a girl to a women, his women. And that is how I distinguish between boyfriend and husband.
Now you might start to say what if we are not sexually compatible and there's lots of people out there that say "you can't not test drive a car before buying" and I totally agree with you. I want someone that meet all my sexual need too. That is where the twist is.
I am not as innocent as most might assume, I am very open to sexual idea. When I am in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, I would love to have oral sex (I could use better words but just trying to keep it a bit formal here ;) ) with them all the time because I actually enjoy it. I would have anal sex with them, that is how I would know we are sexually compatible or not. I am not against toy plays as long as nothing in my pussy before marriage. That is why my box of toys (yes i do have a box of toys) is just anal toys, clit stimulators, nipple clamps and gag balls. Ps that is exactly the box I have ;)
I guess my point is I am very open sexually, I have many sexual fantasies and there's not much out there I would not try (only scat play I won't go there). But I only want to do it with my future husband.
I also don't have that view that my future husband needs to be virgin (in fact I would much prefer him have some sexual experience so he knows what I can do to please him).
So what do you guys think of this view? It is weird? Are there anyone out there with similar views?
What Girls & Guys Said
17 23Ok, I can see many women fooling up their self and the guys they are dating taking advantage of that particular ignorance.
Good for you.
the loophole is hardly original, snowflake. every church slut in existence already did that, and no one's buying that it's special when you took it up the pooper 800 times.
Unbelievable that gag promotes such articles.
If you have done anal or oral, even if you haven't had your genitals penetrated, you are not a virgin.
If she is TOUCHED then she is not a virgin
@Az-Arm- good point. Virgin means not having any sexual relationship with someone, if we go to the meaning of the word.
@DiegoO Are all gay men virgins, then? They haven't had their genitals penetrated.
I didn't contradict what you said.
@DiegoO I was merely having a laugh at people who consider vaginal penetration the sole means of losing one's virginity.
Ignorance is incredible.
Men can't be virgins medically. only abstinent. virgin by definition can only be us women.
@levantine99 true
@levantine99 historically it has only be linked to woman. The concept changed over time, and it included guys also.
Sorry, but oral and anal is still sex.
I understand your idea, at the end of the day it’s all about context
Omg.
I think that sounds great.
Good for you. I would most certainly not call you a virgin though...
Cool
I don’t consider you a virgin.
I consider anal even further than vaginal when it comes to doing the dirty. I'd argue you're less pure than a girl who's had vaginal sex and a baby if she's never been done in the bum.
You’ve basically lost it already
What is the point of keeping him out of your pussy if he has fucked your ass and your mouth? Do you think that you have retained any shred of innocence?
I thought girls enjoyed stimulation of their clit and being eaten out over vaginal sex.
Ok so this was one of my first MHO answers.
Is anal sex worth it as an alternative to keep virginity? ↗
"To ME, that seem ridiculous, to each their own but there's just something weird about that to me.
"Baby, Im saving myself for when I get married but you can fuck me in the ass if you want?"
Or better yet when she tells her future husband
"yes Im a virgin I saved myself for our wedding day or at least my pussy is. I've had more cocks in my ass than your favorite porn star."
I mean honestly, why would you take it up the ass but not let a guy fuck your pussy? Any romantic or virtuous idea is gone with that, in my opinion."
I think you should do what you want but in my opinion this is kind of dumb. That's just me though.
I think you're going to have a hard time finding a guy that's going to see your vaginal virginity as all that special when youve had no problem having oral and anal sex with whoever.
I think I get your thinking here but I just don't think to many guys are going to really see a difference.
I like the way you think. As long as you're sucking your boyfriends cocks and letting them fuck you in the ass, I don't see how that's a problem.
If you want to save your pussy for later, then that's just fine.
If your husband wanted you to try double penetration with him and a friend, would you grant him that?