Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health You're out with your mates and you spot a group of girls. From their clothes and general behaviour you deduce that they might be up for a bit fun. You decide to take your chance and approach them.
Now I've got a theory. If you go directly to the best looking one then the risk of rejection is the highest. You'll lose face in front of your friends. Other girls in the group then think you see them as a consolation prize and reject you.
The worst looking girl should be the easiest but there's the problem, you don't want to look like you don't have standards. Worse still if she knocks you back you know you've nowhere else to go.
Now second from bottom is a safe bet, they nearly always say yes. You flatter her by picking her over her better looking friends yet still show you have standards. And if she rejects you there's still a chance of recovery with the other girls.
So am I right?
True or false. When picking a girl out of a group for sex most guys pick the second least attractive?
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2 51I'm sure there are guys who use that technique. It sounds like a good idea. I on the other hand used to walk up to them and say which one of you beautiful ladies would like to dance. I would dance with every one of them sometimes. The one that I hit it off the best was the one I got to know better
True, unless one of their friends has dated the second, then they go with the 3rd...
Bro Code Dictates that the if your friend has dated your intended partner, that friend has to be OK or hooked up Before you can make a move...
You are too much thinking about it. If I would go to girls for sex, then I would had some drinks. And I wouldn't think about this strategy. I guess that I will be interested only in the best looking.
Hmm... interesting. never gave it thought. But you totally make sense.
I don't approach situations like that, I just ask out who I want and if they say no then oh fucking well.
I'm 32, I don't care what my friends think of me when I am rejected.
Before anyone makes any smart-ass comments, I have a girlfriend lol.
I'd go for the quiet ones with glasses, and eventually ask them if they'd like to go somewhere quitter, like the library,,,
I go to the girl that smiles back
Sounds like an excellent strategy, sort of akin to German submarines nibbling at the tail ends of convoys.
This is kinda difficult to answer correctly... but here is just my opinion...
I would just walk up to the group of sexy ladies and just ask straight up who and how many of you just wants to have NO STRINGS ATTACHED WILD KINKY SEX?
And see their reactions
I don't know about "sex", but as far as "dancing" is concerned... A long time ago, a friend told me that if a guy approaches a table of girls, and the girl he asks to dance declines, that he should walk away from that table without asking any of the other girls at that table to dance
you are probly pretty right. i have never gone after any really hot women. usually they are high maintnance and are very needy. im down with the quiet girl sitting in the back by herself. chances are she's really freaky and my type. i would always rather the not so popular semi cute chick rather than the popular hottie. maybe i go with the 2nd to last chick and have 1 more option left if rejected lol
It’s not a bad game plan... for real
In my world I’d only go for the hottest one because I am already satisfied with my other options and I have no fear of rejection. I shoot the moon
Oooh, never considered. The most attractive, generally, except those are rarely found.
You are wise beyond your years.
I've found that my taste is different than other men, so I would pick the one I liked the most
I swing for the fences, but my choice of the best looking may not be the same as someone else...
I go to the girl i find the most attactive
Thanks for the idea babe
Always aim high.
Nope
At least not me