Was she out of line?

[Anonymous]

So my girlfriend had this bet with her best friend. My girlfriend lost. The forfeit?

It was to clean the other girls apartment... naked.

So my girlfriend goes to her friends apartment. Her friend has her boyfriend over. She proceeds to strip naked then cleans her apartment from top to bottom.

She told me about it when she got home, and was very very aroused by the situation. She told me all about it as she rode herself on me to several orgasms. How she had to bend over in front of them both so she could dust. How her boobs wobbled all the time as she worked.

I mean, her story turned me on. I have feelings of jealousy and betrayal though. After the sex, I told her I was upset. And she shouldn't have done it. She replied that if she had won the bet, she would have been happy to let me watch her friend clean our place naked. And as she paid the forfeit, and it's her body, I don't really have any right to complain.

Her friends boyfriend is my buddy. So now my mate has seen my girl nude, and virtually every naked detail of her to boot. I actually feel sick about it. And I think this is almost a deal breaker.

She crossed the line right? And should I dump her?

[kaylaS91]

This story actually sounds like how lots of erotica written for people who are into cuckoldry begin.

Assuming your story is real, though, this one's tricky. Assuming you trust that your girlfriend didn't actually do anything (like hookup with her friend and/or her friend's boyfriend), she's free to be naked or clothed. Freedom is different than having some mutual respect though, y'know? Like I trust my fiance but that'd definitely be damaged if I found out that he had spent time hanging out with another chick on his own and didn't tell me.

So yeah. I'd tell her that you're not upset per se but that you feel like it's a good time to establish some boundaries regarding nudity around others, etc..

[VanessaYX]

Sounds like she has discovered her exhibitionist side. Now she's got a taste for it she will probably want to do something similar again. But being an exhibitionist myself i can tell you that just because she likes to show off, doesn't mean she's going to cheat on you. I luv to show off my body but dont necessarily want sex with guys i show to.

[Asker]

Ok, thanks for that. Can I ask if any partners you had during any of these moment felt any jealousy? And how would you respond if you were asked to stop doing it?

[VanessaYX]

Yes sometimes they did feel jealousy or uncomfortable. You can message me about it if you would like some more detail.

[Red_Arrow]

I agree. And you are a beautiful exhibitionist! 😛 it was just a bad way to find out she is. And in person, up close, with all those views could be over the line for many. One solution would be for both gals to clean like that in front of both guys since the guys are pals. I think both guys and both gals would enjoy.

[colelydiason]

People often have different ideas of what cheating is. For some it starts at kissing and for others it is less. She needs to know where you draw the line.
It isn't about her body, its her intentions. She can hide behind "it was a bet, I had to" but why was that on the table in the first place?
She might be exploring a fetish she didn't know she had

[Asker]

She was very aroused when she for home. Practically jumped on me. Perhaps exhibitionism or something? I get sharing fantasies, not her naked body though. Thanks for replying :)

[AustinMan]

Step back from the dump switch and breathe!! Do you think you're the only guy who'll ever see her naked. I'm guessing you're not her first lover. Ask her to refrain from displaying her intimate charms to any other men except you. If she agrees, let it go.

How would you feel about giving her a hot, hard bare bottom spanking?

[cinnamoncat]

damn i get it too. i understand it is her body and stuff. if she was single i'd be fine. but now that she is in a relationship, compromises are allowed to be made. maybe u can compromise with her that you don't want her to be showing her bare body infront of another dude again. like maybe she could clean her friend's apartment when there are no guys there. like yeah im sure some guys would let their girl do that. yes sure. but some guys dont. its completely normal. people have their own set of likings. compromise with her. if she doesn't agree it and it is really just something you want to be dealing with, then it's your choice to let her go. it's normal to have compromises in relationships. again, u do u, sir. cheers 🍻

[OlderAndWiser]

If it is a dealbreaker, why did you fuck her several times after she told you the story?

[Asker]

It was once, and she told me about it during sex, not before.

[OlderAndWiser]

Saying it's a dealbreaker and that it turned you on seems a bit inconsistent.

[Asker]

She was telling me about it during sex. She was really turned on, and at that moment, the story seemed hot. Fantasy like. In the cold light of day though, not so much...

[Red_Arrow]

Don’t dump her. She kind of was tricked (if she did not know the boyfriend would be there) so a bit of a line was crossed. Sounds like she enjoyed exhibiting her body and that is not a bad thing. You just need to have some ground rules that let her express that side of her. See my answer to Vanessa for an idea that could work in your favor!

[ArcadianBanks]

I'd be dumping, that's so disloyal

[Twalli]

I would say her friend is the one who crossed the line.

[billluc69]

keep her, she sounds fun

[Anonymous]

She was out of line, I'd even count this as borderline cheating. You two are in a relationship, that means it's no longer just about her, something she should have remembered when making stupid decisions like that that bet. Given the fact that she doesn't see how what she did was wrong, I don't think she's mature enough for a romantic relationship.