Girls, usually not a big talker dring sex, should I try to be more verbal?

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  • I think in general guys don't make enough noise, sounds, or talk. But as BrainsBeforeBeauty says, every girl is different.

    I suspect (and this is only a theory) that perhaps the reason is twofold. Guys grow up watching porn, which are made by men, for men, for the most part, and I guess no guy (who is straight) wants to hear another guy moan and talk and all that. It diminishes the watcher from being able to put himself in the scene.

    And then there's the idea that men feel they generally desire women more than women desire men. Maybe at the core, there is some truth to that, but it could also be more precisely said that girls don't much care about strangers, but they do care about who's in their bed, and so I think it's fairly safe to assume that most do want to hear the guy.

    But then you add the much more sticky situation - what, exactly, will be the 'right' words to say, in the heat of the moment, with each girl? And that one, honestly, is a bit of a land mine. You can feel the moment. You can work your way up to that - the longer you know the girl, the better you can guess/gauge what her reaction might be. Basically, it comes down to guys should take a chance. Unless you, yourself, are likely to regret the things that come out of your mouth (say, ha ha), then maybe it's in your best interest to read it back, and sometimes filter, before it exits the door. The thing you (and all men) have to weigh, is the R. O. I. - what will you be risking (how much of a chance she's going to be completely turned off), and what are the potential rewards. If you can find the girl (or women) who end up loving what you say, then you've just created magic. And you do it again, and it just keeps adding to the experience you share. I wonder if there's any correlation between risk-taking in other areas, and risk-taking in sex. Anyway, it's not like once you turn on the faucet you can't turn it back off. Try it out. Look in her eyes when you're doing it, and if the position doesn't allow for that, see if you can sense anything in her body that gives you any clues. Intensity change, speed change, a vocal echo back at you... Even a sooner or louder orgasm could be a sign.

    So there is no way to know for sure until you try, and with each person, you must wipe the slate clean and not bring past experiences back in. I've seen this general type of question here before, and as I recall the pink answers were mostly 'go for it', but regardless of what they answer (since they may not even know what's missing until it is presented to them), you have the power to up the ante, and turn acceptable sex into mind-blowing sex. So if you look at it that way, why wouldn't you try?

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  • Yes! It’s very arousing when a man moans or talks. Can just be little things to. Doesn’t have to be dirty. Like a whisper of “you feel so good” in your partners ear

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What Girls Said

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  • That depends if your partner is in to that or not... Some women are, some aren't... Better to ask the person you're having sex with... If she is, then yeah maybe try to be more verbal

  • I like to hear
    Dont Stop
    Keep Sucking That Dick Just Like That
    Damn Baby
    Take It
    Faaaaauck
    You So Wet

  • Yes see if she responds or turns her on!

  • You definitely should

  • Yeah. Not a bad idea. Try it once.

  • Nothing better than hearing a man enjoying himself 😉