Watching porn together can be good for your relationship, agree or disagree?

[jack1924]

[ArrowheadSW]

I think it can go either way. If it is discussed ahead of time, I think that would be a plus. You would want to make sure you are both on the same page with it. Probably best to watch the porn that has to do with loving couples, rather than the usual overly rough or abusive stuff.

[Alex-Snow]

I have watched porn with some girlfriends. We always ended up getting naked and sharing several orgasms.

[Yoursweetgirl]

Depends, if the other person doesn't gey jealous or mad then why not?
Personally I love watching or just sharing porn links that I like with my so

[KarinMcDonald]

Oh, I wholeheartedly agree that it can be a positive joint venture. It has opened new doors for my husband and myself.

[BCRanger10]

Watching porn is a terrible idea for anyone, whether they're single or on a relationship.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Nah.

[LaurenM1997]

I agree with you @BCRanger10

[NathanDavis]

could be fun for the "right healthier couple"... others, should not mess with that

not saying that couples that are not into porn are not healthy... they can be as healthy and all that, just not into porn

[Wetdreamz]

Disagree for most relationships due to mismatch in level of securness in themselves, or because of possible judgement detrimental to their relationship based on what kind of porn one of them pulls up

[Sevenpointfive]

i'm going to say no.

there's no love in porn.

i don't quite get fantasy but it could be related?

in my experience, you have someone uncomfortable being sexual in the relationship. maybe they have an insecurity? they have a hard time not focusing on that insecurity and need some help with an outside element. it doesn't always work. but it's a step. if you like the person i'd try that step again

[LaurenM1997]

Do you know that porn is fake and it’s not real?

[jack1924]

Hmmm. It seems real to me.

[LaurenM1997]

No it’s not real it’s fake

[LaurenM1997]

They may be having sex but it’s really fake sounds and stuff

[jack1924]

Maybe.

[LaurenM1997]

It can ruin someone’s mind about sex

[LaurenM1997]

It’s not a maybe it’s the truth

[LaurenM1997]

It does not convey an accurate representation of adult sexual behaviours and desires. Most porn films are made in the same way as mainstream movies with scripts, actors, directors and are filmed over the course of days. Hours of footage are edited down by producers to be completely unrelated to real sexual experiences.

[jack1924]

I think if someone start watching it in early teenage years, it might do that but not as an adult

[LaurenM1997]

See there's the answer there it’s not REAL!

[LaurenM1997]

I just want to clarify that it’s fake and it’s not real

[TheSpaceGnome]

Porn with actual people in it is real, some are actors and some are not, but both are real. Most porn conveys real sexual desires, even CGI porn and animated porn, which are fake, but still depict real people's desires and behaviors. All 4 are good though, and none of them ruin people's minds.

[LaurenM1997]

@TheSpaceGnome sometimes it can ruin people’s minds and it’s fake cause it’s all scripted and stuff it’s like acting

[TheSpaceGnome]

Not all porn is scripted, in fact most of it isn't. 90% of porn is just random people uploading their sex or masturbation vids or nude pics from their phones to the internet, paid porn actors account for very little, and most of the scripted porn is animated. in Any case it doesn't ruin peoples minds, scripted or not. Media doesn't influence the mind, the mind instead influences what mediais created or looked up.

[LaurenM1997]

@TheSpaceGnome no Media does influence the mind and anime has nothing to do with what I said websites like brazzers , Pornhub and stuff like that can put up scripted stuff and yes there is homemade porn but that’s not what I’m talking about I am talking about fake porn

[TheSpaceGnome]

My point is valid.

[LaurenM1997]

@TheSpaceGnome and so is mine

[TheSpaceGnome]

No, you're claims that media influences people and that porn ruins minds are false.

[LaurenM1997]

@TheSpaceGnome omg porn does ruin people’s mind it bring them the expectation of it in bed when it’s not the same!

[Fireguy17]

I dated one girl that loved watching porn.
Me I can take it or leave it.
However, she would get all sorts of horny when watching it, and I was right there to reap the benefits.

[The_Sexpert]

Yes, but within a limit

If it ends up with you two trying something you saw and not going as planned and being disappointed about that... not good

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Sorry, disagree porn can ruin ones mind.

[LaurenM1997]

I agree porn is fake

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@LaurenM1997 Yes, it's fake I agree I admit staying away from it because it carries viruses that can slow down one's device (cell phone, computer, etc.)

[LaurenM1997]

Yeah it’s bad

[TheSpaceGnome]

Nah.

[LaurenM1997]

@TheSpaceGnome you are so delusional

[elizamichale1]

It has been gud for me n my partner

[Nikki1989]

Only people with small brains and a shitty sex life watch porn.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Agree.

[Titanic1912]

I completely disagree. The naked body of a woman can definitely arouse a man, but a man should only let his girlfriend/wife arouse him. The body of a naked woman is the most beautiful thing a man will ever see.

[soe11]

• Yes, indeed
• We watch together.
• Some occasion my girlfriend's mum and me.
• Some occasion all three together too.

[jack1924]

Lmfao

[DrPepper12]

It can be fantastic! It sparks conversations about what's hot and what's not, what kinks are interesting, what you might be curious about trying. I think couples should watch porn together. I only see positives and no negatives.

[Iron_Man]

Not good it probably leads to things that you shouldn’t be doing that you’ll feel guilty about later

[Still-alive]

it can yes. i won't say it 'will' as sometimes it can harm it, but those cases are few

[boobliker]

no it turns her OFF big time

[Twalli]

Strongly agree. It can also give you ideas on new things to try

[dean53AU]

Agree, I've watched porn with most exgfs and friends with benefits

[Dongie]

Disagree. It's nasty, yet hot, almost every boy is sporting a bigger. love gun and the girls are usually smoking which means I get to be questioned about my opinion. So then I counter with how would she like that 10 inch woo-hoo. Then I get that tired old lie about size doesn't matter except to us guys. HUH, bullshit!!!