Unfortunate erection during swim practice?

[Anonymous]

I'm a senior in high school and after our last swim practice, I was standing talking with one of the girl on the team that I'm friends with, and were were being kinda flirty, and unfortunately I got a hardon in my speedo so I couldn't hide it at all, She def looked down and noticed but didn't say anything. Do you think she now thinks I'm a pervert? What do you think she told her friends?

[bethanyyy]

Oh that's embarrassing :(. But in all honesty, I think she would only be flattered. And there is a possibility she may have even been a little turned on by it. Was she definitely flirting with you? What was she doing that made you think she was flirting? She may have told her friends, but all girls know it happens, so I wouldn't worry too much. To be honest, I'm surprised it doesn't happen more often.

[Asker]

kinda flirty, why would she be flattereD?

[bethanyyy]

Because 90% of the time, it would mean that you are at least somewhat attracted to her

[Asker]

what about "shrinkage"? I had just gotten out of a cold pool :( what if she thought it was small

[bethanyyy]

But if you had an erection, I doubt shrinkage would have been apparent. And girls know about that, so I don't think she would have minded. And believe me, even if you were small, if she likes you, it's not an issue :)

[Asker]

she has joked with me that she can see my "big nuts" in my speedo, but I think she is just teasing me

[bethanyyy]

That means she's aware, so knows it's perfectly normal :)

[Asker]

aware of shrinkage? so u dont think she really thinks i have big balls :(

[bethanyyy]

Yes aware of shrinkage. Well if you are excessively large, then maybe she means it, it's hard to say.

[Asker]

is that a big thing to be big?

[bethanyyy]

Not really, there is a lot more to a guy than his size down there. It may be exciting to a girl at first, but it does not define whether a guy is husband material or not.

[Asker]

do girls even care about a guys balls?

[bethanyyy]

Not sure what you mean by that question exactly. We care for them just as much and just as little as every other body part.

[CDixon]

Poor dude... don't worry too much about it. Unless she is very immature, she might have been momentarily troubled, but she certainly isn't disgusted. Hell, I might have said otherwise if you were 60 and getting excited ogling young girls, but you are, what, 17, 18? It is totally not in your control, and legal. So, be in peace. If she thinks you're a pervert, she's probably very childish.

[Asker]

its just embarrassing because it happened when I was talking to her and when I got hard

[Hi_im_me]

As a girl on the swim team I promise your not the only guy it's ever happened to it happens quite a bit we just tend to ignore it I don't think she'll think your a perv pretend like you didn't see her notice if you s t normal it's easier to forget

[Asker]

but do you talk about it in the lockerroom? or notice the size?

[jacquesvol]

Don't you drop dead each you see it? :-O

[Hi_im_me]

yeah we talk about it but it depends if he's hot or we like h absolutely well make a big deal out of it "sorry just being honest" but we won't dwell on it probably the day it happened and that would be the last time it was mentioned

[Asker]

what about "shrinkage"? I had just gotten out of a cold pool :( what if she thought it was small

[Hi_im_me]

Lol Uhh maybe she wasn't paying attention to size

[ElasticBali]

Your embarrassment is cute af. Boners are normal I doubt she cares. Soo funny though

[Asker]

Yeah but its weird that I got it in a speedo lol

[baddy2shoos]

Dude, ahhhh you missed a good chance. Should've pulled privately somewhere and said you got to get rid of this. And put her hand on your hardon. You caused it, you gotta get rid of it before I get embarressed and made fun of out there. ;)

[ElasticBali]

I can't tell if this is a joke or if guys really manipulate girls this way?

[baddy2shoos]

how is that manipulation? She can run away and scream in disgust and embarrass him. I call it being assertive. He's not putting a gun to her head, he's being a man.

[godfatherfan]

with the right girl that might just work...that would be sweet...

[NovemberJoseph]

Pretty sure this would've worked. Deserves most helpful

[forgetmenot75]

I think she would actually be flattered :)

[Asker]

why would she be flattered?

[forgetmenot75]

Because you getting hard for her means you're sexually attracted to her. If you like her, invite her for a date ;)

[Asker]

Yeah but its weird that I got it in a speedo lol, you could DEF see it lol

[forgetmenot75]

Stop worrying about it. It's not a big deal. Keep acting like nothing had happened unless she mentions it. It she or anyone else does, just laugh and make a silly joke about it.

[baddy2shoos]

Why wouldn't she be flattered? Pretend you're in her shoes. What if you were talking to a girl, who may be pretty cute, and she started blushing and getting wet and trying to hide it. Would you be angry in disgust? No, you'd be flattered and maybe try to even help her out a little bit if you catch my drift. This is completely normal, jeez why is everyone so angsty about primal sexual instincts. CHill people, it's just sexual arousal. Nothing to see here.

[ElasticBali]

Yes, just throw up your hands and say, "chill people, it's just sexual arousal. Nothing to see here"

[Asker]

what about "shrinkage"? I had just gotten out of a cold pool :( what if she thought it was small

[Arroxal]

She just saw you were "happy" to talk to her.
No problem with that I think :)

[Asker]

u wouldn't think the guy was a perv?

[Arroxal]

Would just think he is attracted to me and maybe want more than just talking.

[Asker]

im a little worried about shrinkage too cuz i had just gotten out of cold water

[Arroxal]

well what is the problem?

[Asker]

if she thinks it was small or something, you know how u can see EVERYTHING when a guy is in a speedo

[Arroxal]

well i don't think she took the time to measure it xD

[Asker]

she has joked with me that I have big nuts lol

[Arroxal]

well if she has joked it's ok :)

[Asker]

dont girls find big nuts gross though?

[Arroxal]

why would it be gross

[Asker]

i thought y'all found the part gross in general cause it looks weird

[Arroxal]

mm nop ^^

[Asker]

you think it looks attractive?

[Arroxal]

it's ok to me

[kalrodkal]

Wow i would never show my face around there ever again

[billluc69]

maybe it turned her on, you should ask her

[Anonymous]

lol I wouldn't think you're a perv since it is natural... umm, I might even be flattered but hey, at least she didn't mention it. that's funny tho, maybe you might even start dating.

[Asker]

but we weren't really talking about anything sexual, thats why I feel weird