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Was there a fantasy that you had that got ruined by others bad behavior?

I used to be have this fantasy that I’d lie back on a pool table and let some of every race/ethnicity (a black, white, Asian, and hispanic guy) all caress me at once. It wasn't a race fetish thing but i just wanted to keep it diverse. I also didn't want to fck any of them. I just wanted the ultimate seduction. I wanted to makeout with one as he caressed my hair with his fingers. I wanted the other two to go back and forth between kissing my neck and sucking on my left and right tit at the same time. And i wanted the fourth to eat me out while fingering me lol. I just wanted the ultimate pleasure all at once. Of course the thought of having one of the 4 guys stay behind at the end of it all so that I could fck/suck him crossed my mind... but that wouldn't have been fair to the others. I also didn't want them using me as a cum bucket.
AND THEN MY FANTASY WAS RUINED— After a group of classmates tackled me onto the desk and pinned me down while taking turns grinding/dryhumping me roughly (as if we were on the stage of a teenage frat “freakshow” receiving lapdances), i lost interest in my pool table fantasy. I screamed for the teachers help and she did nothing but continued talking on the phone to her husband. Thankfully the last guy wasn't as fit/athletic and i was able to knock him off and run out of the classroom. But yea, I just can't trust a group of people to stay well-behaved. What happened was something i didn't ask for and had no control over and that was scary. Even though i’d have control over the guys partaking in my pool table fantasy, they could possibly switch gears and get too horny and gang up on me since I’m outnumbered. I think Its just easier to find ONE GUY who completely has my trust and knows how to multitask. How was one of your fantasies ruined?
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Doggy was also ruined for me thanks to my exes. It slightly appealed because i liked grinding my ass against the guys hardon. And i love being hugged from behind. But both knew i have absolutely no interest in Anal and both tried to force themselves into that hole. So im not even comfortable having vaginal sex from behind because i can't trust the guy to not try to force anal
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  • I don't think I have a fantasy that was ruined.

    But I do have pool table fantasies for sure. But it usually involves her leaning over the table. And I am either behind her or on the other side of the table looking down her loose shirt.

    • Nice

    • Even though your pool table fantasy was ruined would you help your partner with their pool table fantasy?

    • Im still doing it on a pool table. But with only one person

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  • Omg that's soo horrible 😣😣😣
    Now i understand y ur so against threesome or anything else...
    It must b so scary for u.. 😔😔

    Was there a fantasy that you had that got ruined by others bad behavior?

    I don't know what else to say but to just give u a hug 🤗🤗🤗

    • Yea im not into 3somes for several reasons but one being because i’d be outnumbered

    • Ha got it 🥺🥺 But seriously u had to go through too much 😣😣

    • Fuck even doggy 😣😣😣 Where do u get this DUMBASS BFs from 😕😕 That's so disgusting... To force a girl to do anything or do things that she doesn't like 😔😔 Its just too horrible 😡😡

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  • fantasy to reach home and a girl would kneel and suck me immediately.
    also wake up with a blowjob.
    also that my partner like me so much to the point she will invite her hot friends to fuck them.
    hmm that pretty much it :3 but then i realized these will never happen dont think there is any girl will ever do those

    • The first with the blowjob was quite possible. But i find it disrespectful for a guy to want to fck his girls friends. The thought would be a dealbreaker for me. A threesome topic would make me mad but wanting it to be one of my friends would make me immediately dump

    • i agree about the deal breaker i would never want to do it in real life , its just a fantasy i have it and when am in relationship i dont ever think of it or want it. its just a thing dont know how to explain. in general when am with a girl i really crave her alone. i can't split the feelings from the pleasure for me love making and sex is one thing , yes sometimes its more of a fuck job/animalistic moment and other times its more romantic/lovemaking but still its always a mixture of kissing and pleasure seeking so its both and that i can't do with some random person nor her hot friends nor i will desire it when i have someone. last relationship i had chance 2 girls loved me but i ended with 1, even thu they both knew and was willing to stay hanged with me dating etc.. but i didn't do that and chose 1. unfortunate hhhh now both relationship didn't work

    • I've been in numerous love triangles since preschool so I can relate 😂 I’ve liked both and they knew about eachother but the moment i felt i loved one of them or wanted to kiss either of them, i ended things with one of them first. I refuse to be physical with more than one guy at a time

  • I had this fantasy of doing some light bdsm and flip flopping dom/sub roles. I even bought some kickass leather cuffs and gear to play with. My girlfriend at the time rejected it, called me weird and asked me if I was a freak.
    because of the comments, i ended up cheating on her and later dumped her and moved on. She ruined a fantasy adventure for me that I picked up again a couple years later

    • Ummmm lmao. Im sorry I don't know what to say

    • Haha no response necessary. Not a good match so we moved on! 7 years ago, doesn’t phase me at all anymore

    • At least your fantasy came back. Mines a goner. I wouldn't even do a 3some because im still outnumbered 🤣

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  • you really had the wildest school ever... lol

    • Yep small little countryside school. Only like 50 people in my graduating class

  • Not that I can think of.

