Was I really stupid?

[Anonymous]

I thought that I wouldn’t get pregnant because me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex only once it was during my period (my least fertile time) and he pulled out so I thought that I would be fine but now im missing my period for the first time. I feel really dumb he was complaining about using condoms and wasn’t staying hard because of them so I guess I kind of felt guilty too

[20yearsolder]

Yep, short answer. You were definitely stupid. So was he for bitching about wearing a condom. The problem is if you are pregnant he can walk away and you're the one that's stuck with the responsibility. It's not your problem that he can't stay hard wearing a condom.

[Asker]

He has planned to marry me since the beginning

[Twalli]

If you want to be safe the best time to have sex during your period is near the beginning. Sperm can survive inside of you for 5 days. So if you had sex near the beginning of your period, you should be safe.

[Mary087]

You could take the morning after pill if you’re not on birth control.

[Asker]

It’s too late now that was a month ago

[Anonymous]

I don't understand why you didn't give a blowjob to him instead of having sex. You're dumb enough

[Asker]

But I did my research before we did this

[Asker]

I guess that didn’t work out

[Opinion Owner]

Sorry for being rude to you. You're probably simply undecided. But still you're to blame. Obviously your boyfriend wants it raw, but you should be on the pill. It is better than destroying yourself in the doubts. In alternative, anal & oral can be done raw and are extremely pleasant for the guy, without giving you any issue for the future.

[Asker]

Well I was on the pill and went off because I wanted to lose weight besides it has a really long list of side effects me and my boyfriend have always used condoms and protection except for that one time and he pulled out and I also wasn’t near my fertile window and on my period so I don’t know what happend. I’m still unsure if I am pregnant but I never miss my periods so I’m not sure I kind of think I am but I’m going to wait to take anither pregnancy test because the other two were negative

[Opinion Owner]

Well, I assume that you're not pregnant, but another test is not a bad habit. Don't worry and sleep calm. Can't you really go back to pill? Condoms are unacceptable, and I understand completely your boyfriend.

[Asker]

I can’t have you seen the side effects list? It’s like two miles long lol

[Opinion Owner]

I see. Butin any case, the probability of being pregnant in your case is extremely low.

[Opinion Owner]

Anyway, health goes first and your boyfriend, if he truly loves you, will adapt. He won't be happy of using condom (who would be?) but it won't be a tragedy. Anyway, I had a history with a girl who was not on the pill (by choice). We agreed in pulling out, and with time I became a master in that technique. We also managed other techniques which I appreciated very much. Anyway, a condom cannot ruin a true love.

[Anonymous]

Everyone makes mistakes. Take a pregnancy test and see your doctor.