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Wanking in bed next to your gf?

I have a greater sex drive than my gf. I would love to have sex everyday. I think she likes it once maybe twice a week. When I wake up with a hard on feeling really horny, and feel like there is no chance of me getting any help from her next to me, I go to bathroom and crack one out. Not sure if she knows what I'm doing or not. Girls, if your bf did this how would it make you feel and would it ever be ok to start wanking in bed next to her, in the hope that she may let me finish off on some part of her body. (if wouldn't mind, which part of body?)
wouldn't mind him wanking next to me.
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would not like him wanking next to me.
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I'm a guy.
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+1 y
Wow. Shocked by results of poll. Looks like I'm going to have to try it. I'll let you know how I get on. Think she is going to be shocked. Hope she doesn't call the wedding off.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I'd guess more women here would like it then the odds are your gf would.

    Women with a high sex drive would find it hot and join in.

    Women with a low drive who are already feeling pressured by your drive would likely not like it.

    Both the men and women on this site are biased towards higher then average sex drives, which is why they spend their time chatting about sex online, something I imagine your gf wouldn't do voluntarily.

    There are a lot of women, probably a minority, but a significant one, who would like to have sex daily or more, and believe it or not, they -have trouble finding men who want it that much-.

    • "Both the men and women on this site are biased towards higher then average sex drives, which is why they spend their time chatting about sex online, something I imagine your gf wouldn't do voluntarily." Very true.

    • Pretty sure it is, and just... its the reality. So whenever people ask 'would you do xyz' or 'how often do you want to' you will get both guys and girls insisting they are game, down for most things, want sex lots... and I think they're all telling the truth. We're just a biased sample :p

  • I asked this before - was told that most girls would prefer you do it somewhere else.

Most Helpful Girls

  • On some days, I wouldn't mind at all, but if it was an every day thing or even an every other day thing, I would honestly start viewing him as pig-like. Like he can never control his d*ck and not let his boners control him. I may start to feel slightly objectified if I can't go one week waking up next to my boyfriend without his cock out. Especially if he's planning on cumming on me all the time before I've even really brushed my teeth or mentally woken up completely...that's when it would become kinda nasty.

  • I wouldn't mind at all if he did it next to me. I rather him next to me knowing than him somewhere else and me wondering.

    I would also try to be understanding if my sex drive wasn't as high as his.

    I find it more honest, and it might get me in the mood too.

  • I'd prefer to have morning sex than let him wank himself. Better to BJ him than to leave him alone. Lol.

    • marry me.

    • Haha how funny. Lol.

    • I'll take that as a no. How often does your guy get a bj? if you don't mind me asking.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • My husband does that in front of me. Im not on birthcontrol so most of the time thats actually how he finishes when we have sex. just rubs it out while i lay there and watch and wait to catch it lol i find it soo hot!

  • I would not want him wanking off next to me without me knowing about it. What's the point of me being there?

  • If you are comfortable enough to have sex together an share a bed you should be comfortable enough to masturbate in the same room.

    If I don't feel like having sex with my partner I will say only a bj. Most of the time I get aroused during that bj and want to have sex. Its rare he has to do it all himself.

    • Dream girl. ;-)

  • Happened before, no big deal to me.

  • if he wanks next to me...i'll want him to fuck me instead..watching guys masturbate is absolutely a turn on to me...and if he wants to finish on some part of my body..it would be on my belly

    • totally agree

    • yeah

  • I'd love it if he did that. Watching a guy whack off is soooo hot.

  • i would be fine with that.
    i touch myself in front of my lovers because i can only orgasm that way.

  • I don't understand the girls who voted b

    I picked A but meant to pick C. lol

  • omg my ex did this. It was so disgusting. But he was probably doing it cuz at that point I wanted nothing to do with him...so I guess this answer is irrelevant

    • So I'm guessing he didn't get any help from yourself? Neither was he allowed to cum anywhere on your body? Where did he cum then?

  • If it was once in a blue moon I wouldn't care. I mean hell if I woke up to I'm wanking I would probably be like let me help you out. I've woke my husband before by playing with his dick because I need it (not like middle of the night, more like if I wake up before him) and he's never seem to mind it. And I wouldn't care if he woke me up before he left for work so we could have sex. That's just me though, I think I'm just way more horny in the mornings than I am any other time lol.

  • If he's doing it privately then that's fine
    But it's pervy if he's doing it in bed right next to me

  • A, I wouldn't care if he did it next to me, but I wouldn't really care for getting it on me if I wasn't in the mood cause then id have to get up and wash it off and if im not in the mood im probably feeling to lazy for that lol

  • i wouldn't care tbh. it might even turn me on

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