Urgently need help from guys! How to give an otphj and what else interests you while making out?

[Anonymous]

So straight to the point, how exactly do you give an over the pant hand job (otphj), I want to give him an otphj, which he's been asking as well, but it's just I am new to all this and I have no idea how, I mean I've heard i have grab his crotch from over the pants and slightly massage, but can I get like a proper guide to do it? Also, any other tips on how to spice up a makeout session other than having it lead to sex?

[Dargil]

I understand pacing sexual discovery in a relationship. Teens used to do that before guys thought sex should come in 3 dates or less. And you can talk about it so it doesn't need to be "furtive".
When my girlfriend back then decided it was time for fingering, she wore a skirt and old school silk panties because it made access easier and less awkward. For you, a dry handjob (otphj) is a non-starter in tight jeans. Too many layers of stiff denim and a gawdawful zipper.
Have him wear sweat shorts. He can even wear them commando.
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They are soft enough to grip him and give him a decent stroke. One thing is that you will probably get a good outcome and leave an obvious wet spot. That's why he should wear a long t shirt.

[Tdieseler]

First off... you irritate me... you sound like a dick tease... i hate that. if you won't finish it... dont fucking start it.

Second... and this is the answer to the question... yuo say you have dont it before? (or am i tripping)... then its time to graduate... a decent HJ is INSIDE the pants... not on top.

[Asker]

Lol as much as I understand you, it's not that I don't want to finish it who the fuck doesn't want to have sex xD it's just that we are moving cities, and I'm doing it sooner than I imagined, we don't have the time.. not even if we want to make time, secondly, as lame and annoying as it may sound our families are pretty over protective, it's hard to do anything actually, so I risk my fucking life sneaking out just to meet him, which is why I want to make the most of my makeout sessions at least, whatever he wants anything to make him happy.

[Tdieseler]

ah... if its that big a risk, then communicate that. tell him. that way he know you want to, and the reason why you are keeping it light.

[Asker]

Yeah he knows it as well, hence the getting opinion to at least make the best out of this xD

[Bad_Man55]

Does he want it to completion? If so that is odd. I've never had one that did lead somewhere bc last thing I want is to cum in my pants. If you dont want to have any skin to skin then just leave it at making out otherwise it is just a big tease or a big mess

[Asker]

No not really, something just for the moment of sorts, I know it's weird but how exactly do I do it? I don't want to hurt him, he'll be wearing loose clothes anyway, so how exactly do I go about?

[Bad_Man55]

I suggest you both wear gym shorts and you straddle him and get "yourself" around "him" and grind. Feel like that would be less awkward and more gratifying

[Anonymous]

Dayum, why I haven't met a girl like you. Dayum...

[Asker]

Sarcasm?

[Anonymous]

Cuddling and spooning can spice up your makeout sessions.