Turning 28 in 5 months and still a virgin?

[Rocknroll93]

I know there's nothing wrong with being a virgin. But sometimes I worry about being 40 (plenty of time) but that thought scares me. Lately I've been spending the time just focusing on me right now but sometimes I feel inexperienced. I have somewhat social anxiety and sometimes feel awkward around people even when im calm. Im the Jessie Eisenberg kind of guy, the stereotypical guy in teen movies whose never gotten laid etc. I've kissed a girl before and experienced foreplay. But should I wait for the right person? How can you wait for the "right" person anyway? How can there be "the one"? One of my friends suggested Models by Mark Manson (on chapter 4). Here's what I picture happening for next year when this pandemic is over: im out clubbing with a bunch of guys and I meet some girl, she takes me aside and we make-out, maybe she brings me to her place. That would be the shit.

[Archerer]

Nah don't wait, just get it over with, get an escort. She will help you greatly. She'll make you feel comfortable, take it slow, and you won't have to worry about being awkward, which is the biggest obstacle to overcome, an escort will do that for you. Just make sure you let her know you are a virgin and she will accommodate your specific needs.

[Rocknroll93]

I hope that's not a prostitute

[Archerer]

I mean, escort sounds classier...

[Rocknroll93]

That's ridiculous

[Archerer]

I think it’s pretty reasonable actually, you just gotta let go of a few things. It would be a really healthy way to finally just get it over with and thus alleviate a lot of your hang ups.

[Anonymous]

Hey buddy you are not alone - 29 years dude here still a virgin - never hurt or played with any girl - got very horny and joined tinder and met a milf - was so excited and enjoyed the role play to the maximum - and just when i wanted to use my dick in that hot pussy it just gave up and did not get hard the whole fucking day - can you fucking believe it? Looks like I am going to die a virgin only :(

[Rocknroll93]

Did you become impotent when you were with her?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah it was my first time and I was so excited. There was a lot of rubbing of genitals against each others body, my dick just cummed a lot but it did not get hard at all and it really sucked bcoz i wanted to fuck her and satisfy each other. This has been playing a lot on my mind post that incident whether i will be able to get hard when i meet another women :(

[Rocknroll93]

If that was me in that perspective, my dick would be super hard

[Opinion Owner]

I never have such problem i wake up with a hard boner, i watch porn and get very hard hard quick but when it came to the main occasion i kinda got into two minds as how to satisfy her and how long i want to be for a long time - i think that got a better of me due to which i was not able to perform :(

[Rocknroll93]

Stop watching porn

[DizzyDesii]

I think you should wait til you're in love before giving it up... makes it a little less regrettable. But at the end of the day, its up to you

[Rocknroll93]

Thats also a good option. But in the meantime id like to work on my anxiety before I do anything

[DizzyDesii]

Yes always work on yourself before getting involved with someone else

[james_d0007]

I agree with her, but its no harm in playing around and getting this anxiety out of your way, the more you get involved and the more you meet some chics the better ;)

[Rocknroll93]

@james_d0007 and not to sound weird, but that vision I have of me clubbing with a bunch of guys and meeting women is kind of my 2021 resolution

[Anonymous]

Take your time. No one really cares about this in the real world.

[In_Trance]

So... question?

[Anonymous]

a common thing for guys, men