Was it normal for me to last about 30 minutes my first time?

[MaximisPryme]

Having severe anxiety, I think I had issues finishing my first time (I lost my virginity a while ago), and I just couldn't finish, even if I gave it my all, until 30 minutes later, I finally finished. I am getting better, since I spoke to my doctor, and she gave me medication to help, but I still have many days where I cannot finish. Even if I am by myself, I sometimes have trouble still doing so.

Is that normal? I have had bloodwork and an EKG done, they are both fine, so we both have concluded that it is all in my head, with little to no interference, from a physiological standpoint.

[DizzyDesii]

Thats a lot more than some. Both my exes lasted 5 mins on most rounds even after virginity 😂 But that was just for their first cum. The second ex was able to still go for hours different rounds after. The first ex only made it 30-45 mins twice in our sex life. All his other times were less than 10 mins. I love a quick cummer but i hate a guy who can't keep going round after round after cumming

[MaximisPryme]

There are times I feel I will quickly climax, but that is rare. Mostly, I just feel a chill (Pleasurable one at that) through my body when I first insert, but then the feeling goes away in about 10 seconds, and I have trouble getting to climax afterwards. I find that my dick gets overly sensitive, and sucking on it hurts if I were to get to suck on it after intercourse (I still haven't climaxed yet), and I am even circumcised, which is really odd. I reckon both guys were bigger than me, because I believe the larger the guy is, he will not last that long, due to more friction.

[DizzyDesii]

I also have trouble climaxing depending on the position. But the first ex was uncirc and 7 inches soft, 8+ hard. The second ex was circumsized but like 4 inches or less.

[MaximisPryme]

Of which proves my theory.

[DizzyDesii]

From what i hear, its about the circumsision. Not the size. S lot of the uncircs who jerked off came in 5-10 mins. The circs came in 15-20+ mins

[MaximisPryme]

There has been studies that proved that it does NOT change the sensitivity.

[DizzyDesii]

I didn't say it changes sensitivity. I said it affects how fast they cum

[MaximisPryme]

Sensitivity does play a huge role in that though?

[davmago]

Yes it is normal. Being nervous can make you cum very quick or make it difficult to cum, both are possible

[MaximisPryme]

Anxiety makes you cum fast? That doesn't make sense... I find that my anxiety makes my sympathetic nervous system (Fight or flight response) activate, of which can make it hard for me to keep an erection, let alone climax.

[davmago]

I'm not talking about anxiety. If it was your first time yo probably were nervous and VERY horny and aroused. That can make you cum in seconds without almost been touched

[MaximisPryme]

‘Being nervous can make you cum very quick or make it difficult to cum, both are possible’. Being nervous is a manifestation of anxiety.

[davmago]

Yeah, every person who is nervous in a particular moment has severe anxiety, sure