Turn on or turn off?

First convo with potential partner, they begin talking about sex.

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Superb Opinion

  • that depends... on the circumstances and what the actual "sex talk" is about and how it goes, lol... what is she's just the one in charge at this sex shop, and I just happened to get in there to ask for directions, lmao...

    but no... when some girls would usually approach me with the intention of sex, I would just say no thanks, and in the times in which they were not so forward but still had that intention or interest above other things I would just kindly let them know I was not into that kind of stuff... lol

Most Helpful Guy

  • If they want to talk about sex, that’s getting to know them. I consider that a part of who they are, so for me it’s neither. Because sex is just a topic, like careers, personalities, like and dislikes.. if you can’t have a grown convo about sex on the first date without it disgusting someone then I question maturity levels. That doesn’t mean you are going to fuck shortly after or that everything is going to be about sex all the time. As a society we have become accustomed to following what other people say instead of thinking for ourselves.

Most Helpful Girls

  • It’s not a good start, but I don’t really care

  • Mostly and generally it's a turn off

    • I completely agree. It makes me feel like i am either just some sexual conquest or they have some kind of obession with sex.

    • Yeah totally! Also I personally always think to myself, like does he really wanna get to know me as a person or what is this about? Cause i don't think so lol

    • Exactly

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Absolute turn off. That's gross to me.

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  • Both... depends when, how, it happens... If its the right time and see that reaches same wave as me?, then Hell Yeah!.
    I mean this goes for both ways... isin't it?

  • Honesty says a lot about that right there. Most people dont like honestly because it comes off harsh. Would bang him on the first date? Did you want to but didn't? Did you think about it when he talked about it? That should give your answer. Id say honesty, should be a turn on..

  • Turn off for me.

    Sure, sex is important- but I wanna know what's between the ears first before finding out what's between the sheets 🤣😋

  • I prefer to ease into it. It would make me wonder if they just want sex (nothing wrong with that) or if they want a relationship. Has this happened to you?

    • Yes it's happened a lot

    • How did things end up? Do you mind sex right away or prefer to be in a relationship?

    • I lost interest immediately.

  • Yamaha know, use to be what I wanted, but now it would be a red flag

  • Doesn't bother me

  • I would say turn off in most cases. lol! At the same time I do t mind talking sex and if she is hot and I’m already turned on bring it on!

  • Turn off

  • Turn on.

  • Turn off

  • I'd think that would be a turn off

  • I want to say turn off however it depends why they start talking about it. I still wouldn't completely close my mind to them but that would be a red flag for me yes. But this is a personal thing not something that applies to everyone.

  • Turn off

  • Depends on the context, but if they start talking about what they want in bed, that would be a turn off.

  • Turn off... So wack and immature

  • As long as it's not the only thing they talk about, sure.

  • Extreme turn off

  • Gross

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