Vaginal contractions pushing penis out?

The guy I’m with sometimes complains that I’m pushing him out during sex. I’m not doing it on purpose, it seems to be vaginal contractions (but not orgasms) doing it. How can I stop it and make it a better experience for him?
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  • I've experienced this, and I'm not sure there's anything you can do (you can try, and maybe you can figure out how to relax those muscles some), so the guy is probably going to have to learn to adjust.

    When I experienced this, the girl had very strong vaginal muscles, and when she was close to orgasm, her vagina would clamp down and if I wasn't ready for it, she would push me out (and she would be begging me to push back in, sometimes to the point of tears), and so I had to use positions on her when I knew she was going to be close so that I could control the thrusting and the angles so that I could prevent her from pushing me out. If you had walked into the room, it might have seemed like I was being rough with her, but it's exactly what she wanted and needed and she was SO happy that I worked out a way to stay inside her, because she had rarely had orgasms during sex before with other guys, and I was able to get her across the finish line on a regular basis by figuring out how to work around her little issue.

    You're going to need to work with him, and try different positions that work for the two of you so that he can stay inside you. Mostly that's going to mean him being on top, and probably positions where your legs are spread really wide or your knees are way back, but, again, you're going to have to communicate and experiment and see what works for the two of you. I believe this is a problem that can be overcome, as I was able to do so, and I'm sure you guys can too.

Most Helpful Guy

  • My only experience with that was after I ejaculated, and she wanted me to stay in her. My penis softened up, as it would and her contractions pushed me out after I was much softer, made easier by her vaginal lubrication and my semen.

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  • I love that. Feeling a girl grip my cock with her vagina muscles. It means she’s enjoying what I’m doing. It means it’s tighter for my pleasure and for hers. If you were to push me out completely it just means I need to make my dick harder and push more to make her cum.

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  • This is a problem after 3 rounds or so depending on the position. My suggestion is to try a different position.

  • Jesus Christ...

  • its not true, he is not doing right!

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  • If you can feel when it's about to happen try pulling him close. It that doesn't work, try different positions where it's not as likely to happen, particularly with you on top.