Was I selfish (I made my boyfriend get us condoms in the gas station because I didn’t cum after one round)?

[Anonymous]

So me and my boyfriend only had one round of sex because he only had one condom and he came but I didn’t so I told him that he could order it online and that ended up not working because everything is closed today on Easter so now I kind of made him go to the gas station to get more condoms. We only have sex about once a week or twice when we’re lucky, and I shaved my whole body because I thought today was my lucky day lol. I was a bit disappointed and sexually frustrated I kinda cried a little because I guess I was disappointed I shaved my whole body got all dressed up to not even cum and only have one short round. So now that I suggested for him to get condoms from the gast station now he’s out getting them.

[Anonymous]

No. Your not selfish. If he cares about you he’ll make sure your satisfied before he finishes. Talk to him. Communicate your frustration. There’s a good chance he had no idea and we’ll tweak his technique.

[Asker]

Well he got them and then stopped in the middle of sex to get dressed because I was bleeding too much from my period im embarrassed now and im not really talking to him i feel a bit bad

[bowenw]

It's not selfish. Condoms are for both of you. Don't be embarrassed because you got your period. It's a normal bodily function that he should understand.

[Anonymous]

Have him lick your pussy first until you cum next time and then have sex after that.

[Asker]

I feel like he’s selfish because if I hadn’t had said anything he wouldn’t even have asked me if I came I was so horny that I even told him that we could go raw and pull out since im at my least fertile point in my cycle and he didn’t want to do that

[Asker]

I don’t know if I like oral that much I feel like im going to pee and I don’t enjoy it much im also spotting on the last days of my period

[Opinion Owner]

It's not pee, girls squirt when they get licked. I understand if you're still having your period but try it next time. But if a guy cares about you, you will be compatible, not with some selfish guy. It's not good to take risks though.

[Asker]

Do you think that he’s selfish? Maybe he’s just more clueless? But he didn’t even ask me if I came

[Opinion Owner]

Yes maybe he's just stupid, lol I don't know him , you do, but try communication with him. If he loves you, then he will listen, don't cry, and don't worry

[Asker]

Well after he got the condoms we tried to have sex again but I guess I was bleeding too much and he got turned off so he stopped in the middle of it and got dressed i feel embarrassed now

[Asker]

Or spotting too much

[Opinion Owner]

I can understand, just wait until next time. I don't want period sex either. But just don't do it until it's over next time. And don't worry.

[Asker]

And he’s just been entering and exiting the room the whole day of us hanging out today. Im kind of annoyed i wonder what’s up with that

[Opinion Owner]

I don't him, maybe he's drinking or drugs or something. I don't treat a girl like that, so I don't know. Try talking to him to find out.

[Asker]

He doesn’t do drinking or drugs but he’s on the phone a lot even after sex he goes directly to check his sports until i started questioning him and telling him that I Don’t like that

[Asker]

He left the room after he asked me if something was wrong several tomes and I didn’t answer just looking at my phone

[Opinion Owner]

I guess he just doesn't care about how you feel, that's what it sounds like.

[Opinion Owner]

Tell him what's wrong or he won't know.

[Asker]

I did he tried to comfort me.

[Opinion Owner]

Ok good luck then

[Asker]

Thank you

[Opinion Owner]

You're welcome and have fun and don't cry :)

[Asker]

I want to start a life together and get married it’s been over two years i know that im 20 and he’s only 24 but im tired of sneaking around to have sex and then heading back home a few hours later

[Opinion Owner]

Good luck, it's not good to sneak around. Why are you sneaking around?

[Asker]

We both live with our parents

[Opinion Owner]

Oh ok good luck then :)

[SarahP080102]

Smart idea.

[Kabluie]

Having just one condom on Easter was already asking for trouble, gotta be loaded if you need them.

[IsoUser]

You weren't selfish at all you're just protecting yourself.

[jimmy2]

God bless you dear love is hard