  • The only one who ruins my fantasy's is me when I wake up from them.

    • Lmao but do you know anyone whos done your fantasy and kinda fcked it up for ya

    • Hmmm nope can't say I have.

  • I’ve always been really sexual and stupid guys kinda ruined that for me by cheating on me and sleeping with other girls. I slowly started gaining my confidence and sex appeal again though by buying lingerie, working out and let’s just say approval from other men :)

    • But have they ruined an actual fantasy? For example i was never into anal but after someone tried to force anal on me, that insured that i’d never willingly try it

    • Girl I’m sorry that’s really bad :(

  • That's horrible, I'm so sorry that you had face that.

    As for my own, i don't really have a fantasy as such, I'm essentially an inexperienced prude

    • Yea it was bad and im glad you haven't had one ruined

  • sorry you had to go through that experience.

    • Thank you

    • as far as your intial question, can't recall any

  • Never had any particular fantasy, I always liked to have fun and learn new stuff

    • Oh i see

  • I never really had and my fantasy ruin however a girl kinda ruin me being tied up for awhile because she was causing me pain instead of pleasure.

    • Yea i dont trust people into bondage. Deep down they have an ulterior motive lmao

    • Yeah I just make sure to know and trust her before I let her tie me up and have her way with me.

  • Yah I have had fanties of being at a nude beach an girls walking by looking at me like I was candy then it got interrupted by a phone call from the pizza delivery service

    • An I've never tried forcing a girl to do anything but I've suggested to my ex to drink more water after sex cuz she was so sweaty but I know how not to break her rule to her body sense I wouldn't want her sticking a dildo up my butt i had one ex who wanted to try it

    • But drinking more water will make hr sweat more

    • Yah but you dont want a stroke

  • I never experienced that

    • Lucky

    • I have been extremely lucky with women

    • I usually don’t even try to do anal with the girls I fuck. My cock too thick for anal, fits good in a warm, wet pussy where I will make my deposit.

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  • Well what kind of Fantasy , Normal or Naughty?

    • Fantasys are usually naughty

    • Yeah , but met some people who had normal fantasies so had to ask. Nevermind. Well my girlfriend and I were planning a double date with one of her friends and her boyfriend. Everything was perfect and we always wanted to get a little naughty at the dinner table while we were with another couple and it seemed like a good opportunity so we started to get a little touchy and that's where that guy started to act like a child. He didn't like the food , argued a lot with the Waiter and the Manager and we got kicked because of him and he got angry on my Girlfriend's friend and left.

    • Maybe when you say normal fantasy, you're referring to a daydream because I don't know whay you're talking about

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  • Wow! Sounds as if sex in general has been ruined for you.

    • Lmao trust, it hasn't 😂 there's do many other things that can still be done. It just doesn't involve multiple men or doggy or anal

  • Yes.

    • What was it

    • Participate in orgy with 2 women at least

    • Oh wow.

  • No I have not.

  • I'm terribly sorry. That's just wrong.

    • Yes the details are worse but thank you 🙏

  • I used to fantasy that I would meet a girl and spend the rest of my life with her and be happy... Ten years ago i meant that girl the one girl I truly believe was that perfect girl that I thought I'd be happy with for her the rest of my life and we had 3 beautiful children together 2 girls and a son... Well in the 10 years come find out I know she cheated on me multiple times with my friends And with each time I forgave her cause I loved her and yeah she's the mother and my children. And now I live down the road from her and her new boyfriend and nothing haves changed because she is at this moment down stairs sleeping with a guy that was once my friend and is also friends with new boyfriend..
    So the fantasy that true love is real dead and f$%k friends there all back Staber...

    • Wow thats so wrong how she did you. Yea idgaf about friends but dont let her hold u back from finding love again

    • I'm trying not to but after I stupidly let her you might as well say let her do and get away with it it's really hard to trust

  • Wow that’s an interesting fantasy, having all your exogenous zones stimulated at the same time, I think you could pull it off with two guys that you trust

    • I’d still be outnumbered so i can't

    • Hire a bodyguard to watch 😊 not sure what you can do for that if you can’t trust them, one would have to be a boyfriend then to keep anything bad from happening I guess

    • I rather just stick with one man who can multitask

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  • This story quickly turned into something dark. This was scary just reading it. It's like you got jumped, but they wanted to your body instead of your money and phone..
    I don't have anyting similar.

    I knew a girl who got randomly fingered by a drunk guy "friend" when they were hanging out and she hated that. She was so sad about what happened.. i remember her tellin me this thinking i wouldn't like her, because this happened to her.

    • It sucked because they were all guys i liked many years before and thought we had some level of trust built but i was never physical with them other than a hug. Bt yea one day i was just standing in front of the table stacking papers and one picked me up and slammed me down and the others ran over and kept me pinned as they took turns. I couldnt look at any of them the same. I was very hurt by them and the teacher. I wouldn't go near any of then for the rest of the school year. And yes getting fingered by a drunk? He prob went too deep when she said stop or something. I wouldve wanted to knock his ass over head with a lamp had one been nearby. I wish a lamp was in that classroom with me

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