Was I Racially Fetishisied?

I've gotten a couple explicit dms from various older white gentleman who say they want to do nothing more than to impregnate me because I'm mixed with black.

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So to start off, I am a biracial Native American (Cherokee Indian) and African American girl. Some of the examples that made me believe that I was being racially fetishisied were things like him saying that 1️⃣he wanted to be my white daddy, 2️⃣that he loves my brown nipples and that he wants to fill me up with white babies so they can feed on them. 3️⃣ Then he complimented my thick curly hair multiple times and said that I was an exotic goddess.

Here are the messages from one of the white guys verbatim 👇 Trigger Warning ⚠️
Was I Racially Fetishisied?
Was I Racially Fetishisied?
Was I Racially Fetishisied?
Was I Racially Fetishisied?
"So I guess my question is... Am I being racially fetishisied OR is this more related to the raceplay/breeding BDSM Kink? No Judgements! I just want real answers and thoughtful feedback".

Follow Up: What Is The Fascination That Guys Have With Breeding/Impregnating A Woman Of Color?

"Insightful feedback is preferred..."
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  • Maybee but your a good looking woman with an incredible figure Soo they would probably dm you anyway. They may have just added the race to see if it was an issue for you. I'm mixed culture as well and some of my white friends have asked me why they get shot down by women of color. I tell them it could be a preference to some but it could also be in there approach acting all timid and shit. I usually joke and tell them if they want a chance they need to roll up with their credit report in hand.

    • I really enjoyed reading your post. You are so nice. Thank you for the awesome feedback

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  • I spend time on a chat site where breeding/impregnating, raceplay all seem to be common fetishes. But, not something everyone shares. (obviously). What caught my attention reading the DMs is that the guy assumed that what he was saying was ok. That he moved very quickly without gauging your interest. Reading it gives me the creeps.

    Adding race to the whole breeding mix makes it more confusing and wrong. Particularly when the advance isn't welcomed.

    • This comment is so spot on. Thank you for taking the time to explain your answer. Very insightful and helpful.

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  • I'd say both, racially fetishised and raceplay/breeding kink. If a guys main thing is a breeding kink though I've noticed the rest of what they are saying varies depending on the woman so I guess it depends if raceplay or breeding is his main kink/fetish

    • Thank you for explaining your answer and sharing detailed feedback. Very helpful

    • I've come across many guys with a breeding fetish

    • I have too apparently lol. Didn't even realize it was thing until I looked it up.

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  • It certainly has all the hallmarks of being fetishized. Can you explain more about the difference between race play and fetish for those of us in the back?

    • I'm not a teacher lol. You will have to Google it just like I did. I Google anything I want to learn more about.

  • Yes, unfortunately they were fetishizing you because you are black. While there isn't anything wrong with having a preference for people with certain looks, including skin colour, these replies seem to be mainly aimed at the fact that you're black. Especially saying that they want to be your "white daddy"... that is so wrong. How can someone even say something like that? It's racist and rude.

    • I agree with you 1000%. Thank you for taking the time to explain your answer!

  • Yikes
    Definitely a fetish

    • I was thinking the same thing

    • Well I hope some better men come along

  • I do believe the guy has some major underlining issues going on in his head no offense to anyone also he could have some type of fetish going on too hard to say

    • That's exactly how I felt. Like this isn't the 1700s anymore and Native Americans and African Americans are not just objects or property anymore. We are human beings. Not breeding machines or slaves to the white man.

    • @secret6620 I agree with you 100%

  • Maybe it's that black/mixed women make up most teenage pregnancies.

    • That's the most incorrect statement I've ever heard. Stay in school kid.

    • Eh. Look it up. They make up most single mothers too.

    • No. You look it up because it's false. As I said, stay in school

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  • They see those nice hips and naturally think of filling them with a baby!

    • Oh my goodness 🙊🙈!!

  • I'm surprised you haven't decked him, Will Smith style.

    • Lol I wish I could. I was in a state of shock before I blocked him

  • Seems like a fetish for your mix , I never picked out my ex wife because of that but she was Haitian, but some guys have that fascination or fetish for women of color. I thought you already got married though?

    • Thank you for sharing! And what does that have to do with guys inboxing me with these kinds of messages. That user got blocked after I realized his purpose. Confused by your question and it's relevance

    • Oh I thought maybe you could just say that you’re married so they stop even bothering

    • I've tried and that doesn't work unfortunately. They don't care about my feelings, status, etc. Only interested in getting what they want.

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  • Sounds like a fetish situation to me me

    • I completely agree. 1000%

  • Sounds like a fetish situation to me me

  • That is strange. Also, does he even know how genetics work? The bi-racial couples I know usually have children with dark skin.

    • Mixed children have varied skintones but I trust you know that. Some mixed children look more white and others look more black. Genetics is a unpredictable thing unless you utilize IVF

    • Ohhh. I just noticed that guy is 40? And he doesn’t know how to have a conversation with a woman. 😂 Was that on GaG?

    • No on my main social media site called Similar Worlds. That's where I am when I take breaks from the site. The only problem is that I just get such strange messages from males on that site. But that honestly happens on any social media app I'm on. I don't know what I'm doing wrong lol

  • I feel so disgusted that people like these exist in our society and women can't wear whatever they feel comfortable with.

    I wish these guys could be punished as per law.

    I know you are strong person so please dont let these comments affect you in any way

    • I was so taken aback and just shocked. Felt like I was being treated/objectified like a slave girl from the 1700s.

    • Racists like these need to be punished only then they will think twice next time before posting such comments

    • Facts

  • First choice. Too many people have a US southern plantation owner kink, so it seems. I guess too many guys live with the outdated ideas that people with a different color of skin are different

  • That is pretty disgusting and creepy. Not all old guys are like that. Having said that, you are a very beautiful woman and for that reason alone, I would sleep with you in a heartbeat.

    • Oh my goodness 🙈

    • I always enjoy having fun flirting with you. 😃

  • Yeah

    • I think so too

  • This seems to be a racist fetish.

    • I couldn't agree more

  • Unfortunately I think you're correct

    • It's so crazyyyyy! It's like being back during slave times when black and Native American women were kidnapped and raped just because our race is fetishisied and highly desired over a white woman's. It seriously blows my mind.

  • I'm sorry but you were definitely racially fetishised. How do you feel about that

    • Completely livid. I am a human being not property. And this isn't the 1700s anymore so I don't even know why guys still think like that.

    • Cause their thinking with the head that doesn't have a brain 😂

    • That makes sense but dang lol. I have more to offer than just breeding babies

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  • 🧘🏿 I need 🧘🏿

    • Yoga?

    • Am thinking about how someone would say something like that I guess it is all about the fetish and list he is got to do things to you more than hard sexual desires

  • Holding you down and pumping a little gift inside you? I’m sorry, but I am sickened by that

    • These are the types of messages I get unfortunately.

    • Being a First Nation’s person, the significance of that statement is appalling

    • It's literally so crazy

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