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The scourge being the uninvited sending of penis pics from guys she barely knew. Openly admitting to enjoying a good dick pick from someone she wanted one from but struggling to fathom the out of the blue ones that regularly make her cell phone buzz.
Turning to me to explain the reasoning behind the actions of fellow men in wanting to do this with the associated mindsets and justification.
Point blank, looking her dead in the eye explaining there is none with the key words being 'invited' as opposed to 'uninvited.'
In giving her greater clarity, I used my example.
I am a shameless show-off, and love my penis, parading it on sites all over the net to get responses. It gives me a buzz, and when a woman or even a male has asked me to send a pic of it, I do so with glee.
In sending it as part of an interaction with another, I use the analogy of it being like the icing on the cake. A bit of an extra thrill after the connection, in this case, the cake as the representative has already been forged
The guys who send it, virtually after the woman merely says 'hello' have it back to front. They are trying to impose, deluding themselves to visual appeal to the woman. As if she hasn't seen one before, and instantly her knickers will fall to her knees, and she will exalt:
' Come forth young man and have your way with me.....'
Conversely, they think it will represent some meaning to her when all it will promote is ostracisation.
The reality in any seduction of a woman rarely has to do with what is seen and more to do with what is felt. Take away the face value crassness, there is a lot of truth in the old saying:
'Talking your way into a woman's pants.'
With it all to do with how you touch her mind and heart, endearing with your wit, unlocking with your humour and intriguing with your depth.
You can please a woman by haunting her with wonder, making her feel like a cat on a hot tin roof by the anticipation you enflame in her.
Realities lost in this the Social Age where everything has become about the visual with the accompanying impersonal demeanour. Men like flies entrapped in its web, buying into skewed realities like the appeal of the unsolicited penis pic.
Foolhardily believing it will impress rather than the inevitable ridicule it invites.
What Girls & Guys Said
1 1you are right. good job.
thank you for the kind words
You are welcome kind sir. no penis pics though.
you sure? LOL ( jk )
I am so very sure. Been exposed to a number them already.
really? lol, yes, it seems that guys send them on 'hello'
yep, almost. like they want me to shake uh... hands with them or something.
very strange, never found the sense in it
neither have I. Something in a man's head that makes him think that its some kind of sexual greeting card. Like saying... Hello-do you want me to bed you? At least that's how I interpret it.
yes, it is as if it impresses the woman. I always tell my female friends, if you get one, send another penis pic back and say- seen much better On a more meaningful level I think men are so skewed in their advances to women these days because of how the social age has effected traditional communication. In our age, we used to flirt and be respectfully direct with women
You are correct. The electronic social media makes anonymous advances towards women much more lewd.
it seems to delude men to think the visual matters to women when it is all about how you make her feel
Can;t speak for anyone else but I am more tuned into emotions and language than pictures. You can write me into an orgasm if you are a good enough writer, but porn pics and penis pics never do a thing for me.
found that with women, you can get them to the brink by being plausible
or creative or authentic. I don't know about plausible. We many times see right through plausible.
depends whether it is in talk or in written form, a man that has a way with words can touch the woman
i would agree with that, but be authentic. If you are not authentic you won't get anywhere, at least not with me:)
agree completely
it was so nice to talk to you:)
Likewise, you have a great night :)
"The reality in any seduction of a woman rarely has to do with what is seen and more to do with what is felt."
This. I don't send dick pics unless asked.
same