Unpopular Opinion: Guys that ONLY want a FFM threesome as the sexual adventure in a relationship don't deserve it because of jilted expectations

Girls wanna have fun, too!
Girls wanna have fun, too!

This applies to a relationship when a guy wants a FFM threesome but bulks at a MMF threesome or other exploratory options that offers the girlfriend some freedom.

For saying no to a MMF: He doesn't want another guy having sex with HIS pussy, or is going to be mad if the other guy has a bigger dick, or can last longer...whatever reason, I want to scream. Girls have insecurities too, but we are placated with the, "but I'm with YOU." Then the absolute bullshit argument always comes out that "men are designed to spread their seed and by nature are sexual beings that shouldn't have to tamper their sexual desires and be bored." Women like having a lot of sex too (and aren't sluts because of that!) and some of us want to have fun with another guy! We think about sex with different guys...sometimes multiple guys at once!

Guys need to really work on satisfying ONE girl before taking on TWO. A threesome isn't just about a male ego, it's supposed to be a fun and satisfying sexual adventure for everyone.

It's common wishful thinking among women that they would like more oral, especially if they do it frequently for their man. If a guys LIKES getting oral, then doesn't he think girl would like it too? Guys in relationships seem to hardly eat out their woman unless they are asked.

Foreplay and teasing go along with satisfaction. Biggie complaint from women: "He doesn't do foreplay!" Sometimes your boner isn't enough to make us wet and ready! The worst thing to watch would be your boyfriend (that you cook for, support, wear sexy lingerie for) going all out in a threesome with some other girl if he doesn't put in extra effort when it's just the two of you.

Guys who ONLY want a FFM threesome as the sexual adventure should never have it in a relationship. They might as well say, "Thanks for the emotional support but you cannot fulfil my sexual needs I need multiple other people for that otherwise I will get bored, but I am going to be enough for you."

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  • The picture here shows two girls bent over and a guy in the back lmao an that's approved it looks like they're both about to get spanked /doggy'ed by him and know it while smiling at eachother.

  • Goes both ways in women who want mmf threesomes.

  • MFM threesomes are hotter, especially if the other guy has a bigger dick than me and cums loads, sloppy seconds are awesome!,

  • My wife and I have been in the swinglifestyle for over 10 years we have had may a 3some while 3somes are not my fav they can be a lot of fun wether it's ffm or mmf
    The most important thing to remember is your partner gets 75% of your attention and the other 25%, goes to the other

  • This is the exact reason why I won't have a threesome. I would like a FFM one, most guys probably would. I do not like the idea of a MMF threesome and if my girlfriend agreed to a FFM threesome I should be comfortable if she wanted a MMF threesome.

  • Honestly women only want mff threesomes. Only weird slut sex addict women unfit for relationships want mmf. Its humiliating for a man to have another man with his girl. Do you want to humiliate and lose respect for your boyfriend? Sounds like you want to lose respect for your boyfriend so you can have the control in the relationship. Thats sick. you're fucked in the head.

  • I whole heartedly agree. Being a hedonist I have experienced both styles of threesome's and orgies and group sex and men are really missing out if they are not allowing the girlfriend sexual freedom. I've said it before on this forum and I'll say it again and I will keep saying it. Nothing, I mean nothing pleases me more than watching my s/o recieving as much sexual pleasure as she can take from both men and women. I will admit that the swingers lifestyle isn't for everyone but it sure as hell works for us

  • You only see one rooster in the hen house

  • well in this i want to do a ffm and a mmf threesome, 2 different times. i literally broke up with someone because they wouldn't let me eat them out. like that is something i have to do to be satisfied. its kinda where i draw th line is letting me eat them out

  • Totally agree

  • Wth, i don't even like threesomes, i think sex is for two persons if you want to make a party or something you do you but not everyone like those things

  • Agree and same goes with women who only wants it to be 2 men and a woman.

    I like 1 on 1 relationships the best.

  • I disagree with everything you wrote. just shut up and please your man. If that means bringing another bitch into the bedroom, so be it. No guy wants a MMF. That's just gay.

  • Some just aren't comfortable with their sexuality

  • Yes us guys can b 1sided. some of us men need 2 b more open minded. people in general need 2 discover them selves witch means u have 2 b open minded if u really want 2 know wht u like & dont like. dont knock it till u try it.

  • What's ur I'd name? 🤣

  • When my girlfriend proposed me a FFM threesome, I dumped her ass and cut off the girl she wanted to include. Disgusting people.

    • Is it a personal preference or religious? What do you not like about it?

    • I put up with all her deviances but it was never enough for her. She started pushing to include her BFF I bailed because I understood I was about to get screwed over.

  • We only do MFM threesomes and we're both very happy with that.

  • MMF, FFM FMFM whatever, as long as you and they are having fun! that's my theory

  • They dont deserve them?

    What the fuck are you talking about?

    Threesomes aren't like chocolate drops you know, its not a gold star for your fridge chart.

    If you dont want to have a threesome then dont but quite why you think you get to choose what other people should be doing is beyond me.

    So let me clarify this situation for you.

    Pay attention because it applies to a great many things, not just threesomes.

    You only get to choose for you, what other people do is literally none of your business, at all.

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