Watching porn when you are in relationship?

[Anonymous]

Guys If you watch porn and you are married or in a relationship , is it mean that you are not satisfied with your partner down inside your heart?

[Anonymous]

Every dude is a little different in this regard, but personally, If I'm using porn, it's because my partner either isn't up to the task of satisfying me (I have a lot of staying power, and she's usually exhausted/can't continue after 1-2hrs of cumming), we are long temporarily distance and she isn't available for a 'spicy' video call, or it's because I never was attracted to her body to begin with (was once in a relationship like that because we where good friends and I knew she had a massive crush on me, but I wasn't actually attracted to her and didn't want to ruin our friendship of almost 6 years. Was young and dumb but now I know better then to do that ever again).

If your worried about your significant others use of porn, talk to them directly about it in a calm, safe environment were they feel they can answer honestly. Don't judge them for whatever their reasoning is, listen and ask verification questions, then tell them your concerns if you have any.

Hope that helps.

[Dargil]

It depends on what we watch and why. I do not care about plots or silly play acting. But I am interested in How Stuff Works and what it looks like when it does. Acts, body reactions, fluids. techniques. Scientific curiosity for sex. I watch short keyword clips that get to the point.

[Anonymous]

For us girls yes when we catch men doing that it is all that means!

I'm not hot enough! I'm not good enough! Not enough sex?

But often the guys are just bored and horny to much effort for us!

When it's couples it can get fun!

[Alexz0]

No not at all. Porn is fine and good at any time.

[Paris13]

I Feel as a COUPLE It Entices and Spices But Alone? NO NO!!! xxoo

[DarkWinterNights]

Possibly, but it could also be a porn addiction.

[stratford]

Most of the stuff in modern porn would never happen in a real relationship, for the average person.

Guys learn sexual fantasies from porn and so it's probably two separate things for a lot of guys.

[godurty]

No, nothing like that, even sometimes me and my wife watch it together and try different positions and other things from that, lol... it spice up our sex life..

[Jamie05rhs]

Yes. That is why you should always do the PNC Test (post-nut clarity) whenever you are considering dating someone. Watch porn, and then look at their picture. If you're still attracted to her, you're good to go! But if, after the test, you think she's ugly, do NOT date her!!

[LiamJHayden]

Porn is mind poison.

[TonyMetal___86]

Yes and no, personally i'm single and not watching so if one day i got married, for sure i won't even think about it, i prefer the reality instead of just watching...

[Wise4myage]

I think its fine as long as it doesn't become addicting, which seems to happen a lot.

[BigDog1989]

prob.

[Grovermint]

Not necessarily. It could mean they just want a quick wank and don't want to bug you. If they're using it as a substitute completely, then something is wrong. If I had a partner and we had intercourse regularly, I wouldn't bother with it or masturbating.

[Twalli]

No, it means that we don't have enough time to have sex if I want to get off work before I go to sleep.

[Nigjt]

Not for me because porn only becomes real when I am who ever make it real so I only use it for things to come up with.
God Bless

[In_Trance]

No it doesn't

[bananathunder]

no. It's normal. Sometimes your partner isn't available, and you might want to get yourself off

[Anonymous]

If you watch "the notebook" or fantasize about other men does that mean you're not satisfied with yours?

[Anonymous]

It always doesn't mean that it could go either way. Maybe they're trying to improve their sex life