Trying to look for a sexually dominant girl to date but they are hard to find. Any dominant girls on here looking for a sub male?

[Anonymous]

A number of years ago I realised that I am naturally submissive and definitely prefer a dominant partner. Someone who is kinky-dominant... However it is difficult to bump into someone like this, and even on dating sites I get no luck.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Looking for that on a site that is a global site isn't really going to get you anywhere, because the chances of you finding someone that was interested, what's the chances they're local to where you are, besides the fact that this is an question/answer platform site not a hook-up/dating site..
Your best bet to find what you're looking for would be to use sites geared for people with those proclivities...
https://www.best10datingguide.com/usa/bdsm?gclid=CjwKCAiAm-2BBhANEiwAe7eyFKt_3f0Pb54ERanf42nv1Xx8g70gub7LU1GoOo0nkocHId133iNbHRoCT0IQAvD_BwE&campaign=bdsm_usa_aug2020&adgroup=bdsm&matchtype=b&keyword=bdsm%20dating%20sites&cpid=86b3ebf6-2d27-453c-8e50-29a2a347e162&gclid=CjwKCAiAm-2BBhANEiwAe7eyFKt_3f0Pb54ERanf42nv1Xx8g70gub7LU1GoOo0nkocHId133iNbHRoCT0IQAvD_BwE

[SueShe]

Hi and welcome.

To avoid you a lot of disappointments, let me inform you of the following:

GAG is not a dating or flirting, sexual exchange or pick up site. This is a Q&A site where people ask questions in the hope to get a number of answers to their questions.

You would be so much better off using a dating app where girls go there to meet guys and perhaps chat. It is very unlikely that you will find your luck hitting on girls here.

Sorry to disappoint you but we get spammed so many time every day with that type of requests by desperate guys hoping to get acquainted with girls using GAG.

Honestly, you are in for a big disappointment here if that is the reason you joined GAG.

Have you ever tried or considered Tinder or one of those many dating, hook up or even porn sites that are perhaps better suited to your needs?

Thank you for understanding and giving the community a much needed break.

[Asker]

That is a fair point. Sorry I am new here, I know this isn't a dating site, but I feel like it is far easier to communicate with like-minded people on here than on a dating site. I suppose I am more looking to be pointed in the right direction to find someone like this. I have used the likes of Tinder for a few years, but no luck. I even state in my bio I am looking for someone more dominant but still no luck... Thank you for your response

[SueShe]

I wish you good luck but don't put high hopes to find someone. I hear people have occasionally found each other here but it is more the exception than the rule.

[Asker]

are you a site moderator?

[SueShe]

No, I am not

[ChrisMaster69]

If you are seriously looking and not just for sex, then their are a number of sites thst cover newbies.

obviously pre lockdown there were munches etc

https://playroom.thebdsmfinder.com/map/uk.html

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https://www.fetish.com/uk/

and

https://bdsmdate.co.uk/index2.php it really is a case of looking for a decent Domme,.

[Asker]

i am looking for a partner instead of a domme, thank you for the reply

[ChrisMaster69]

Erm, a Domme is often a partner. That’s how’s these things tend to work. You need to develop the relationship Simply going round the UK in the hole of finding a naturally dominant girl is fairly hard. It’s not the usual chat up line (well it is but needs an icebreaker lol).

[Asker]

Sorry I guess I meant Domme as in like a pro Domme or something. Oh believe me I know how hard it is to find someone dominant, been looking for a while and it's totally dry out there :( I've decided the easiest way is to just say in my dating profile bios that I am looking for that. Assuming that the right person will see that and be interested but my god it is taking a long time

[ChrisMaster69]

Depending where you are in UK, certain pubs have fairly regular meetings. It was easier when Informed Consent was in place, however that’s more about getting some rights and safety in place. You are probably better looking for a Switch, so accept some sub behaviour.

[charon142]

The chance of you finding someone here is really low go back to popular dating apps, you will have more chance finding a girl there than on here