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Truly sadistic women don't exist

Truly sadistic women don't exist

Now, I've been reading up online about sadistic women who get turned on from giving a guy pain. Stories, videos, etc etc. "Spanking"... But I think these may not actually be real. I think they are just guys writing these stuff up or very, very few women at best. I've never met a woman who got turned on from giving me pain.

Also, I don't mean girls that give spanking, etc a try because their boyfriends like it. I mean really, truly madly deeply sadistic dominant women who would get off on the idea of caning me to tears. I just can't believe such women exist (maybe that's a good thing?)

(again I want to emphasize that this does not include girls that enjoy something that is basically the guy's idea, or some kind or kinky foreplay that does no real harm. I mean truly sadistic women who would want to, say, cane you to tears and keep going and this not being the guy's idea...)

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Most Helpful Guy

  • Of course there are sadistic women, but I doubt they'd be all about caning you. Some of them are in jail, most of them are still roaming free, and many of them are hardcore feminists. A sadistic woman will most likely torture you by breaking your heart in one way or another. That's the difference between real sadism and your BDSM fantasies. A dominant girlfriend who whips you because you asked for it, or even because she wants it and it turns her on - she's still your girlfriend and wouldn't want you to be traumatized by the experience. A real sadist would want to traumatize you.

    • Fascinating answer. Thanks for sharing.

    • No problem, my friend.

    • Yes I mostly agree. I cringed at the hardcore feminist thing because I really don't think it has anything to do with it, but I mostly agree. BDSM is not about inflicting pain, it's about inflicting pleasure, else, it's just plain torture.

Most Helpful Girl

  • There have been many female serial killers who have tortured their victims before killing them. They do exist

    • Well, I wasn't talking about loonies

    • How can you be a sadist without being a little crazy?

    • What's your definition of crazy?

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  • on no we are out here, just many different shades of us, I for one enjoy watching scenes of saditic violence but true I would never actually hurt someone myself, but reading a book or watching a movie with violence can often give me extreme pleasures, there are many women with sadist traits and I personaly know a few, but for some strange reason many of us refuse to admit or confess to our thrills

    • Just wondering... how sadistic do you enjoy?

    • @abc3643 I love to see scenes of handsome powerful men, maybe in any situation, but a cute man humiliating or fighting is hot, but for the right mood I lean more towards like torture and real brutal stuff

    • Very interesting! Love your blog and looking firward to more.

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  • I'm fairly certain sadists of both genders do exist.

  • Sure there are...
    Pretty silly of you to think you can put everyone into the same little box...

  • They do exist. I know one especially who gets sexual pleasure from whipping and flogging her guys. She doesn't even have to orgasm, she just gets a sexual release from that power. She loves pegging men with big strap ons too. Then I know this one lady who is into blood play. She gets off on hurting people. She wanted to pierce my chest with needles. I was like, hell no girl.

  • This take feels like a means for you to scout out 'truly sadistic women' for your kink.

  • I am not even sure that there are men who would torture their wives just because they love the torture. It's not what it is about. Of course I am not talking about mentally insane guys here, I don't think these guys would torture their girlfriend cause I assume they wouldn't have a girlfriend in the first place. I don't see how you can torture someone who you have an emotional connection to, simply for the fun of inflicting pain. When I speak of torture, I am talking about overstepping the girl's pain threshold. Giving her pain she does not consent to..

  • Do you even Know what a sadist is?

  • They exist. But I think *most* women are gentle. It's a biological characteristic of our sex.

  • "Physically" sadistic women probably don't truly exist, I could see it being very feasible. But I'd argue that comes from women not having the biological drive to have the "yeah, FUCK YEAH LET'S DO IT, LET'S FUCK 'EM UP" feeling that men possess.

    To be honest though I'm very much against BDSM or any kind of major pain or generally unsettling acts in sex, so hey, I'm pretty set, there.

  • Bullfuckingshit.

  • Two of my friends are a couple. The guy's back is covered in scars, scratchmarks and dried blood all the time, because of their rough sex.
    He said he sometimes wish she didn't go that rough, but she loves it, so he lets her.

  • Of course they exist. Bat shit crazy comes in all shapes and sizes.

  • Yes they do. Don't think you can start generalising by gender.

  • you seem beta.

  • Really:

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