Trans girlfriend wants anal, what to do?

[Anonymous]

I have A trans girlfriend, we've been together for 5 months and i'm always top. She now wants to be top but i'm really scared of it, What should i do?

[AD240pCharlie]

You should never do anything you don't feel comfortable with, no matter what your partner wants. If she tries to pressure or guilt you into it, then you leave that relationship immediately.
If you're willing to try it for her sake, then go for it. Then at least you can say for sure if you liked it or not.

[Metlahaed]

What are you scared of exactly? Just take it easy and slowly and lots of lube and if you don’t like it don’t do it again... or you can try on your own first. Or if you just don’t want to and it’s a hard boundary for you just explain that... hopefully it isn’t a deal breaker

[Anonymous]

Maybe you were more drawn to the “girl” aspect of her, and that sort of switch, like having her give you anal is not what you want to happen. Just be honest and tell her you don’t want that. Accepting that she’s trans and being open to anal sex feels like two different playing fields..

[Quackthulu]

Does she have a bigger dick than you? Always wondered how a guy would feel saying “my girlfriend’s dick is bigger than mine.”

[Asker]

yes and no , I have 7.5 inches and she's got 6.5 but is has more girth than me i'm about 5.5 and she's 6.3

[SlothySlob]

Is she on any medication or had any sex change planned?

[dublin_sexyeyes0]

What are you scared of? Is it the physical or psychological side?

[Asker]

both, and also not being manly i guess when we do it

[genericname85]

what does "she wants to top" mean exactly?

[Sabretooth]

to pernitrate him.

[genericname85]

@Sabretooth well in that case: don't give consent to stuff you don't like or don't want. It's ok to say no.

[Sabretooth]

actually, most guys seek it out of curiosity--it's the equivalent of anal from a cis girl.

[genericname85]

@Sabretooth well if you seek it out, just do it. I'm just saying that you don't have to do this just cause your partner happens to be transgender and wants to fuck you up the butt xD

[Sabretooth]

Not something I seek out personally. But if I were in that relationship-- I think I might be curious just given the uniqueness of it. I just don't see it happening--in love with a cis girl.

[genericname85]

@Sabretooth i wasn't insinuating that. I meant the general you xD anyway. Asker said he's scared. Usually if you want a thing, you're not really scared right?

[Sabretooth]

not always. sometimes, you want something but just too timid.

[genericname85]

@Sabretooth yeah but in that cases, you'd be able to talk that out with your partner. i mean if you can't talk it out with them, you should probably not be with them.

[Sabretooth]

agreed. though, i suppose this is a bit more unique.

[Iron_Man]

You got to be kidding me
Having a trans girlfriend means you're a homosexual

[Joeshamo]

Not necessarily. It could just be a fetish thing.

[Iron_Man]

Break it off now before it to late hopefully you didn't cross over

[Jandojo]

It is still a guy, until after surgery. You wonder if your man should bang you. just say that.

[Jandojo]

he has a dick. means it is a guy fucktard. after surgery HE will have a vagina which makes him a girl. Artificial though

[In_Trance]

You're scared? Genuinely scared?

[darkcloud1945]

Try it you just might like it!!!

[abc--123]

You fuck a man but are scared of gay sex. Makes sense

[Sabretooth]

you know that's something many men seek but are usually for by trans girls?

[Sabretooth]

''you know that's something many men seek but are usually attacked for it by trans girls?'' rough day,

[haggardfuk00]

Don't be a pussy lol jk 😬 ouch

[billluc69]

go for it

[andybq]

just go with it and stop over thinking it

[Anonymous]

You mean your boyfriend wants to give you anal.

[Anonymous]

Tell her a 'no' if you're not up for it or do her if you can