Vaginal abandonment?

[uncommongiraffe]

So my boyfriend wants to punish me by not giving me any vaginal pleasure for an x amount of time. He only wants to fuck my asshole or face fuck me. He may give me vaginal whips here and there but no penetration or stimulation. Has anyone ever experienced this before? Strictly anal sex? How did it feel after you were able to have vaginal sex again? Did you go crazy not being allowed to touch yourself? Details please!

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend and I came up with that once, and the answer in that case was both.
The denial part kept her on edge a lot while the anal play (among the numerous other things we did, which included both light and heavy bondage, blindfolding and gagging, as well as a bit of orgasm denial and degradation) as well as the less..."passionate" oral I made her perform kept her in a more submissive mindset. She loved every second of it.

[Opinion Owner]

(This is only if you're really submissive though, otherwise it might get a bit too intense.)

[uncommongiraffe]

That's how we are! I like feeling degraded and humiliated during sex!:) thanks for the comment!

[AlphaMale1]

If this is a roll playing game thing then it sounds like fun. One thing I never thought of lol

However, if he is serious and you feel deprived or used then he could be a control freak.

[uncommongiraffe]

No it's role play!! :)

[AlphaMale1]

Sounds like fun. I am going to introduce this to my gal. I bet she will enjoy it. I know I will. Thanks for sharing! :)

[Anonymous]

sounds weird... with punishment and ass/face? don't you have your own opinion, its your ass. I hope you realize it's painful.

[Anonymous]

Does he know how to do anal painlessly?

[uncommongiraffe]

Yes!

[Opinion Owner]

And have you agreed to a punishment dynamic?

[uncommongiraffe]

Obviously lol or else I wouldn't be posting this

[Opinion Owner]

There are a lot of young folk on this board with interests in BDSM but don't know the basics, so I take the time to ask.

[uncommongiraffe]

Oh ok. Yes we have been into it for quite some time now :)

[nuqueunltd]

Do you use lube, whenever you do anal?

[uncommongiraffe]

Yeep! Lol I couldn't do it without it.

[nuqueunltd]

An skillful guy never needed to use artificial lube to do the deed.

[uncommongiraffe]

We've never tried without it. I won't do it. It has nothing to do with him. Trust me, he's skillful. So back up lol

[nuqueunltd]

Its just me, I rather pull out give girls asshole tender licking to keep it moisten and slippery for the duration of the act.

[Opinion Owner]

@nuqueunltd Anal without lube is stupid, especially because he should be wearing a condom to prevent a UTI.

[Kait444]

where's the both option?

[reptocarl]

Punishing you?

[uncommongiraffe]

I teased him for some time and refused sex now he is punishing me because I really want him now lol

[reptocarl]

Oh ok

[Listening5]

Vagina is better but at least u two are playful

[jimmytudeskie]

tell him if he wants anal to find a guy to fuck

[uncommongiraffe]

It had the idea awhile back. We are just adventurous fuck off 🙃

[jimmytudeskie]

I'm suggesting that he may be in the closet I'm not saying he's looking for clothes he just may not be ready to admit it to himself or to his family and friends

[uncommongiraffe]

K shut your fucking mouth loser. You don't know the first thing about him or my relationship. Go fuck yourself🖕🏼🙃

[SuccessfulHornDog]

Sounds like you guys have a fun role playing sex life

[MoAli]

I think girls prefer vagainal love because it's more sensitive and wet..
So not giving you that pleasure would make you feel sad.

[MoAli]

Follow me please

[Anonymous]

If you have a choice, choose the face fucking.