Unreciprocated oral sex?

[ironeddie]

I see this in p*rn quite a bit (I watch the homemade, not the professional stuff). Where one partner goes down on the other and gives him or her oral until they cum. And that is it. The favour is not returned and there is no sex at the time. At least none shown. So how often does this happen in "real life"? Do you or your partner give oral just for the hell of it, without anything else continuing? Hopefully the pleasure is returned at a later time. now my ex and I never did that. Because in her words "That's (oral) yucky!) She wouldn't give or receive. So is it fact or fiction in your relationship?

[Anonymous]

Usually, I receive oral without expecting it and it warms me up to reciprocating the favour. Otherwise, I just wouldn't go for it on my own initiative. Why? Just cause many male are selfish and think that giving a girl oral is dirty or whatever. If my lover isn't ready to make my pleasure his priority, just I like would make his mine, I'm just not interested. I have received unsollicitated oral sex and NOT given it back once, but that was a kinda one night stand where I had warned the guy beforehand that I wouldn't go all the way. He knew what he got himself into, I didn't lead him on and Ihe probably did it to convince me to give in to sex, but I didn't - I have more self-control than that. So yes, I'm open to giving oral, but ONLY if it's the guy I'm dating and he's giving me oral as well. It's give and take IMO.

[musicbrain5]

Sometimes that happens but it depends on how much time we have and how quickly we want to get to the actual sex, haha. If that happens it is always him giving it to me. Though usually we will both give, and sometimes at the same time (like 69). And yeah, sometimes we just do oral or other things and not have sex.

[Anonymous]

She has done it for me plenty of times, especially during her time of month. I have done it less but really enjoy it although it is really hard not to get too turned on.

One thing that can be fun is play a game like simple chess or something winner gets oral and loser has to wait until the next opportunity usually the next day.

[Anonymous]

I give her oral just for the sake of it with regularity, not because I expect she'll return the favor but because I want to give her pleasure. She does the same for me from time to time too.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Usually a few times a year. Obviously both of us getting some is more common.