Was this considered rape?

[Anonymous]

I was having sex with my ex like 2 weeks ago. I told him that I wouldn't give him head anymore but I will have sex with him. I told him this the day day before we had sex. The day that we had sex he asked me to give him oral again, I said no and he grabbed my hair and grabbed my throat. I had to act like it was normal because people were home and they were asleep

[Makeushiver]

Whether it was legally rape or not is almost beside the point. It was forced, it was forced after you clearly stated boundaries. If that's how he treats you I'd just stay away from him. It doesn't seem worth any pleasure to risk that type of treatment. It would be difficult talking to cops about it but they don't need to know the specifics to grant you a restraining order.

[Berethor]

Maybe, though most people consider oral less serious than PIV, and you had gave him head in the past, in any case it was abusive and unnecessarily greedy of your ex.

[ManWithThePlan123]

Well this is certainly sexual assault. Some people classify rape as different holes, and whatever. Just call the police.

[Mikelaughs]

Must be difficult to deal with because of the situation.
Hmu if you want to talk about it

[bowenw]

Whatever it was it was totally disrespectful and you should never see him again.

[helva]

According to our laws it is rape.

[DiegoO]

Is rape. It was forced sexual interaction, so yes, rape.

[DiegoO]

"he grabbed my hair and grabbed my throat. I had to act like it was normal because people were home and they were asleep" Hun, all he did equals sexual violence.

[Asker]

I was just telling what happened.

[joeldalton]

Did you suck his dick? Then it wasn’t rape.

[ManWithThePlan123]

Tf are you on about. She said no and he did it anyway.

[joeldalton]

@ManWithThePlan123 lol, you believe this nonsense story?

[ManWithThePlan123]

No, I just play the "just in case" game

[joeldalton]

@ManWithThePlan123 don’t white knight trolls.

[ManWithThePlan123]

True, I probably should gave just ignored it ngl

[In_Trance]

Not rape

[Valnac]

Yes it is, definitely!
You should have bitten him.

[CreamySeed]

Meh you were willing to fuck the guy probably just assault and battery, id leave the guy though he a pos

[scooogy]

What did you save now asking us and not the police? Time? Money?

[kilimanj]

Whilst this isn't technically rape (rape is usually unconsent penetration) that doesn't matter. This is still sexual assault and pretty serious. You were very clear in what you consented to, and that person forced you to do something you did not want to do.

[Anonymous]

If he forced you to give him head after you told him you didn't want to that is rape.

[Anonymous]

That is forcible sodomy, not rape.