Virgin with questions?

[Anonymous]

Oki doki, this may be long but here we go! I'm 20 years old and virgin though I've experimented with masturbation myself. I am relatively fit and short at only about 5'2". I can easily fit 1-2 of my small fingers in my vagina without it hurting but three is too much. I recently got into a long-term relationship and the topic of sex has been openly floating around but before I jump into anything I want to know a few things. 1. Is my vagina average tightness for a virgin or is it too loose? I am terrified of him being disappointed or not believing that I really am a virgin because I have a sloppy coin purse. 2. How big are you guys/ how big are your fingers and 3. How many fingers have you been able to fit into your girlfriends/wives/hook up? Please help!

[Orion1015]

One thing that I don't think you'll have to worry about is being too loose. The average guy is going to be bigger than two of your fingers. Unless he's seriously undersized, you're going to be just fine, no worries. You're definitely normal. Not loose, at all.

As for the second part of your question, I don't think my response for "how big are you" is going to be helpful. I am well above average in girth/thickness, so someone your size would be very tight for me.

I can generally only fit two of my fingers inside my girl, but she is still able to take my penis inside of her, despite the fact that I am thicker than three of my own fingers. The pount bring, vaginas are elastic. You will stretch to accomodate him, if he is larger than average.

You're really worrying over nothing. You're going to be fine. :)

[magicdragone]

There is a lot here love. And you lack of experience is really cute and not a problem. Fingering yourself does not give you a "sloppy coin purse". If anything it makes you know what you like and ready to um... receive him. My fingers are big so, twos the limit. I want to make you cum not hurt you.

As for yours, vaginas are not all the same. Some are tighter than others. I have honestly never pushed into one that I thought was "loose". I guarantee you yours is not. And this guy, if you are giving yourself to him he damn sure better not be disappointed. Ever. End of story.

Im told I'm "big". Whatever, I font know. I have big hands so big fingers. Two.

PS "fit and short, 5'2" you are the perfect height and size. Wow.

[ksoma]

OK. first: guys tend like tight. it feels better. more stimulating.
second: if he takes it slow and there is enough foreplay, things should still go smoothly.

remember, it is sort of elastic down there. Babies come out of that same hole, after all! it is made to stretch. And even a big dick is MUCH closer to the thickness of two fingers than it is to a baby :-p
and don't be afraid to buy lube. if you get wet enough that it isn't needed, that's great. but if you are concerned, lube is a great thing to have, because it can make a huge difference.

[Jack_S]

That tightness is normal. No guy is going to be disappointed with that unless he has very small girth

[Marttinez]

the tighter the better, since you're very short and fit, I'm sure your fingers are skinny so don't worry. I never put more than 2 fingers, I don't want to widen it lol

[xslope]

"1. Is my vagina average tightness for a virgin or is it too loose?"
Your vag sounds pretty average for me and it's how you act, not what you have that reveals how used to have sex you are.

"2. How big are you guys/ how big are your fingers and 3. How many fingers have you been able to fit into your girlfriends/wives/hook up?"
I'm 181cm but my fingers are a bit short. Normal width. I rarely finger a girls with more than two fingers, but I've done four with looooong foreplay. Don't expect it to happen to you.

"Also, what is your opinion on tight vs. loose vaginas. Is one better than the other?"
Tight feels nice, but isn't a requirement. Haven't had any that I would call loose, but then again I haven't slept around a lot. Average width of a penis is about the same as the cardboard scroll in your toilet paper roll, so you could check it out to see what to expect. Of course some have bigger than that, but there are also thinner ones.

[Anonymous]

My penis is slightly larger than four of my fingers squished together (so they're sort of stacked two and two not like flat obviously).

Yeah you're not too loose.

[Anonymous]

I'm only four inches and 1.25" wide, so I've never had sex...

But you should be perfectly fine.