Girls, two questions. First one... was your first time using a sex toy a little awkward?

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Second one... was there a lot you didn't know when you first started to masturbate and wanted to incorporate a sex toy into it?

Ok, maybe there is more than two... lol

Is experience the best teacher?

How can you know everything about it before you try?

Should they start offering a class in middle school called "Masturbation and Sex Toys 101"?

Here's one example of why I am asking all these questions...

How did things work out for you your first few times?

Was it a pleasant experience?

TarrAva · Accepted Answer

After my first encounter with "body fluids" which are not blood related and different in color, texture or other adjectives, I started going over some dedicated adult shops web pages to get educated about those pleasure toys.

Also, in school, word got around that one of the girls was in possession of such a devilish and pleasure bringing device. Some of us pressed her to "show and tell", obviously not in front of the entire class but in a darker corner of the basement of the school.

Needless to go into details, but suffice to say that I was impressed and I got positive vibes, so to speak.

Being a minor and not being able to mail order one myself or to visit one of those tempting adult stores, I did what probably many of us have done. We teamed up and had a common male friend order a few on our behalf. We made a pinky promise that he could try it with us. Obviously, none of us kept the promise when we received ours.

I was a little shy at first when seeing this pink, vibrating finger called a vibrator. I am very possessive and named mine "Bobby". Till his day, he is my faithful companion for lost hours.

As to my first experience, I locked myself in my room and tried it out. I was a little intimidated at first but Bobby gave me such confidence and he started speaking with his soft, vibrant and soothing, humming voice, that I felt at ease right away.

It did not take 2 minutes for Bobby achieving what he was designed to do. To bring pleasure to a solitary teenie that was experimenting with her first foreign object insertion. Suffice to say that we became the best buddies in town. I trusted him as much as he "did me", in both senses of the term.

I am a faithful person and we stayed close friends ever since. He has always his little place, tucked away in the depth... of my purse when I go somewhere.

The only disadvantage of Bobby is that he is hungry for batteries. But he never says no, or has a headache or is too tired to help me out when I need him.

I was not frightened by Bobby at first but I had respect for his knowledge of the female anatomy and his ability to know exactly what I needed and what pleased me.

I cried tears of pleasure sometimes and he cried with me. Both of us were soaked but so fulfilled.

I can only recommend a Bobby to any girl.

The final word would be that perhaps it is not a bad idea to have a "Masturbation and Sex Toys 101" class at school. The only issue would be that someone needs to convince the School Board to drop another lesson on the education plan in favor of this one.

I vote for math. Abolish one weekly math lesson. Anyway, every girl can count 1-2-3-yes-yes-yeeeeeeeeeeeeees!

Lovethedove · Accepted Answer

The first time I ever touched myself was with a pool jet then eventually the shower head became responsible for my 45 minute showers. I’d say I wasn’t sure of everything to do. With my first purchased sex toy ( vibrator ) it was exciting tho intimidating. The feelings were new & intense.
I don’t know about the middle school thing I guess that is about when most of us start but not sure how that would work

MlleCake · Answer

I knew what I was doing, I just didn't find the toy stimulating at all.

DizzyDesii · Answer

Im not into sex toys and i dont care to become experienced. I’d only sleep with whoever i intend to marry and thats not many. Guy #3 will be my last and hopefully ny husband

EleganceOfBanana · Answer

It was a bit awkward because i made it by myself with a rubber glove and playdoh :D

Onepiece_fan2000 · Answer

I really want to try using a sex toys. I feel very experienced when i masturbate. But yes experience is the best teacher.

Lilverawang · Answer

The first time i encountered a sex toy was while a cock was in my ass and the vibrator was on my clit. So not awkward. More like painful. Over time tho, that is my favorite way to have sex.

Ellie-V · Answer

I’ve never liked the idea of using my hands so I’ve always wanted to get a vibrator. When I bought one it wasn’t awkward. But I panicked because I squirted all over my bed sheets and I didn’t want my mom to find out so I washed my whole comforter set before she got home 😬